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Awful. Both of those that look the same there are the same kanji, but they're each pronounced different in that one word with no indication of how either is pronounced (aside from the context that I know what this word is.)

Kanji is great and helpful.... and also hard and scary. Complaining about it in mild ways is part of the learning process, this is helping.

I wrote a master’s thesis on intentionally single people, and the number of them that said in various ways, “I didn’t know not dating people was even an option at first” was absolutely tragic. They honestly thought they had no choice and it never occurred to them that opting out was even a possibility available to them.  

People honestly believe these are life experience you are required to have AND THEY ARE NOT.