It's time to coin terms.

Ok but genuine question because im having impostor syndrome: if i am non dysphoric doesn't that mean i "choose" to be trans? Like if im ok with living as my agab but i like being non binary better then i "choose" to be this non binary right?

Oh, oh my god, never thought of it like that, thank you

I’m glad I could help you out, friend! Sending my love <3

when shrek said get out of my swamp he was talking solely to sysmeds. no i will not elaborate.

my entire life changed when my dentist told me that the only time my teeth should be touching is when i’m chewing. every single time my teeth are touching i have to separate them. and i noticed that i clench my teeth a LOT.

when your mouth is closed and your teeth are touching or held tightly together, you are unnecessarily straining muscles out of stress. the healthiest way to hold your jaw is slightly apart, where it is relaxed. THIS HELPS WITH HEADACHES

I unclenched my jaw upon reading this.

queer people aren’t pokemon you don’t have to goddamn sort yourself into such an absurdly specific category holy shit just do your thing and apologize to no one 

Femme and Butch have been used by bisexual people since the terms were fucking created. Femme and Butch have NEVER been “lesbian exclusive” terms. Exclusionists and radfems are lying to you. Femme and Butch are our terms too.

They weren’t even female exclusive when I was growing up, and into the late 2000s. Like people of all genders within the community could call themselves fem(me) or butch. Butch and fem guys were a thing. Butch and femme nb people definitely were.

My gay grandfather who died in the early 90’s called himself butch and exclusively dated femmes.

I have never called myself femme because of the vitriol directed toward bi people who call themselves femme or butch.

It’s never too late to start!

imagine your icon showing up at your house at 3 am and crawling into your bed with no context or explanation

I already sleep with my frog plush so..🤷‍♂️

mspec lesbians who use the sunset flag knowing it probably makes the creator WRITHE in anger are the backbone of society

Reformed villain opens a shop where trans men can come and stab them to affirm their gender identity

@lukebbuff

i only saw the last reblog last time and boy did it get better

Smash that reblog button if you love being aromantic or aro-spec

nebularomantic gang

all good faith identities are valid & beautiful. if you use a label that's very hated on for being "contradictory" you're valid & loved. dictating labels will always be bigotry. nobody knows your individual experience. you know yourself better than anyone.