ice in my OJ

swinging at the bees nest here but a criticism of trans women i've never really understood is that they just "take the idea of womanhood and co opt it and run with it based on their own whims." like ummm yeah? that's kinda what i did too. i wasn't handed some objective universal definition of womanhood that i faithfully carried out at every turn with no objection. i built my own understanding of what being a woman meant based on the women around me and the women i admire and the things that felt authentic to me and the things i rejected or embraced. like we all inherit ideas about womanhood and then negotiate with them. otherwise we'd all genuinely think the only "real women" left were those fucking trad wives

⁉️ happy pride month turns out I Saw The TV Glow is free to watch on youtube and has been for at least three months now and i did not know until just now

i need to get gender affirming surgery

Ugh, it was in mine. It's off now.

This is an anti-despair checkpoint! You must share something you're looking forward to before scrolling on.

Girl whose most frequent mistake is inaction voice: wow I keep making mistakes I better not do anything

okay well i already fixed my heart and everyone knows that that's something you only have to do 1 time and not constantly

don't be mean to yourself that's you

you live there