Online Dating Is Literally The Worst

“I love a woman with meat on her bones” is also a shitty version of this.

I see nothing wrong with what he said.

I still think you were a bit harsh on him. I might ask someone if they were interested in casual sex if I found them attractive. I don’t see a problem with calling someone sexy on a dating site.

You don’t see anything wrong with completely disregarding someone’s clearly stated boundaries? Bruh…

He asked nicely, so no. It doesn’t hurt to ask.

OP wasn’t even rude to the dude, though. Nevertheless, women are under no obligation whatsoever to be nice or polite or grateful or ANYTHING to men simply because they offer what they deem to be “compliments.”

And then he tries to blame her for the whole interaction being uncomfortable so…. yeah. Slime ball.

What the fuck is wrong with men???? in what universe is commenting on a woman’s body and making sexual advances without consent acceptable behavior? he deserves a kick in the arse honestly

Omg THIS how do so many guys literally read your profile where you make explicit boundaries clear, then message you mentioning the boundaries AND THEN COMPLETELY DISREGARD THEM?!?!!

I see nothing wrong with what he said.

I still think you were a bit harsh on him. I might ask someone if they were interested in casual sex if I found them attractive. I don’t see a problem with calling someone sexy on a dating site.

You don’t see anything wrong with completely disregarding someone’s clearly stated boundaries? Bruh…

He asked nicely, so no. It doesn’t hurt to ask.

OP wasn’t even rude to the dude, though. Nevertheless, women are under no obligation whatsoever to be nice or polite or grateful or ANYTHING to men simply because they offer what they deem to be “compliments.”

And then he tries to blame her for the whole interaction being uncomfortable so…. yeah. Slime ball.

What the fuck is wrong with men???? in what universe is commenting on a woman’s body and making sexual advances without consent acceptable behavior? he deserves a kick in the arse honestly

I see nothing wrong with what he said.

I still think you were a bit harsh on him. I might ask someone if they were interested in casual sex if I found them attractive. I don’t see a problem with calling someone sexy on a dating site.

You don’t see anything wrong with completely disregarding someone’s clearly stated boundaries? Bruh…

He asked nicely, so no. It doesn’t hurt to ask.

OP wasn’t even rude to the dude, though. Nevertheless, women are under no obligation whatsoever to be nice or polite or grateful or ANYTHING to men simply because they offer what they deem to be “compliments.”

All I can think of, when I see guys disregard these sorts of clearly stated boundaries right off the bat, is that there’s no way they’ll give a shit about other boundaries a dating partner tries to set later on.

Exactly! If you can’t respect me out the gate, why am I going to assume you’re going to respect my desires later on? No thanks.

I see nothing wrong with what he said.

I still think you were a bit harsh on him. I might ask someone if they were interested in casual sex if I found them attractive. I don’t see a problem with calling someone sexy on a dating site.

You don’t see anything wrong with completely disregarding someone’s clearly stated boundaries? Bruh…

He asked nicely, so no. It doesn’t hurt to ask.

OP wasn’t even rude to the dude, though. Nevertheless, women are under no obligation whatsoever to be nice or polite or grateful or ANYTHING to men simply because they offer what they deem to be “compliments.”

But for real though, why should she give time to someone who either won’t take 1 minute to read her profile OR decides it doesn’t really apply? All that tells me is that he’s an entitled shitheel who thinks her opinions, desires and boundaries don’t matter. That is not dating material, full stop.

I see nothing wrong with what he said.

I still think you were a bit harsh on him. I might ask someone if they were interested in casual sex if I found them attractive. I don’t see a problem with calling someone sexy on a dating site.

You don’t see anything wrong with completely disregarding someone’s clearly stated boundaries? Bruh…

He asked nicely, so no. It doesn’t hurt to ask.

I see no problem with this. This is an overreaction. He was nice about it. Who knows if maybe he didn’t understand too. Maybe things were worded weird. I don’t know. There are some were women and men on dating sites, but I think this one is pretty okay.

Yeah he reacted wrong at the end, but his initial question was fine. I’m just tired of seeing people whine anout dating sites. If you hate them so much quit using them.

The fact that alicornofmischief can’t seem to understand this is exactly the problem with male privilege and men who believe in the “friendzone”. No you don’t have the right to push your sexist harassing remarks on someone and call it a “compliment.” No you don’t have the right to expect or demand sex from someone because they’re on an online dating resource, or because they’re in a bar, or even if you’re dating them. It doesn’t matter if you have a “good” reason, (but that girls really hot, but I really want sex, but I asked nicely) RESPECT boundaries! Not respecting someone’s stated boundaries is harassment at best and can lead to rape at worse. So stfu alicornofmischief

I see nothing wrong with what he said.

I still think you were a bit harsh on him. I might ask someone if they were interested in casual sex if I found them attractive. I don’t see a problem with calling someone sexy on a dating site.

You don’t see anything wrong with completely disregarding someone’s clearly stated boundaries? Bruh…

He asked nicely, so no. It doesn’t hurt to ask.

OP wasn’t even rude to the dude, though. Nevertheless, women are under no obligation whatsoever to be nice or polite or grateful or ANYTHING to men simply because they offer what they deem to be “compliments.”

I see nothing wrong with what he said.

I still think you were a bit harsh on him. I might ask someone if they were interested in casual sex if I found them attractive. I don’t see a problem with calling someone sexy on a dating site.

You don’t see anything wrong with completely disregarding someone’s clearly stated boundaries? Bruh…

He asked nicely, so no. It doesn’t hurt to ask.

I see no problem with this. This is an overreaction. He was nice about it. Who knows if maybe he didn’t understand too. Maybe things were worded weird. I don’t know. There are some were women and men on dating sites, but I think this one is pretty okay.

Yeah he reacted wrong at the end, but his initial question was fine. I’m just tired of seeing people whine anout dating sites. If you hate them so much quit using them.

I see nothing wrong with what he said.

I still think you were a bit harsh on him. I might ask someone if they were interested in casual sex if I found them attractive. I don’t see a problem with calling someone sexy on a dating site.

You don’t see anything wrong with completely disregarding someone’s clearly stated boundaries? Bruh…

He asked nicely, so no. It doesn’t hurt to ask.

I see no problem with this. This is an overreaction. He was nice about it. Who knows if maybe he didn’t understand too. Maybe things were worded weird. I don’t know. There are some were women and men on dating sites, but I think this one is pretty okay.