one of the most frustrating thing is being treated like expressing your opinion abt things is being like controlling or abusive or malevolent in some way. idk why this is something that happens to transfeminized ppl a lot but fsr it is. i've seen ppl get HALed for talking shit abt a fucking play on socmed. i've had ppl treat me like i was judging them and taking over their life bc i talked abt not having the same religious beliefs and not wanting others' religious beliefs applied to me. it's so fucking idk what to even say abt it it's like we are not allowed to have and express our own opinions and if what we think contrasts with others then it is an attack on them. that we do not actually do anything to even try to control what others do means nothing if someone feels that we are. it's so fucking exhausting to have ppl constantly assign you as an Arbiter Of Morality And Conduct because you speak your mind on things and then treat you as responsible and to blame for their own fucking complexes. and ofc the answer to this kind of bootstrapped dilemma is fucking always excision


















