Shipping addict

Please have a moment of silence for the people who were killed instead of freed when news of emancipation finally reached the furthest corners of the american south.

have another moment for the ledgers, catalogs, and records that were burned and the homes that were destroyed to hide the presence of very much alive and still enslaved people on dozens of plantations and homesteads across the south for decades after emancipation.

and have a third moment for those who were hunted and killed while fleeing the south to find safety across the border, overseas, in the north and to the west.

black people. light a candle, write a note to those who have passed telling them what you have achieved in spite of the racist and intolerant conditions of this world, feel the warmth of the flame under your hand, say a prayer of rememberance if you are religious, place the note under the candle, and then blow it out.

if you have children, sit them down and tell them anything you know about the life of oldest black person you've ever met. it doesn't have to be your own family. tell them what you know about what life was like for us in the days, years, decades after emancipation. if you don't know much, look it up and learn about it together.

This is Juneteenth.

💚steddie || ronance💛 parralels / chaotic 😜 gay || cool 😐 bi

Idiot

Not very smart

Fucking stupid

If a female character can only wear skimpy clothing for some given reason, that is an excuse to sexualize her.

If an organization can only be populated men, that is often an excuse to not have to create female characters.

A great explanation of the terms here-

drinkers? NO CHILL AT ALL. even into adulthood people act like i’ve slain their child when i say i am completely sober. like every single time i’ve said no to drinking some person is like ‘what about jello shots there’s barely any in it’ or they’ll leave me a solo cup of wine ‘in case you change your mind’ and when by the end of the night i haven’t had it they’re all ‘you didn’t want any?’ LIKE? YAH I SAID I DIDNT? 

entp: “and i said no. you know, like a liar.”

infp: “i am very small. and i have no money. so you can imagine the stress i am under.”

intp: “in terms of like, instant relief, cancelling plans is like heroin.”

esfp: “"f*** da police!” and everyone else joined in. a hundred drunk white children yelling f*** da police.”

enfp: "i was just shiny and dumb and easy to trick.”

estp: “and he told me, "if you use that word, there will be a protest of midgets on this building!” and i said, “promise?”“

isfp: "my vibe is like, hey you could probably pour soup in my lap and i’ll apologize to you.”

intj: “i’ll keep all of my emotions right here, and then one day, i’ll die.”

estj: “brush your teeth. now, boom, orange juice. that’s life.”

enfj: “i just need everyone to like me so bad.”

istp: “and i’m like "nO! that’s the thing i’m sensitive about!”“

esfj: "thirteen year-olds are the scariest people on this planet. they terrify me to this day.”

istj: “God can’t hear you.”

entj: “first off, no.”

isfj: “everyone get out of my way. i just want to sit here and feed my birds.”

jokes? puns? yes please

so long as you aren’t making them for attention–we haven’t got that much attention to give

appreciate our obscure references. You don’t have to actually understand, just smile like you do

feed us

be able to hold a conversation, and also sit with us in silence

periodically supply us with books referrals, useless facts, and random trivia

yes, we are often self-destructive, but don’t smother us with your protection. Let us walk into walls sometimes, it brings us back to reality

did I mention we like food

don’t call our ideas stupid or impractical, even if they are. Gently supply advice

if we finally fall asleep, do not awaken us. Do Not.

small doses of affection at first. We are affection-starved and have learned how to operate without it. INTP will rebel if showered with affection too soon

if we come to you, don’t shut us down. We’re Fe stupid, and will take it to heart and never approach you again

really we’re cats. Just treat us like you would a cat

we’ll probably even chase the red dot