Hints at Marriage/Wedding between Sherlock and John.
We know we have plenty of evidence for Sherlock and John becoming a stable romantic couple/life partners/canon johnlock. But I wanted to see an exclusive list of every suggestion at the possibility of Sherlock and John in a bond of marriage/wedlock/tying the knot/putting a ring on it.
I surprised myself clueing for looks for this, because the list kept going on and on! I wrote it on the basis that if anything I see or hear in the show makes me even consider the idea, then itâs most likely deliberately put there to trigger in me that association. Iâve learnt thatâs like a rule of thumb for reading the subtext in âSherlockâ.
ASiP
đ John implying that marriage = nice stuff that could happen to you.Â
These entries are from before and after he meets Sherlock.
đ Mrs. Turnerâs âmarried onesâ. In the canon, ACD referred to Mrs. Hudson as Mrs. Turner in âA Scandal in Bohemiaâ. Mofftiss took this original continuity error and âfixed itâ (as they like to say, itâs what theyâre doing with this show) by getting Mrs. H. mistaken for Mrs. Turner on Johnâs blog, the neighbour from next door, whose lodgers are a married gay couple.Â
đ Mrs. Hudson comparing Sherlock to her âhusbandâ. Her natural emphasis on âmyâ makes the equation more evident. As in, âYours is just like mine wasâ. They do this type of thing again in THoB, when Billy asks John âIs yours a snorer?â.
đ âMight we expect a happy announcement by the end of the week?â. Right off the bat and in Johnâs face, Mycroft is blatantly implying marriage. Also, âend of the weekâ = end of the show? He basically kidnapped his potential brother-in-law to make sure heâs a keeper, with physical examination and all.
đ Sherlock delicately slipping the ring back on mirror-Johnâs finger. My favourite. Weâre familiar with Jennifer Wilson being a mirror of John, and the fact that Sherlockâs deduction about her ring foreshadows Johnâs marriage with Mary⌠but can we just take a moment to appreciate the beauty of this particular shot?
đ âIâm married to my workâ, says the man who by season three keeps ignoring cases in order to plan the perfect wedding for John. The writers could have chosen ANY other way to phrase it, but they chose the word âmarriedâ. This trope has allowed Sherlock to have an arc in which he eventually realized he needs to make amends and focus on the things that âkeep him rightâ (his love for John).
TBB
đ John literally saying his name is âHolmesâ to the ticket guy at the circus, because he made reservations under Sherlockâs name. Sherlock is so inserted in his life at this point that he practically âtook his nameâ too. It just sounds so natural on Johnâs lips. Sarah is Not Impressed.
đ Lucy & Westie were engaged to be married, and we know that they mirror John & Sherlock respectively.
THoB
đ Sherlock admitting he can no longer âdivorceâ himself from feelings.  Again, they could have chosen âseparateâ, âdetachâ, ANY other word, but not if the writers wanted us to make an association with a marital bond.
đ The âsentimental widowâ who still wears her late husbandâs ring around her neck, could mirror John, mourning Sherlock like a widower.Â
TRF
đ This visual of Sherlock and John tied together by their wrists:
Weâve always seen this as romantic. But itâs interesting that the idiom we know as âtying the knotâ actually comes from ancient wedding traditions were bride and groom were literally tied by their wrists with some sort of cord to symbolize the binding together of their two lives into one. Many people still do this today, even in the uk, like THIS same-sex couple. (My mind blew when I saw this connection, and was the reason why I started this post.)
TEH
đ Visual metaphor of Sherock âwalking down the aisleâ and John as the waiting groom. Like you all flailed about in this lovely post.
đ Sherlock teasing that weddings are ânot his thingâ with a wink. When we know he ended up being the best wedding planner you could possibly ask for. Â (Also everybody in this show seem to contradict themselves.)
The whole of TSoT
đ This promo picture personally attacking me.
