NotAVeryNiceLady

if you want to dress gay but aren’t sure how, you need to focus more on finding clothes you actually like and that make you feel good when you look in the mirror. develop your style independently of what you think looks gayest and trust the homosexuality will follow. it goes where confidence and self acceptance are

all the rights that come with marriage you should be able to have without marriage btw. you should be able to designate a person who can visit you in the hospital regardless of your relationship to that person.

fiction can be really dangerous there might be a deeply tragic woman in there who starts living in your head forever

normalize sexualizing that old woman without having mommy issues. maybe i don't want to be her pet because i'm traumatized. maybe i want to be her pet because she's hot. you ever think of that.

the hacks (hbo) experience is just non stop thinking about that one phoebe waller-bridge quote about killing eve - “every moment in this show exists so that these two women can end up alone in a room together.” i think every show should have that premise i will never stop thinking about these ladies

i think 'I trust you with my life but not your own' as a trope is one of the ones that can always fuck me up no matter what

Conservative beauty standards are back with a vengeance which means it's especially important to go out this summer with bellies out and bodies unshaved. Also be unapologetically disabled with mobility aids and wearable medical devices and stim toys and ear defenders and all that stuff. You need it. People need to see it. Everyone needs to be reminded that life is unquestioningly more enjoyable when you're not living inside an arbitrary set of rules created by people who are offended by all the wrong things.