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Hi! I just found your blog and I’d like to know what qualifies as being asexual and/or aromantic. I have been questioning ever since the beginning of junior high as everyone talked about crushes and dating and I had never felt anything like that. I’m 15 now and my 13 year old cousin getting a boyfriend is bringing a lot of these feelings back. Honestly, no matter how hard I try I have this intense feeling as if something is wrong with me for never feeling these types of emotions. Sorry it’s long

Hello !For starters, in the simplest terms, asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction and aromanticism is the lack of romantic attraction. That said, they are both a spectrum. You can experience attraction conditionally, occasionally, not at all, etc. and still be on the ace spectrum. If you haven’t felt any attraction yet it’s very possible that you could be on the spectrum. These kinds of things can be hard to label so just know that you never *have* to label yourself, it’s all up to you. Also, i’m sorry it took so long to answer this! I’ve been pretty busy lately. And don’t worry about your message being long it’s all good :)If you feel like I didn’t answer your question please don’t hesitate to send us another message! -Isabelle

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happy national coming out day to those who are out and proud

happy national coming out day to those who have been out for years and got ridiculed for it

happy national coming out day to those who just came out and feel weird by it

happy national coming out day to people thinking about coming out

happy national coming out day to those who know who they are but dont want to come out

happy national coming out day to those who are confused

happy national coming out day to those who cannot come out for their own safety

this is your day, enjoy it 🏳️‍🌈

#national coming out day

Happy National Coming Out Day!

To anyone coming out today: good luck and stay safe. You are absolutely amazing.

#ours #national coming out day #- Isabelle

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National Coming Out Day is coming up (October 11) and I just want to remind everyone:

1) Please do not out anyone (even if you “think you are doing them a favor.” Trust me when I say you aren’t) and make sure you don’t accidentally do so.

2) It is okay to be in the closet. Please do not feel pressure to/obligated to come out because there so happens to be a Coming Out Day. (Do it for you if it’s what you want).

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3) If you are a non-lgbt, please don’t come out as a joke. seriously, don’t.

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4) don’t “come out as straight”, period. joking or not. even if you have good intentions and are trying to be an ally/show solidarity since “lgbt people shouldn’t be the only ones who have to come out :)” like……i get what ur going for but…..just…..Do Not.

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I might not be able to wear a binder for any length of time anymore, but you bet your ass I’m putting it on before I get my haircut so I can get those sweet sweet men’s prices.

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Living outside a small town means that whenever I get my haircut, I have to roleplay to the stylist. The first time I went in, she thought I was a 15 year old boy, and even though I go there only every eight months or so, she somehow remembers me and thinks I am now entering my senior year of high school. I have to tell her my college aspirations and favorite classes and if I’m going to prom with a nice girl.

It’s The Worst™ and she’s always telling me how my hair is just too pretty for a boy, and telling everyone else in the room to admire my beautiful hair and cluck in envy that a boy should be blessed with such curls.

I don’t know how to get out of this incredibly awkward situation.

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Hey Ship?

This is fucking hilarious.

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no it’s bad Rob

she thinks I’m a hypermature Boy Genius Child and I don’t know how to tell her I’m a genderqueer college grad

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this is my favorite sitcom

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LGBT+ PRIDE (❁´▽`❁)*✲ﾟ*

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yo I usually don’t comment outside of tags anymore cuz I don’t like to clutter up posts too much but these are fucking DOPE AS HELL

How do I know if I'm aromantic? I mean, I've never been in love, but I'm not even sure what aromanticism means (I know the definition ofc, but still???) ah I don't even know...

It’s a very hard thing to know for sure, because you’re trying to find the absence of something. What made me realize was the idea that my perfect relationship is “forever roommates.” All I wanted with any “crush” I thought I had had was the same kind of stuff that I do with my best friends

Have you had any crushes before? If not, there’s a fair bet you’re aromantic. If so, take a closer look on your feelings for them. You shouldn’t have to consciously choose a crush. You probably would want to do things with them that you wouldn’t do with a close friend. Note that just having a strong bond with someone doesn’t make a crush, platonic relationships can feel pretty strong

Like I said before, it’s hard to know, even for someone who’s been identifying as aro for quite awhile. In my opinion the best thing is to just not worry about the label and focus on exactly what it is that you’re feeling. For example, I tell some people that I’m just not into anyone and don’t really want to date. Maybe something like that would work for you. Just be who you are and let the rest come with time. Good luck with figuring yourself out! Feel free to ask anything else you’re wondering too

~Cate~

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wlw book recs

hey I decided to make this post because I’m always looking for more wlw books to read and thought it might help some people out. All books have links to their goodreads pages (some books have adult content etc)

I rated all of these books 4 or 5 stars, I will hopefully be able to update this post regularly

As I descended by Robin Talley

Colorblind by Siera Maley

Wildthorn by Jane Eagland

Style by Chelsea M Cameron

Taking flight by Siera Maley

If you could be mine by Sara Farizan

Beauty Queens by Libba Bray

The Price of Salt (Carol) by Patricia Highsmith

Fingersmith by Sarah Waters

Affinity by Sarah Waters

Tipping the Velvet by Sarah Waters

The Miseducation of Cameron Post by Emily M Danforth

The Moth Diaries by Rachel Klein

Ask the Passengers by AS King

Lies we tell Ourselves by Robin Talley

Why be happy when you could be normal? by Jeanette Winterson

Georgia Peaches and other forbidden fruits by Jaye Robin Brown

You know me well by Nina LaCour and David Levithan

Oranges are not the Only Fruit by Jeanette Winterson

The Night Watch by Sarah Waters

#queer #lgbtq+#lgbt #books #recs #rec

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Come and paint the world with me tonight

#these are ¡cute!#queer #lgbtq+

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bisexual girls are great pass it on

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Lets take pride to outer space!

In order:

bisexual

Gay

trans

lesbian

asexual

panssexual

I was fooling around with gradients when I came up with this idea. Those are just the flags I could remember quickly. If you want another, feel free to ask me!

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Reblog to let your followers know you are a safe person to come out to.

#identity help

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I hate coming out to people bc I sound like a hipster. “What’s your sexuality” “I’m asexual, you’ve probably never heard of it.” Seriously, we need some more representation.

“You’re aromantic? Name 5 of their albums.”

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Need

qualitees

You can get it here!

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What about one that says I’m bi?

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There is one like that too

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What about other sexualities?

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Sexuali-tees available as requested for those who are pan, ace, queer, lesbian, demi and trans!

#i like #lgbtq+#queer

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Comedian and vlogger Elijah Daniel became mayor of Hell, Michigan, proceeded to ban all heterosexuals, and then was impeached. This singlehandedly saved 2017

#this man is my hero #i live in michigan why was this not my city #lgbtq+#gay #queer

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