she was quite lovely and always out of reach.

What the media won't show

Remember: the more difficult you make it for them to realize a report is false, the more useless you make the portal.

The book is called Careless People and you better believe I'll start reading it tonight

Keep raising hell!

Call and write and call and write and call and write. If they're already in favor of what you want, let them know you stand with them and they have your vote. If they don't stand for what you want, tell them they've lost your vote (even if they never had it) but they can sway you back if they [ACTION YOU WANT THEM TO TAKE].

this has been a public service announcement from your friendly neighborhood probate lawyer

This goes especially for LGBTQ+. Please do not get deadnamed in your obituary.

How to make a living will (Advance Healthcare Directive) so you don’t get fucked over by biological family if you end up in a situation where you cannot make your own healthcare choices.

no, having a chill adult sibling isn't enough, it still defaults to parents for some dumbass reason even if your parents are old as balls. if you want your chill adult sibling to be your emergency decisionmaker, get it in writing.