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uie-deactivated20230402

ALWAYS REBLOG WHEN YOU SEE SOMETHING LIKE THIS PLEASE; ITS SO MUCH MORE THAN IMPORTANT TO PEOPLE. IT MEANS EVERYTHING TO SOMEBODY AND EVEN THOUGH YOU MIGHT NOT SEE THIS IN THE SAME LIGHT, SOMEONE MIGHT. INFACT YOU REBLOGGING THIS COULD STOP SOMEONE TAKING THEIR LIFE TONIGHT.

kitten--aesthetics-blog

I noticed there isn’t one here for Ireland, so

Irish free suicide helpline: 01-116 123

thescientificviolist

last time i reblogged this, i got this ask:

so please, please reblog. this could actually save a life.

ur-local-pair-of-binoculars-dea

Check the notes, some people have added hotlines that aren’t listed here.

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whogivesa-ship

To anyone who feels guilty for cope writing/shipping

You have nothing to be ashamed of.

You wrote a story about your experiences filtered through a fictional lens and that’s a perfectly valid thing to do. It’s even healthy. Writing about your trauma is a common therapeutic strategy. It’s supported by reputable organizations like Harvard Medical School and the American Psychological Association.

And even more than that, you have a right as a survivor to tell your story. If you feel more comfortable projecting your experiences onto a fictional character, that doesn’t make it any less valid. You have a right to produce art that expresses your trauma and to share it with other people. Art is a natural way to cope. Research even suggests that people may become more creative after traumatic events. It’s a perfectly normal response to something terrible happening to you and, some may argue, the reason art exists in the first place.

I know you will probably just look at my blog description and write me off as just another anti anti trying to convince you to drop your nasty anti ways, but this isn’t about discourse. I don’t care what ‘side’ you’re on. What you did is something great writers have done throughout history, something that is a normal part of the human experience, something nobody has a right to shame you for. You deserve to tell your story however you choose to present it, whether that be autobiographical or through the lens of your favorite fictional characters.

as-thou-will

The constant attempted shaming and silencing of survivors on this hellsite? that makes me deeply uncomfortable.

Every time someone writes “you can’t write about that even if you’re a survivor and if you do you have to keep it to yourself”, what I read is the implied “you can’t write about your own trauma with the comforting distance of putting it on fictional characters, and if you do you’re not allowed to look for validation from other people.”

I read “you can’t share your story because it makes me uncomfortable to see it”.

I read “you should just be ashamed of the bad things that happened to you”.

I read “you should just suffer in silence”.

People act like not talking about abuse can… somehow stop it? And that’s not how it works. Shaming survivors only makes it easier for abusers to manipulate their victims. Silence protects abusers from discovery. It harms survivors by not letting them have the catharsis of understanding, and keeping them from support.

And I don’t feel like it’s anyone’s place to tell a survivor they have to out themselves to share, either.

So yeah. It’s not the only reason I’m anti-censorship, by a long shot, but there’s one reason I’m very much not on the side of “bad things can’t ever be written”- or on the side of shaming people who do write “bad things”, no matter what apparent reasons they have.

#tw abuse mention #anti-censorship #Shipping is literally how I go a day without trauma from past relationships eatinge me away #so anyone who says cope shipping isnt valid is a poo poo stinky head

scottstilesliam-deactivated2016

I think as a culture we have all forgotten that fandom is supposed to be fun.

It’s not that serious.

It was never supposed to be that serious.

Especially since most of the drama and hurt revolves around shipping.

All of the ships are fictional. Being canon doesn’t actually negate the fact that the ship isn’t real.

No ship, or any aspect of a fictional universe, is important enough to treat another real life human being badly.

It’s not that serious.

vervainvalkyrie-deactivated2017

“No ship, or any aspect of a fictional universe, is important enough to treat another real life human being badly.” I’ve had the misfortune of encountering some people who really, really, really need this drilling into their skulls.

razztazticffn

“No ship, or any aspect of a fictional universe, is important enough to treat another real life human being badly.”

evilwriter37

Do you think ex-antis deserve forgiveness? I want to be welcoming, but I can't help but wonder if they've tried to actually apologize to the people they've hurt.

I do think they deserve forgiveness. A lot of them were driven out of the community by the same type of hate we receive. I don’t think holding a grudge is healthy.

kalessinsdaughter

Also, if they apologized to the people they actually hurt, is a thing between them and the people in question.

We can definitely encourage them to try to make amends, if they haven't already. But the only ones who can grant forgiveness, are the ones who were hurt by them.

For the rest of us, the fact that they have realized that they were wrong, and are now trying to change and be better persons, will have to be enough.

evilwriter37

^^^^

whogivesa-ship

It’s important to remember that making amends isn’t always easy too. It can be hard to track people down through a temporary online identity, especially if they’ve been harassed and tried to hide from bullies. Sometimes the only way to make amends is to apologize for your behavior in public and hope it reaches the right people. Apologizing can be a long process and it’s important to support people going through it, even if they haven’t reached the end yet. Forgiveness belongs to the victims of wrongdoing, but kindness belongs to everyone. You can always be kind to someone even if they’ve done wrong and that can be a powerful act too.