đ This exchange on Johnâs blog. If you didnât know them and just stumbled upon this entry, youâd think theyâre talking about John and Sherlockâs wedding, since Maryâs not mentioned even once on that page:
Sherlockâs little âweâ there does the trick. Bonus points for domestic banter.
đ John says âMy husband is three peopleâ, Sherlock is one of them!
đ Sherlockâs motif -instead of Maryâs- plays when John and Mary come out of the church as newlyweds, like Rebekah pointed out. ALSO, you can hear the beauty of Sherlockâs motif actually played in a special way underneath that loud bell-pealing sound, if you isolate the audio on channels 1 and 2:Â
đ âJust the bride and groom, pleaseâ *Sherlock lingers*Â
đ Sherlock first talking against âloveâ and âweddingsâ, and later contradicting himself by declaring his love for John, calling John his âhelpmateâ and saying âweddings are great, love a wedding!â, all in the same speech.
đ John popping âthe big questionâ to Sherlock like heâs proposing.Â
So, we didnât get to see John finish his -already awkward- interrupted proposal to Mary, but we did have this loving, heartfelt, beautifully framed scene instead. After all, John did indirectly confess that he loved him, and we saw them softer than ever. Sherlock later says this ârequestâ made him feel âflatteredâ, âsuprisedâ, âa little dauntedâ, and âvery close to being movedâ. Also, come on, asking someone âthe big questionâ is asking them to marry you, NOT to be your best man. And finally, this was a ârelationship upgradeâ for them (from Friends to Best Friends), so this scene was indeed about them âtaking things to the next levelâ.
đ Just like Bainbridgeâs murder was a rehearsal for Sholtoâs, this very wedding might be a sort of first try in the showâs story too; another âinside jokeâ from the writers, as in they planned the johnlock wedding and rehearsed it. After all, the paper Sherlock stares at in his MP was about the wedding itself:
đ The general way in which Sherlock behaves like one of the grooms instead of the best man. (ie. sitting next to John in the center like they are the celebrated couple, or even throwing his buttonhole flower like a bride would a bouquet)
đ Sherlockâs Vow as a âDeclaration of Protectionâ:
Like the tropeâs definition specifies, this could perfectly have been a comradely statement, but instead they chose a wording âakin to a Love Confessionâ. Fitting, given that Sherlock is making a vow to John (and not-Mary and not-Johnâs/inexistent-baby)  AT A WEDDING.
đ Sherlock teaching John the wedding waltz AND dancing it with him (which they couldnât show because for two âjust friendsâ who have unspoken feelings for one another thatâs literally a Convenient Slow Dance). Also Sherlock didnât get his dance after confessing he loves dancing, and that he lives âin hope of the right caseâ.
đ This dialogue and framing, which just scream âhusbandsâ:
đ Sherlock angrily writing about a ânext weddingâ on Johnâs blog:Â
Also, when Sherlock is sarcastically posing as John at the beggining of the entry, this is what comes to his head as he writes:
HLV
đ Waking up from dreaming of Sherlock, John tells Kate that Issac, who he knows is âthe drugs oneâ is her âhusbandâ, when itâs actually her son. Freudian slip?
đ Lady Smallwoodâs pressure point is her husband; Sherlockâs is John.Â
Since sheâs not only a foil to Mary in the plot, but also a mirror for Sherlock. Magnussed used both of them as leverage and sexually harassed them. (Yes, it was sexual harassment) I mean look at how he treated them (deleted scene on the right). We didnât see Magnussen doing that to Mary, did we?
đ Missis Hudson saying âIt was my husbandâs cartel, I was just typingâ.
đ When Sherlock proposes to Janine, the first time we ever see the ring and realize what heâs doing we get this shot:
And then of course this heartbreaking one:
đ John sees Sherlockâs parents as âa fine example of married lifeâ. Mummy and Daddy Holmes mirror Sherlock and John respectively. So much so, itâs astounding.
đ Sherlock thinks that naming someone âSherlock Watsonâ could work, like pointed out by this lovely person.
