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Reblogging this on ALL my blogs because holy shit is it useful

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some of you never played online dressup games while sitting in a huge beat up desk chair while being yelled at by your mom when you were kids and it shows. grow up
platonic love is so important
both in fiction and in real life. it is not inferior to romantic love and it is so important to celebrate it
hug your friends. tell them you love them. swear youâll be in each otherâs lives forever. a lot of the things lovers do arenât inherently romantic
So ah, Iâm part of a classic illustration appreciation group on fb. Been in it for a while. Every day at least once someone posts a nakey or almost nakey pin-up illustration of a woman, thatâs fine, except itâs always women, only women, and every day. Havenât seen a sexy pin-up picture of a man, not once. So I think to myself âalright, why not even it up a bit, post some good olâ Tom of Finland, of course one of his more SFW and appropriate pieces thatâs not any more sexual and doesnât show any more than the nakey sexy pin-up images of the women that get posted every day.â Post it. A good chunk of the reactions are âha-haâ reactions and a good amount of the comments are âughâ or âdisgusting.â Itâs just a sexy man wearing a robe and putting on boots. None of those reactions happen when people post sexy nakey images of women, just people commenting on how beautiful and sexy the art is, but not even fully nakey image of a dude gets âhahaâ and âughâ and âdisgustingâ. Hmm. Hmmmmmmmmm
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#the common theme here is sexualizing women is okay #but sexualizing men is apparently either funny or gross #can you guess why #I bet you can
Just to expand on this a bit more and how society seems to, at least for the most part, aggressively sexualize women while most people, even many het women, will have either a repulsed or humorous reaction to sexualized men.
If you go to any major mainstream clothing retailer, one that most western teens or young adults go to (since teens and young adults seem to be the most sexualized age demographic, especially in western society) such as say, Target, H&M, Forever 21, TJ Max, ect. Look at the clothes in the menâs section, and look at the clothes in the womenâs section. Really compare and look at the differences between the two sections, and compare the thickness, tightness, length, and overall âcoverageâ differences between the two sections.Â
In which genderâs clothing section are you going to find most, if not all of the shorts are going to be short shorts that often barely cover more area than underwear, and in which genderâs clothing section are you going to find most if not all of the shorts are very baggy, thick, and come down to the knees?Â
In which genderâs clothing section are you going to find most of the shirts are thin, tight, and low cut to the point of where youâd probably have to wear another shirt under it or wear a cardigan wear over it (which is more $$$ to buy those extra clothing articles mind you) and in which genderâs clothing section are you going to find most of the shirts are thick, loose, and baggy, and completely keep the wearer covered with no need for extra articles like a tank top or cardigan?Â
In which genderâs clothing section are you going to find most of the pants are so thin and tight that you canât even fit a phone in the pocket, and in which genderâs clothing section are the pants going to be thick, loose, and baggy enough that you can fit a small book in the pocket?Â
Whose gaze is this catering to? And whose gaze is this inhibiting or outright blocking? What is the gender of the CEOâs and executives of the clothing companies designing, advertising, and selling these clothes to you?Â
This is by no means meant to shame you for wearing these clothes or saying that youâre bad or evil or wrong for buying and wearing those clothes. However, I want everyone to pay attention to how capitalistic institutions like the fashion and clothing industry, which like most industries are male run and owned, sell the toxic gender norm of women/feminine = sexualized, while man/masculine = unsexualized.Â
And I mean, look at the difference in your typical formal dress vs a suit. A normal suit worn by your average dude keeps your whole body covered except head and hands, while most formal dresses, at least aimed toward teenage girls and young women, are strappy, thin, low cut, and show lots of leg. Again, this is by no means shaming you or saying youâre a bad person for wearing that, but we need to analyze and think critically of how aggressively gendered it is and which genderâs clothing tends to be thinner and more revealing and which genderâs clothing tends to be thick and keep the whole body covered. A lot of times when I see clothing designs of an outfit that was originally masculine mean to be more âfeminizedâ itâs feminized via making it shorter, lower cut, and generally more revealing, and in reverse an originally feminine outfit re-designed to be more masculine is usually made so by making it longer and generally more covering.Â
And yeah, you do see women in suits for formal wear sometimes. But if a man were to show up to your typical formal function in a thin strapless top and something short where most of his leg was revealed, how do you think the majority of people would react? Probably either with laughter, disgust, or both, like the reaction OP got for posting a male pin-up piece.Â
Iâd also like to point out that Iâve noticed that most of the time in the rare occasions you do see a man dressed sexually / provocatively or portrayed as provocative / sexual, especially sexually submissive, itâs assumed heâs gay or that his sexual appeal is intended for mlm, and not women.
