Thereβs something so uniquely terrifying about memory issues. I feel like my self is slipping away from me.
Hereβs the thing I feel like a lot of folks donβt get: Iβm not trying to forget what you said. Honestly, I really tried not to. I canβt control what I do and donβt rememberβforgetting things just happens. Itβs annoying for you, I know, but for me itβs distressing as hell and when you make a big deal out of it rather than just reminding me you make me feel ashamed. Iβll remember that, at least.
It costs you nothing to be kind to people with memory problems. Please. Itβs scary enough without people treating memory lapses as a personal failing.
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