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đ Maybe Lestrade explaining the crime scenes had ârice on the floor like at a wedding and the word YOU written in blood on the wallâ? Since âYOUâ means âJohnâ? I just added it here because it made me associate the ideas of âweddingâ and âJohnâ yet again. But I think this may as well be Sherlock equating âJohn marrying Mary = deathâ. Either as in âI died that day!â, or as in âmarrying Mary was Johnâs doomâ. Please feel free to let me know your perspective on this.
đ Mary calling John âmy husbandâ while embodying Sherlock:
Since we are inside Sherlockâs head, this looks like Sherlock proyecting himself on Mary, since he recognizes they are similar (and rivals for Johnâs affection). Therefore, he visualises her having his mannerisms and same dramatic way of storming out when an exciting case arrives.Â
Also, âJust a friend in need (âŚ) England.â = âWho needs me this time?â âEngland.âÂ
Remember that in this episode Hopper dressed up as a man. Sherlock mouthed other charatersâ voices. The sharp and observant brunette Maid told John things Sherlock would say (Iâm not the only one seeing this). So why wonât he be proyecting himself on Mary as well? Iâm 100% sure this was the creatorâs intention. Mofftiss managed to have a personification of Sherlock calling John his âhusbandâ in Victorian times.
đ Hooper saying that Emelia was âpositively identified by her own husband seconds before he diedâ. Which always reminded me of John checking Sherlockâs pulse seconds after the fall. ouch
đ The Bride, Eustace and Lady Carmichael in the maze framed like Sherlock, Mary and John in the empty houses. We know the Bride is meant to represent Emelia, to whom Eustace once promised marriage, while Lady Carmichael is his current wife. Of course, Iâm not denying that Lady Carmichael is the mirror for John and Eustace is Maryâs. Iâm only pointing out the parallel that IMO these specific visuals are making; both are love triangles. The two women are romantic rivals, just like Sherlock and Mary are.
SETLOCK, June 16th, Kennignton Street
đ Extreme likeliness of âThe Wedding Wardrobeâ boutique appearing in the background of that scene.
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Hereâs the full front of the boutique behind that bus stop in Google Street View:
Now, I needed confirmation of the position of the camera when filming there to account this as the possible background for that scene and I remembered the extra that took this picture from inside the bus:
After all, why would you choose THIS location out of 19,000+ bus stops in London, if not for its surroundings? (Also, âwardrobeâ = âclosetâ?) I canât wait to see a confirmation of this.Â
So, in a show that pays SO much attention to detail, wording in dialogue, cinematography, etc. Why would they want to introduce in my head the idea of marriage with things related to Sherlock and Johnâs relationship? I mean most of these arenât even necessary to set them up as a couple -the rest of the show already does that. See what I mean?
Thanks for reading, and please feel free to add your perspectives on this. If thereâs any other hint I missed, or if you can think of arguments against this reading please donât hold your thoughts back. I learn a lot from you all. :)
[Sorry if thereâs anything unusual in the layout, Iâm learning how to do all this. Tagging some geniuses: @inevitably-johnlocked @quietlyprim @vauxhallandi @consultingeastwind @teapotsubtext @deducingbbcsherlock @warmth-and-constancy @sussexbound @vanetti @skulls-and-tea ]
Oh wow! This is great!! Nice catches everywhere. Further proof of a Johnlock Endgame :)
Great work, pulling all of this together! I sort of remember some earlier metas about the more subtle visual suggestions, was it by @bug-catcher-in-viridian-forest, or @just-sort-of-happened, ?
Beautiful!!!!! Loads in there I hadnât seen yet. I went through and found a couple more that I knew Iâd seen
this thread started by @cupidford
visual metaphor in asip by @bug-catcher-in-viridian-forest
this little one by me
and thereâs that post that i canât find where âthe Watsons are about to have a domesticâ then Sherlock and John have an argument, not John and Mary.Â












