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The hot girl marries nerd/slob/fat guy. I get why it's a thing. Who doesn't dream of a hot date/partner/spouse? But can we have more pairings were the people are not only the same level of hotness BUT ALSO has things in common? Bernadette and Howard are great examples of this. They are both scientists and enjoy Disney media. Same with Amy and Sheldon. They are both scientists and love talking about science-related topics. But what about Penny and Lenard? They have nothing in common. Penny doesn't really enjoy the same media as Leonard. In fact, she basically calls him a nerd. So why is she with him? Because he's the first male that didn't see her as a body to grope. All other boyfriends she's had treated her like a Barbie doll they can fuck. But Leonard knew she was a person who deserved respect and body autonomy. She saw that and realized she'd never find that in the usual crop of men she dates.

We KNEW they weren’t from India. Why were we so lazy about the change?

What y’all think.

Here's what I would of told Sheldon: "Look, no one should have coitus unless they want to. And maybe you are slightly asexual but not aromatic. Meaning you have romantic feelings for Amy but none that include sex. Or maybe you're simply not ready yet. Everyone does have their own timeline for that. " "However, you have to realize that Amy DOES want sex. She's been patient for years. And even though you don't have to have sex if you don't want to, you DO have to realize that Amy does want sex and is tired of waiting. She may decide end the relationship and find someone else who is smart like her AND wants to be physically intimate."

So why do people put up with it?

It's Valentine's Day and what does Sheldon do? Ask his assistant to buy some gifts for Amy and then take the best gift for himself. It's so stupid. Yes, he does make Amy his emergency contact which she likes. That is nice. But he only lets her know he did that AFTER she says they don't have to do a traditional Valentine's day and can watch sci-fi movies instead. Amy has to give up so much in this relationship and gets little in return. And then there's Howard. His mother did everything for him and now he assumes that's what women do. His wife works long hours and all she wants is for him to do ONE load of laundry. What does he do? Play games all day like a spoiled brat and doesn't understand why Bernie's mad.

Why do people tolerate him?

Why do shows ALWAYS write comic book shops as places girls won't go? And when a girl does show up every male in the place becomes def mute or a stuttering idiot? Girls like comics. I go to comic book shops. We need to have shows that have comic book shops WITH girls.

The guy who played Homelander is AMAZING. Oscar worthy acting.

I hope I find out soon.

I am so conflicted. I want Homelander dead. That is a given. BUT… it won’t be satisfying if it happens too fast.

A friend I went to HS with shared something on Facebook that "trans children are like vegan dogs. We all know who made them." I do not have the time to educate them. Trans kids KNOW who they are. Some take a moment to find their truth. Others know right away. The fact that in today's world we still have people who don't understand that is sad. I wanted to post so much so he'd know how wrong he is. But, again, I don't have the time or patience to educate him.