Also harmfully, this extends into the kids clothing sections. Kids!
And I donât just mean Hot Topic or Forever 21 or wherever teenagers shop (I think those are teenage-centric clothes shops, Iâm not from the US), but also clothes for 10-year-olds will be typically shorter / more revealing for girls than boys.
Oh it goes younger than 10. Look at clothes meant for 5 year olds, hell, even younger than that and youâll notice the âgirlâsâ clothes is tighter, shorter, and more revealing than the âboyâsâ clothes.
One last thing I want to talk about, and thatâs how girls are shamed into wearing tighter and more revealing clothes from a young age.
When I was a preteen, I liked to wear loose, comfortable, and baggy clothes that covered as much of my body as what boys would wear, just because it was more comfortable and I could move more easily in them. This extended to my dress clothes for special occasions like weddings, I wanted to wear âboyâsâ dress clothes just because they were so much more comfortable, but both adults and other kids would tell me I was âdressing like a lesbianâ and told me how frumpy I looked, was told I looked like I âdidnât make an effortâ but none of the boys got comments like that even though their clothes were just as loose, comfortable, and covering as mine, hell probably even more so than mine. Eventually when people started calling me a d*ke for wearing loose and comfortable clothes that covered my body, I gave into pressure and started dressing more âfeminineâ which meant wearing significantly tighter and more revealing clothes. Girls are pressured into wearing tight and revealing clothes from a young age because tight and revealing clothes are thought of as feminine in Western culture.
The flip side of âcleanse diets donât do anythingâ is that if you tried a cleanse diet and you did experience a notable reduction in fatigue, joint pain, and general blarginess, you need to talk to an allergy specialist, because thereâs nearly a 100% chance that means you have an undiagnosed allergy to some component of your customary diet.
This is an excellent point and Iâd imagine thereâs a lot of quack diets that continue circulating and getting press based on this exact principle.
Absolutely â a great many diets of the âstop eating everything except these three foodsâ variety are 100% trading on the fact that theyâre practically guaranteed to generate some positive testimonials by virtue of coincidentally cutting somebodyâs undiagnosed food allergy out of their diet.
Cleanse diets are a fad, elimination diets are a diagnostic tool, and they often overlap in the foods youâre told to stop eating.
Go see an allergist!!!

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hey everyone! Iâm going to be closing my shop from april 11th to april 18th in solidarity with other etsy sellers to protest etsyâs latest seller fee price hike and certain new policies you can read about below! you know Iâm always complaining about their fees and how I prefer to be paid outside of etsy whenever possible. I hope youâll join me and not cross the picket line from april 11th to april 18th! you know where to find me if thereâs anything I have listed that you want to buy or you have an idea for a commission! đđť
We are striking to protest Etsy's treatment of sellers. We will put our shops on vacation mode April 11-18. Those of us who can will strike
Etsy was founded with a vision of "keeping commerce human" by "democratizing access to entrepreneurship." As a result, people who have been
How I Teach Men Not To Talk Over Me: from one feminist to another, when basic respect is lagging and conversations are impossible
Iâve done this to several men, and they catch on rather quickly. Youâll be able to have a conversation right then and there, and it works long term too - they mightâve forgot their manners by the time you talk to them again, but by repeating this, theyâll eventually learn to let you talk without you having to do this at the start of every convo. Source: I have a very stubborn older brother, who eventually learned too.
1. When they interrupt you, stop talking. Donât try to raise your voice or battle them. Be completely quiet and wait.
2. Ignore everything theyâre saying. Do not actually listen - just wait until they shut up. Donât make a point of anything they say, do not answer to anything they say, do not refer to anything they say here. Literally do not listen a single word. Let them rant as long as they want.
3. When they finally shut up and wait for your reaction, say: âI wasnât done talking.â
4. Start over whatever you were saying when they interrupted you. I donât care if it was a 10-minute explanation of rocket science. Start. Over. Repeat you original thought, but do not add anything related to what they just said while talking over you. That gives them the idea that itâs okay to interrupt you, youâll still listen and pay attention and theyâll get their point clear without having to listen to yours. (Itâs especially funny when you get done and they expect you to keep going talking about whatever they talked over you. The face when it sinks in that you didnât listen a single word is glorious.)
5. If they interrupt you again, return to step 1. If you find yourself repeating the cycle over 3 times, tell them: âyouâre not letting me speak. Either you listen and wait for your turn, or our conversation ends here.â If they try to make excuses, laugh it off or keep interrupting, end the conversation. Prove them that if they wont let you speak, theyâre not worth your time.