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don’t ever feel bad for asking me to tag a trigger

i do not care what the trigger is

i will tag it for you

you have legitimate reasons to be triggered by it

and i am not one to question those reasons

so just send me an ask

anonymous if you’re scared

and i will tag it all the time in future

your wellbeing is worth twenty extra seconds of my time at least

fbi-captain-rainy

don’t ever feel bad if i dont remember to tag it

i might be on mobile

i might be dumb

i might have forgotten

just send me an ask

anon if you’re scared

i’ll correct it

your wellbeing is worth twenty extra seconds of my time at least

darkerstarker

If you’re a problematic shipper who tells antis to die, or wish harm on antis, I want to present you with 🚪 the door off of my blog.

We do not wish death, physical or emotional harm on people in my house. No, not even antis.

coq

not knowing how to respond to messages and forgetting about them for so long that it becomes impossible to respond to them without it being weird is the bane of my socially awkward existence

antis-delete-your-blogs-pls-thx

Just for anyone wondering why I don’t reply sometimes 😬

whogivesa-ship

So… uh… same.

sacred-pro-fiction

Its so hard to find pro-shippers who are also ace inclusionists and pro-trans/nb. Almost reblogged from a damn TERF cuz she was pro-ship and ace inclusionist yuck.

If ur pro-ship AND ace/aro inclusionist AND pro-trans/nb plz like or reblog this post

anti-ship-wars

Forever and always (it'd be a bit hypocritical as an ace trans person)

fiction-and-reality-are-complex

All of the above! NB greyace here who is also proship. Hope you find what you're looking for!

proshipshy

Man, it sucks when that happens. Also hi *awkward wave*

pastelbluberri-deactivated20201

If I was anti-trans I’d be a huge hypocrite as a trans man

howdy partner

yoohoo!

Greetings

Please go watch Sex Explained on Netflix. Not only is it a great resource for the basic sex education that is sorely lacking in the U.S., but some of ya’ll need to take a deep breath and remember the difference between fantasy vs reality. This purity culture thing that we’re going through right now is directly harmful to responsible, healthy sexual expression. BTW this woman, Lisa Diamond, is a noted psychologist and has been pushing for greater understanding of womens sexuality as a whole.

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cope-shipping

If you intend to make a post that highlights a person as dangerous and a predator only to reveal that it’s because you don’t like the art/ship they post, I think it’s best that you take a moment to think about how you’re potentially about to ruin a person’s life over a fictional pairing.

critical-elise-deactivated20220

Literally any sane person: Pedophilia, incest and other types of abuse is horrible

Some 30 year old who self identifies as a “fandom elder”, hasn’t left their fandom space in over 5+ years and thinks that V*ltron is revolutionary LGBTQ+ rep:

beastkingproship

Literally any sane person: Pedophilia, incest, and other types of abuse are horrible things that no one should ever do, but some creators explore these dark topics through fiction, and even though I’m not comfortable with it I will not suicide bait or harass them, and they are not criminals for doing so because the creator does not necessarily condone these crimes, fiction does not hurt real people, and people are capable of deciding how fiction affects them

Some fucking child who thinks everyone needs to cater to them and their personal tastes, and uses their trauma as an excuse to cyberbully and harass anyone doing anything they deem “gross”:

beastkingproship

Dear antis,

Anything is problematic if you look hard enough. Calm down and let people, yourselves included, enjoy what they like. Liking media doesn’t mean supporting the ideas portrayed in it or anything the creator does.

beastkingproship

Hey so, self ship community….you realize “gay coded” isn’t the same as “canonically gay” right??? People who aren’t gay can ship with “gay coded” characters because they were never confirmed in canon to be gay. Just say you’re mad that someone has a different headcanon than you smh

funereal-disease

Thesis: the rise of fanwank and anti culture correlates directly with diminished understanding of what “romantic”, in a literary sense, actually means.

It doesn’t mean “this is ideal or healthy or even realistic”. It means “this is beautiful, this is tragic, this is grotesque, this stirs emotion”, even if it’s not, as @starryroom puts it, something you would be comfortable seeing play out in front of you at Taco Bell. It’s about grandiosity and mythology and heroism writ large. It’s about playing with the id, as beautiful and terrible as it can be.

augustdementhe

LET LOVE AND LUST BE MONSTROUS.

celciusdiscourse

i feel like Guillermo del Toro ghostwrote that

xtine-daae

“I didn’t say I liked it. I said it fascinated me. There is a great difference.”

- Oscar Wilde

saucefactory-deactivated2019103

Ahem.

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zendiscourse

this just in! fictional characters are not real, and literally do not have any rights.

writing smut about a fictional characters - even if it’s in a problematic capacity- is not illegal, is not wrong, because they’re not REAL.

you cannot harm fictional characters. you cannot violate their rights and constent. they do not exist.

and the reason why it still matters when it come to diversity, is that it’s not ABOUT the characters then- it’s about real people.

it’s not the same. it’s not even close to being the same.

you saying that writing smut, or shipping characters together, is wrong, is the same as saying murdering characters in a game is just as bad as real life murder. which, surprise: it’s not.

it’s fine if you’re not comfortable with it, or want to see it. that’s why people tag their stuff, and put up warnings. but trying to police what other people do is a dick move.

so stop doing that, and maybe stop hunting down stuff you don’t want to see?

beastkingproship

What pro shipping is: Not fucking harassing someone over drawings, I don’t care if those two characters are siblings or have a 23 year age gap or whatever they’re not fucking real you twat

What pro shipping is NOT: pro pedophilia, pro incest, pro abuse, supporting those crimes irl, being comfortable with every ship in existence

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