.... holy shit. @knotfrotter so you're going to sexualize transmascs and then call it transmisogyny when we... (checks notes)... talk about our experiences being trans and experiencing misogyny???????? helllooooo?????? AM I IN REAL LIFE
saw the rb that said is it transphobic to be t4t. motherfuckerr I'm t4t as hell. it's *fetishization* when you don't see us as people on the same level as you ! if you did you would engage w the real problem here (transmisogyny is not "when transmascs talk about misogyny")! instead you brag about being blocked by transmascs in your bio and then go on to thirst after them/us;
we're only desirable until we speak up about how we feel? about our past experiences? that's not t4t. that's fetishization (and dareisay.... transphobia)
you're 20, so i'm gonna be gentle here: this is a kink post. on someone's horny blog, for being horny. if you don't like it, you don't need to engage with it! not everything is for you! it's okay to go "oh. don't like that. oh well, moving on." without opening your mouth (and promptly sticking your foot in it)
signed, op's transgender boyfriend personal fleshlight.
the point was not the horny, I just found it especially egregious to be bragging about transmascs having you blocked in your pinned post on your t4t "horny blog." I am not mad that u r horny. horn it up. I love my two transfem partners, and that's why I saw the post to begin with. do I see that it's funny and somewhat crazy that I am engaging in discourse regarding user KnotFrotter??? YES!! but that's kinda my point. why does a kink blog specifically say "omgg I'm blocked by this trans guy who talked about his experience w misogyny? I'm such an anti-transmisogyny icon"
What outrages me is the continuous implication that transmisogyny is when trans men & transmascs talk about their experiences. I've said that several times, and neither of you have denied or countered it. (Saying "read about transfeminism!" does not count- maybe you should read about transunitarianism?)
If your and your partners response is to call THAT transmisogyny or cling to the "you hate horny trans people" reading of my post (??), idk what you've been reading, but "talk less" is what I will not do. (bc this is tumblr????????)
Similarly, I am aware I don't have to engage in things I don't like. I am also not obligated not to speak up when I see things that I think hurt the trans community in real ways!