Why does this work? First, because sometimes talking over is internalized and men donât actually notice theyâre doing it. Being vocally called out makes them realize it and pay attention to it - especially if it happens more than once. Secondly, by refusing to aknowledge anything they say when they interrupt you, theyâll soon realize they will not get their own point across if they keep doing that. Peoole and especially men have the need to be heard and paid attention to when they talk - when you make it clear that by talking over you, they will not have your attention, theyâll learn to wait until youâre done, because they know thatâs when you will be paying attention and actually listening.
Go my darlings. Have some actual conversations where your point of view is just as valid as his. Demand the basic respect of being heard. You can actually have some interesting conversations with men when theyâre forced to listen too, when being louder is not going to make them feel like theyâre dominating the conversation or winning the argument.
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Hi Guys,
So this is kind of an emergency. As you may know I am out of work currently due to treatment of my type 1 bipolar disorder, and my car has been in the shop due to a car accident (rear ended, insurance covers it) for about 3 weeks now so I cannot due Instacart or Doordash so my means of making money has been negatively affected.
I am not in the best housing situation. My mom has unresolved medical issues, and as a black parent has had to struggle for most of her life for what she has obtained. Due to this she does have the negative mindset, that since I'm not out on the streets struggling, I am not trying hard enough, and has threatened to stop paying for my college education, and my housing next semester so that I will be forced to stay in my current toxic environment. She has been like this for my whole life, to me and my brother who she kicked out in 7th grade, and living with my dad is not an option. This environment is toxic and I do not know how much longer I can here, and do not know if she will just stop paying for my tuition or housing.
Please donate or share my Ko-Fi link. I hate asking for money, but I do not know how much longer I can continue to live in this household with this behavior. I have been mentally, and emotionally abused by her my entire life, and do not know how much longer I can deal with this.
4 months, bruh. Iâm counting.
so starved for luck I reblog whenever this crosses my eyes
I didnât rb these kind if stuff fir years and my life is fucked up. So here I am.
i, and i canât emphasize this enough, would literally die for merlin
Eyes that donât see this world, see another.
I was looking for something else, came across this from a couple of years back and thought it worth a reblog.
I wonder how Merlinâs doing?

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actually you will not enjoy hearing this but you literally have to abandon your self deprecating humor. besides the fact that it can drive people away you literally are only hurting yourself by constantly making jokes that further cement the idea in your head that you are not good enough. I do not care that you think its a good coping mechanism it is absolutely not and you need to start challenging negative thoughts instead of feeding into them.
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What happens once you kill yourself? Because I'm ready to go.
You wanna know what happens once you kill yourself? Your mother comes home from work and finds her baby dead and she screams and runs over to you and tries to get you to wake up but you wonât and she keeps screaming and shaking you and her tears are dripping onto your face and your dad hears all the screaming and runs into the room and he canât even speak because the child that he loved and the child that he watched grow up is gone forever and finally your little sister runs into the room to see what all the fuss is about and she sees you dead. The person she looked up to and loved. The person she bragged about to  her friends, the person she wanted to be just like when she grew up, the person that made her feel safe. But sheâs never really going to get to grow up and smile and laugh and love because sheâll always be consumed with this feeling of missing you. And now thereâs something missing from your family and they can barely look at each other anymore because everything reminds them of you but youâre gone and hurts more than anything. and you think that your mom never cared because she was always busy and yelling at you to finish your homework and clean your room and forgot to say I love you sometimes but really, she loved you more than anything and she doesnât leave the house anymore, she canât even get out of bed and sheâs getting thinner and thinner because itâs too hard to eat. Your father had to quit his job and he doesnât sleep anymore, every time he closes his eyes he sees his baby dead, and the image never goes away no matter how much alcohol he drinks. And at school your best friend sees that your seat is empty and she gets this sick feeling in her stomach and thatâs when she hears the announcement. You killed yourself. And suddenly sheâs screaming and crying in the middle of class and no one even bothers comforting because theyâre all  busy sitting there staring at your empty seat with tears dripping down their cheeks and all she wants is for you to hug her and tell her itâs gonna be okay like you always did, but this time, youâre not there to do it, everything is dark now that youâre gone and her grades are slipping, she barely goes to school anymore and she ended up in hospital after taking too many pills because she wanted to see you again. the girls who used to make fun of the way you dressed feel their throats get tight, they donât talk to each other anymore, they donât talk to anyone, theyâre all in therapy trying so hard not to blame themselves but nothing works. and your teacher who always gave you a hard time stares blankly at the wall, she quits her job a few days later. And then your boyfriend hears the news and he canât breathe, he still calls you a lot just to hear your voice and he talks to you on facebook but you never message him back, he canât fall in love again because every girl he meets reminds him of you, heâs never going to get over you, he loved you and he cries himself to sleep every night, hating himself and slicing his skin because he couldnât save you and heâs never going to hold you in his arms or hear you laugh again. Now everyone who knew you, whether they were a big part of your life or someone you passed in the hallway a few times a week, they carry this aching feeling around inside them because youâre gone, and they miss you, and they donât know why you left but it mustâve been their fault and they shouldâve stopped you and they shouldâve told you they loved you more and that feeling is never going to go away. And so you killed yourself
but you killed everyone else around you too.Â
this need to be on everyoneâs blog
im crying
I never usually reblog things like this.. but if it saves just one persons life⌠please take thime to read this even if you think there is no point in living. Please.
