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Like taking a same-sex ship but genderbending one of them. It's usually yaoi ships, and seeing this makes me scream out "DAMN. You don’t fw with yuri? You think Yuri is boring or something?" I have seen this with Megop and I'm like where is femme Optimus x Femme Megatron? Why is there Femme Optimus x Mech Megatron? Why no yuri megop but hetero Megop? Funny how they do this but don't ship Oplita which is an actual M|W ship. This is honestly a personal ick of mine. It's just...I don't get it.

Another pet peeve of mine is certain shippers desperately wanting to make their non-canon ship into canon and it is very annoying and it shows lack off fandom etiquette. I have seen this in mha and it hurts seeing that behavior.

This is going to be a hot one but I HATE that everyone assumes that a straight ship is boring while the gay ship is interesting. Now I love gay ships but this is such a lame perspective. I remember seeing someone post their favorite straight ship and they got clowned for. I fucking hate the "This is so boring, I forgot straight ships existed in fandoms". That attitude reminds me of those homophobic shippers that shit on queer ships and always yell "THEY ARE FRIENDS AND NOT CANON!!! STOP SHIPPING THEM!!" Honestly it's ok to not like straight ships but to called it boring or inferior to gay ships is lowkey a hypocrite statement. I have seen countless gay ships that are just as messy as straight ships but no one sees it. I realize it usually happens because of the women/girl. They probably see the girl/women in a not so perfect relationship with a man and called it trash. But they don't see it in a gay ship cause both of them are men which is lowkey mysogynistic, if you ask me. Cause why the hell can the girl/women not be in a popular ship in fandoms despite being in a messy ship but a man can???? Also I don't like that they make the female character a lesbian, hear me out, I have seen that it's usually because they think a female’s character value becomes low if she's with a male character's, so therefore, she needs to be with a female character and I'm like...that's lowkey disgusting. Why can't we give awesome headcanons or fanfics or make the badly written straight ship be more deeper than the show did? Why only queer ships especially if they're non-canon? Why can't we give the privilege to the female character be able to thrive in this messy ship but only towards male characters? I really wish fandoms weren't so weird about female characters in like LOT of ways. This has happened with Oplita a lot. Like yes she gets done dirty in the ship but if we can somehow save megop, so can we with Oplita. And I don't fucking care if the ship is badly written, Megop is also badly written too and VERY toxic (I love the ship but I'm not afraid to called it out) but we don't say shit about it. Let Elita be with Optimus whether the writing is shit or not. She has the privilege to be her love. She deserves to stand beside him and not be devalue if she stays with him. If Optimus or Megatron don't get devalue when being together, then neither should Elita.

Not able to dislike or hate popular ships. I realize in some fandoms if you say something bad about a popular ship, you will get crucified.

When they ship an interracial ship but they make the poc character be aggressive and masculine while the white or Asian character be soft and feminine. That shit PISSES ME OFF BEYOND!!!! I seen some popular artists do this with Deepax and it makes me want to judge them. I block those artists.

When someone tries to make their ship be morally be better than the other. There was one post that did it, I'm not saying the ship but it was definitely toxic and it said that ship was more morally right than sentop. I went off on the reblog cause NO, YOU SHOULDN'T BE TALKING AT ALL. Even so, I fucking hate shipscaling.

The ONLY canon shippers. Those people need to leave the fandom, I'm sorry but they're always ruining the fun. Bunch of party poopers to hang around. It's usually the homophobic shippers who has this mindset but there's also Canon shippers who aren't homophobic. They almost never been to a fandom long enough or never learn fandom etiquette. Honestly to me they're the most immature ones in the fandoms. Always saying that "everyone should follow the canon" and don't get me started on "Headcanons don't make sense, just make a new character or story" OR! Idk, you could shut your useless yapping.

If you see an art ship in which you don't like but admired the artstyle and you go on to say, "I don't like the ship, but I like the art" You suck. You could have just complimented their art only and move on.

Making the queer ship a bit TOO heteromative. And again, those type of shippers NEVER or have little interest to straight ships. Idk if they think the patriarchal or heteromative roles automatically goes away if the ship is gay. But I fully disagree with that idea. But yeah, it's like putting cherries on pizza.

ANY fujoshi that beefs with female characters cause she gets on the way of their yaoi ship. Bro, I block those people IMMEDIATELY. I have heard horror stories from those type of fujoshis. I have seen on Twitter (Thank God, I'm not using that app anymore cause it's very energy draining) where a megop artist draw tfo Megatron killing tfo Elita. I have heard one where a jayvik shipper wrote a fanfic of both murdering Mel. Honestly, these type of fujoshis make me feel very uncomfortable.

The ship wars like the infamous kataang vs zutara debate. Honestly, like it's such a useless debate cause why are we harassing and doxxing each other over ship, it's not that serious. Again, shipscaling fucking sucks. It is also is the non-canon shippers and canon-shippers fighting. I saw this in mha, bakudeku/Ochatoga shippers vs Ochadeku shippers, and I'm like are we serious? We seriously STILL fighting about it? It's 2026 guys, let it go.

Those shippers that will harrased or dox anyone if they hate the ship. They also need to leave the fandom.