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I WAS INTERNALLY GASPING AT EVERY PICTURE

rebloging this again because it’s gorgeous and never fails to make me smile

This is one of the most precious things I’ve ever seen. Beautifully done.

I am here as fuck for this. Jessica Rabbit for new asexual icon.

“She can’t be asexual because she’s hot tho”

“I can only see her as a sexual object so I can’t imagine her not wanting to have sex with me.”

I LOVE this headcanon <3

This is important!

Well now i feel a bit skeevy, because she was literally the first lady to make my girl heart go boom.

this is literally so real, i just turned 20 and went on my very first date last month. i got asked out over facebook messenger and i literally cried about it all night because i was so overwhelmed and i had no idea what i was doing. and i felt awful because i felt like a 13-year-old living in an adult’s body. nobody tells us how this is supposed to work. i never dated anyone in high school, boys or girls, because i was closeted and scared of boys and scared of out lesbians and had no viable options, so now i feel like a god damn child that got placed in a college level course on romance with no tutor. im trying to navigate through a romantic culture that thinks i should be mature and experienced but i am not mature or experienced!! i have never had any firsthand relationship experience EVER, let alone with a girl, so how could i have matured in that area? i haven’t even had any proper examples! the fact that it wasn’t a “friends-to-lovers” situation scared me to death because that’s the only kind of gay relationship i’ve ever read about. i feel like nobody ever talks about this and it seems like a really big deal. i don’t know what the hell im doing. and it’s going to take a long damn time to figure that out, just like it does for everyone else, but i get to start 7 years later than everyone else because society cheated me out of my ~carefree teenage years~ that i was supposed to be able to use for figuring this stuff out. so now i get to be a romantically-13-year-old adult trying to figure out how to have a romantic relationship at twice the normal speed just to play catch up with my romantically-20-year-old peers. it feels unfair and i wish there was some kind of self-help book or support group for wlw who have no relationship experience with girls and need to figure it out at warp speed, to put us on more stable footing with our peers

HONESTLY I agree with everything you’ve said its so frustrating. I went on my first date a couple months ago and it went disastrously and I had a panic attack because aren’t relationships not supposed to be this awkward/disastrous at my age???? but when ur gay it’s a whole different thing.

oh nooo im sorry that sucks!! it’s so true, it’s so different for us. for me it was just like…. i don’t know how NOT to treat a girl like a friend. all of my close friends have been girls and ive never been in a romantic situation so like? i think i did it wrong? because i don’t think i was flirting at all, i was just treating her like a friend? then again i don’t know how to flirt with a girl without feeling like a disgusting predatory pervert so. that helps too lmao

I am honestly so angry that I had to miss out entirely on that experience when you’re a teenager and go on dates, and even my college years. I missed out on so much, I missed out on one half of my life, and now I feel stuck bc I don’t know how to even start dating and it sucks. Basically everyone my age already had sex and at least one serious relationship and I just had one boyfriend that I didn’t even want to be with, I never got to be in love. I never got to be a 15 year old going to a party and dancing with her crush, I never got to be a 15 year old girl on a date with someone I like, I never got to even go to parties bc I never felt like I belong there with all the horny teenagers. I was scared back then and now I’m confused and honestly so angry and I’m sorry for writing all this I just gotta let it out. I feel so emotionally crippled bc I don’t even know if I can even love properly. Those years when I should have been developing emotionally, I spent them repressing my emotions and now I can’t get them back. And I suppose I’ll start dating girls eventually, but I’m never gonna get those years back, and I’m gonna spend many more just trying to get back on track.

Fuck the NRA.

Guys spread this!! http://www.youcaring.com/ really is free! 

I did not know this

GoFundMe have also deleted sex worker’s fundraisers even though they were for medical bills, had nothing to do with sex work, and didn’t mention it anywhere. Someone outed her to them, and they deleted it. Boycott GoFundMe. Use YouCaring.

I do not donate to go fund me campaigns, even when I really, really want to.

What the hell is up with this?!

no idea but its scary shit

Reblog for your friends.

Everyone reblog this.

I don’t care if you don’t live in Texas or if you are skeptical about this post PLEASE REBLOG THIS! I live In Fort worth Texas which is only four hours away and the fact that something could happen so close to home and to my fellow Texans is heart wrenching.

@boyonetta 

Does anyone have any information on this? Is it legitimate, or a hoax, or what?

REBLOGGIN FOR THE TEXAS FOLKS BE CAREFUL 

This could save lives

I had to do this twice for my dog and it saved his life. Please reblog.

I can’t scroll by this, my baby and every other puppy has got me so whipped

this was the scariest thing i have ever had to do

@petwrestling101 would you mind verifying and/or correcting this for me?

When you do the press across the belly you want to make sure you are just behind the ribcage. Half their stomach is covered by their ribs. If you press to far back you won’t be pressing on their stomach, you’ll be pressing on their spleen or bladder. If/when you put your hand in their mouth be careful not to get bit. They can clamp down sometimes. Afterwards place them on their side and then get your butt to the vet if they aren’t acting normal within a few moments.

i really hate the effect our hypersexualized society has on young girls. do you know how fucked up it is for an 11 year old girl to be scared of heterosexual sex because she thinks its inevitable? when i was 11, guys told me it would be painful, that penetration was mandatory, and that guys will want blowjobs. when i said i didnt want to do that ever, everyone made fun of me, and my parents told me i’d want that when i got older. guys always look forward to sex but little girls not even in their teens yet are anticipating it in fear because they think it’s mandatory for them to experience pain and humiliation to please men honestly what the fuuuck

This is too important