please please PLEASE reblog this
Lifeâs too precious. If you feel like this, please know that it gets better. And that people are always happy to lend an ear; heck drop me a message too. But never, ever think about taking your own life.
every single time I read this,i remember how i tried back then. but donât do it.
please reblog if youâre reading this!!!
Reblog besties, This is really important.
I need this sometimes, please reblog for anyone else who needs this
This reminds me of this scene:
Iâve never even considered taking my life but this made me bawl.
Please, if anyone out there is considering killing themselves- although you deserve to have a life, if you refuse to keep going on for yourself- at least do it for others.
We want you here. Please donât leave.
This is such an important thing to read. It justâŚit does make you stop and think for a moment. Things seem hard, gosh they do, but everything happens for a reason and there will always be something good that comes out of the bad thing. This all might sound clichĂŠ since its said so much but its said so much because its true.
the reason Iâm reblogging this is because it really made me think a lot and even though it dosnât have to do with my usual f/o stuff, I wanted to have this on my feed. Please, everyone, take your time and read this. It really makes you think. Even though things may be tough at the moment, always remember that things happen for a reason and that one day, everything will be fine. We want you here. We love you. We know you can do it. We believe in you. <3
Okok guys can people please interact Iâm trying to prove a point to my mom
She believes that having dyed hair is unprofessional and especially for âbiggerâ jobs like a lawyer or a doctor, itâs just unacceptable because of the societal norm. She thinks that bosses wouldnât hire people with unnaturally coloured hair
Reblog if you think that
a) anyone is very capable of getting a job with coloured hair
b) the societal norm can get out
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Read this and save a life - YOUR OWN
From a surgical nurse and certified CPR teacher:
Please pause for 2 minutes and read this:
1. Letâs say itâs 7.25pm and youâre going home (alone of course) after an unusually hard day on the job.
2. Youâre really tired, upset and frustrated.
3 Suddenly you start experiencing severe pain in your chest that starts to drag out into your arm and up in to your jaw. You are only about five km from the hospital nearest your home.
4. Unfortunately you donât know if youâll be able to make it that far.
5. You have been trained in CPR, but the guy who taught the course did not tell you how to perform it on yourself.
6. HOW TO SURVIVE A HEART ATTACK WHEN ALONE? Since many people are alone when they suffer a heart attack without help, the person whose heart is beating improperly and who begins to feel faint, has only about 10 seconds left before losing consciousness.
7. However, these victims can help themselves by coughing repeatedly and very vigorously. A deep breath should be taken before each cough, and the cough must be deep and prolonged, as when producing sputum from deep inside the chest. A breath and a cough must be repeated about every two seconds without let-up until help arrives, or until the heart is felt to be beating normally again.
8. Deep breaths get oxygen into the lungs and coughing movements squeeze the heart and keep the blood circulating. The squeezing pressure on the heart also helps it regain normal rhythm. In this way, heart attack victims can get to a hospital.
9. Tell as many other people as possible about this. It could save their lives!!
10. A cardiologist says If everyone who gets this mail kindly sends it to 10 people, you can bet that weâll save at least one life.
11. Rather than sending jokes, please... contribute by forwarding this mail which can save a personâs life.
12. If this message comes around you... more than once⌠please donât get irritated... You should instead, be happy that you have many friends who care about you & keeps reminding you how to deal with a Heart attack.
please take the time and boost this post by reposting it and sending it to those you love because we all need to understand how to quickly deal with heart attacks

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This is how real change is made, through direct action.
sometimes change is made by a as many people as possible saying âi know i techincally cant stop you, but i can Not Help you and that will have Some Effectâ
I wish all writers who havenât been able to write in a long time bc of depression a very I love u and I promise u will write again