Lovely to see you back. You mention you explored and actually experienced multiple partner sex recently, while you were away. This is a new thing for you I know, from your previous posts. So can you tell us about it?
Sex with multiple partners is new for me.
And it's a bit more complicated.
It's something my man and I have talked about often, and till now, it's been something that we just put off. Nice maybe, but not a priority. That has shifted.
Since my event in June, I have felt freer about my sexual possibilities, among them my desire to explore multiple partners. So we did actually set it up a couple of nights, with men we know well. The first time was simply oral sex on my part, pure and simple. The second time was with my man guiding it. I won't go into detail now, because I want to spend some time talking about the nuances of it. But I will say that it was very good, not at all like what I experienced in my twenties. I will add that it is something my man is excited about exploring, mainly because he wants to watch me.
There are a number of themes we think about when it comes to multiple partners. First of all there are two categories.
Kinky sex with multiple partners, involving bondage, flogging, torment of different types, where I am purely a vessel for pleasure.
non-kinky sex, involving different configurations. MMF, MFF, FFF
The problem with my past experiences was pretty basic: with multiple partners, too often it gets clumsy and glitchy because no one's sure what to do next. Another issue is that I am multi-orgasmic, like lots of girls, and I am still eager to go when the men have run out of steam.
The major priority both from his point of view and mine is that this has to be sexually fulfilling for me.
Here are the solutions we thought of:
make it more guided, with one person watching over what's happening and directing the action.
work out a loose plan, and talk about when to switch what's happening.
Talk with the multiple partners beforehand (and this in itself is arousing) about what arouses me, what kind of play I like (breasts, ass, oral up to a point, mild domination and submission such as hair-pulling (which I like), spanking (which I like). Also I LOVE giving oral. These are details that can smooth things along.
Being multi-orgasmic in the way that I am has its pluses and its minuses. The plus is that once I reach a certain level of arousal I will cum fairly spontaneously, by penetration. So a solution might be more than 2 partners for me, maybe 4 or 5.
Because my man wants to watch sometimes, it means cultivating some connections with men who will be suitable and willing.
Kinky sex with multiple partners, which is what I am most interested in, is also the most complicated to organize, since the pool of people available to participate is limited.
Because of the logistics, this won't be something that happens too often - it takes some organizing. Then again, we both think there may well be unexpected opportunities, and we need to explore that too.
I appreciate this question. I don't want to shy away from the two individual instances of multiple partner sex that I have had already - I am happy to elaborate. Just please ask. I'm a willing girl. *grin*
