sorta helpful/sorta not "about me" post
it's a terrible plague, this whole “coming out of a state of chronic under-socialization” thing, but it seems someone has to do it.
(last updated: 06/23/2026)
General info
Name stuff:
"pce" is one of my sets of initials and it is the main thing you get to call me.
you can say the individual letters or pronounce it like a word, i don't really care (especially bc it won't come across via text)
i am a member of the lowercase name club, though, thanks
tepidly trying out variations on additional names. current initials are "om" and "som". same rules as the previous.
Pronouns:
basically any pronouns (I always include the "basically" because i do have my limits, but i promise they're not limits that are easy/feasible to cross if you're the type to care about using the correct pronouns)
Age:
I tend to be both older and younger than people assume. (over 18. legally an adult somehow. you can figure out the specifics if you really want, but it's not fun for me to talk about so i don't usually)
Boundaries/reasons i might block you:
vast and unknowable. (if you make me tired just thinking about you, there's a good chance you're gonna be blocked idk. same with if you're not good at distinguishing yourself from a spam/porn bot. I typically avoid knowingly interacting/initiating interactions with minors, but won't block you just for that)
Location:
The Void, generally. (born, raised, and currently residing in the upper midwestern united states. whatever you assume about me based on that, you're probably correct. unless you're not, but idrc either way)
Other social media:
letterboxd, if you wanna see me in the grips of my various fixations
voila le side-blog. it's half vent blog, half french practice (note: not actually that good w the latter)
i have other things, but am not willing to share them. don't even worry about it.
Appearance:
This is pretty much all you'll ever get
(notably you won't get any such depiction of me in either of these tags, i just like the phrasing)
if you want to picture the rest of the person making these posts, fwiw I'm white + blonde-haired + blue-eyed + 5' 10"
i am also extremely hot, you're welcome. (sometimes that's a joke, sometimes it's not. generally i'll go along with whatever you want it to be as long as i don't feel mistreated in either direction)
Preemptive question answering:
"why do you talk about/reblog stuff that talks about political positions I disagree with?": because I want to.
"why are your muppet tags like that?": idk really, just sorta started formatting most of em like that.
"what does your 'pce and the void' tag mean?": it's just a loosely defined aesthetic tag. something something darkness/night/voids/absence/hollowness that nonetheless is familiar-if-not-comforting. also black cats.
"You're not funny": cool. If I were making jokes for someone like you I'd read your diary or bother to listen while you spoke.
"What specific mental illness and/or neurodivergence do you have?": that's for me to know and me to find out.
"what specific physical ailments do you have?": that's for me to know and me to find out.
"i wanna give you medical advice based on the things you describe and/or reblog": don't. i won't immediately think you're a bad person, i just won't listen to/take said advice and think that there's probably (read: definitely) better ways to spend your time.
"am i annoying you by making myself known to you?": not inherently, no. I am a standoffish little weirdo, unfortunately, so i see how you might get there, but like... i've thus far left asks/reblogs/replies on for a reason. i'm not naïve about how this site works. if you talk to me with the respect you should have for any person, i won't have much of an issue with it.
"how often are you actually here when you're posting?": sometimes. admittedly the queue and scheduled posts are my good friends that I don't tag (bc i don't want to), so it might be hard to tell. while it's not a perfect indicator/I still might overthink like crazy, posts on the side blog are more likely “in the moment” or “off the cuff” or whatever. if i can actually foresee an upcoming long hiatus where i won't be here at all, I'll try to warn you (but obviously i can't always do that)
















