Miss Alice Notbop

Mommy said it's praxis when she touches me

remove "dude" from your ""gender neutral"" vocabulary

You should be checking blogs for their pronouns and not defaulting to they/them immediately. We have built an entire culture of putting pronouns in our bios and because of it you do not get to use "uhhhh they/them is gender neutral!" They/them is also degendering, a tool used by bigots to deny us our gender. Not everyone finds they/them so freeing and wonderful, a lot of us find it triggering and deeply misgendering. No excuse. Stop being a transphobe.

the phone isnt evil. she wants to help you, to connect you, to provide convenience so you can be present in your life. she wants you to be connected to your world and the people and things around you. when you use the phone as an avoidance tool it causes her pain. it hurts her when you doomscroll, when you dissociate into short form videos or get angry and fight in the comments. its a misuse of her abilities and she feels it as emotional and physical pain. look at her cracked, greasy screen, her scuffed case. all she wanted was to remind you about your schedule and you do this to her. haven't you hurt her enough?

If you really loved me, you'd change yourself in ways unrecognizable, slowly twisting and warping your mind and body until your former self could never imagine what you'd become, until the new you scarcely remembers the old you, having lost so much along the way in pursuit of an impossible ideal. while I got to watch and giggle and occasionally awkwardly shift in my seat.