i'd love an Outer Banks matchup, please! :)
personality: Kind, Smart, Talented, Quiet, Shy, Awkward, Jealous, Judgemental, Impatient, Anxious, Worried, Sensitive, Introverted, Perceptive, Intuitive, Cowardly, Understanding, Straight-forward, People-pleaser, trust issues.
i hold grudges!!!!!!! and don't forgive or forget.
i can randomly become sarcastic, but only when i'm really comfortable with someone.
i tend to laugh/chuckle/smile awkwardly when i'm feeling embarrassed or uncomfortable or awkward or anything like that.
I get really tough headaches that are a mix between tension headaches and a migraine (when i'm really anxious/overthinking something i have going on for the day) and they cause me to not be able to do anything but sleep (i take it as like, my body forcing me to rest lolli).
lowkey have anger issues (can control them, but i get angry inwards and i barely let it show).
i don't rest until i fulfill what i set my mind to, no matter how long it takes.
i can't control my facial expressions whatsoever... i can be quiet for hours and my face will tell u everything i'm thinking.
i'm pretty fidgety, especially with my hair.
when i'm really comfortable with someone i sometimes randomly playfully poke them/"hit" them (not roughly, just playfully).
Since a really young age, i've had a slouching problem, and i struggle with sitting up-right and i've had back pain.
I struggle with sleeping/i'm a really light sleeper... i guess i could say i have insomnia.
dislikes: jealous/envious people, rude/mean people, being abandoned, not having control (of myself/life... not necessarily others), people who are always so negative and are always worrying and causing me to be even more anxious/worried than i already am, people who over-exaggerate a story/something that happened & add untrue details (ESPECIALLY if it's a story about me/involves me)
hobbies/likes: Singing, Acting, Reading, (belly) dancing, analyzing characters, listening to music (mostly pop, dance/disco/r&b and stuff that makes me feel confident)
green flags: supportive, flexible, really good listener, can be a hypewoman at times (hyping you up), always sending good vibes and prayers to those i love/care about, always trying to help in any way and giving advice when someone vents/has a problem.
red flags: lowkey kinda toxic in relationships/friendships (in terms of possession, jealousy, insecurity, accusatory), huge gatekeeper, mostly do things for my own benefit, i tend to pull away/get scared/kinda "fall out of love" i guess when someone gets too close or when things are going really well, struggle with communication + people pleaser.
relationship preference: someone who doesn't have really close girl best friends (who are into him/could possibly be into him)
Early S1 JJ would probably be too emotionally chaotic and inconsistent for someone with your level of anxiety, trust issues, and need for stability
You need someone who doesn’t judge your awkwardness, can get you out of your head without forcing you, can handle jealousy without immediately walking away and is patient enough to understand your trust issues
JJ has his own abandonment issues, so he’d recognize a lot of your fears
Ironically, you’d probably understand each other’s insecurities better than either of you understands yourselves
Since you said your facial expressions tell everyone everything JJ would become frighteningly good at reading them
He’d immediately notice when you’re anxious, annoyed, jealous, overthinking etc.
Your headaches is something he’d surprisingly not take as a joke
He’d close the curtains, grab water and potentional painkillers
Your trust issues would probably be your biggest challenge in the relationship
If you’d constantly wonder:
“What if he likes someone else?”
JJ honestly wouldn’t always know how to reassure you with words
Instead he’d try reassure you with consistency
You’d definitely have moments where you’d spiral because some girl was laughing at his jokes
The difference is JJ isn’t the type to intentionally make you jealous
Once he realizes something genuinely bothers you, he’d start setting clearer boundaries
He’d rather avoid making you overthink or get into an argument
Your sarcasm would become one of his favorite things
Your playful little hits?
He’d absolutely fake getting injured every single time
“I don’t think I’m gonna make it.”
He’d pretend he isn’t interested in reading together
Then halfway through he’d ask,
“So…who’s that guy again?”
Eventually he’s completely invested in whatever you’re reading
When you’re people-pleasing JJ actually gets annoyed
At everyone taking advantage of you
“You know you can say no.”
You bottle everything up, hold grudges, withdraw, overthink
JJ gets defensive, reacts emotionally, hates feeling rejected
There would definitely be fights where neither of you communicate well
But if the relationship lasts it lasts because both of you learn healthier communication
You make life feel stable
Neither of you judges the other’s flaws because you’ve both been hurt before
Biggest challenges would be your jealousy and possessiveness, his impulsiveness, your tendency to pull away when someone gets too close, both of you having trust and abandonment wounds
If neither of you worked on those patterns, the relationship could become exhausting
But if you both matured emotionally, you’d balance each other well
