gender is a social construct.......

To the few guys I know having surgery this week!

^I’ve been loving this channel lately, and this is a particularly good video about how to have your wishes respected after you die if you have family who may NOT respect you/your identity.

Such a good idea to make a plan. And also watch Caitlin’s channel (and read her books).

(please boost)

Lol if you disagree with this unfollow me immediately thanks

Trans people are valid no matter what

Oh I have never reblogged faster in my life

Watching my bi friends’ identities get erased when they‘re in m/f relationships makes me think it’s even MORE important to write bi characters in m/f relationships and then be REALLY BLATANT about the fact that one or both of them is bi.

I know a lot of lesbians that used to identify as bi who worried that coming out as a lesbian would contribute to invalidating bisexuality in some way, by making it seem like a “stepping stone” to coming out as gay. I’ve also known bi women who identified as lesbians and changed their labels later, and worried that they were contributing to some kind of idea about how men can ~turn lesbians. I just wanted to say that it’s no individual lesbian or bi women’s responsibility to fix straight people’s perception of us. Like, it’s not your duty to serve as a political symbol! It’s your duty to find happiness even if that means changing ur label at some points.

These are real people who they are making into pronouns

@mogai-cringe GRRR BARK BARK BARK !!! GRRR !!!! GRRR !!!! BARK BARK BARK BARK WOOF WOOF GRRR BARK BARK !!!!

recs for trans women are so rare on tumblr!! spread this, people.

Please reblog this, in total it’s about $38.50 to make a huge difference for a trans woman/trans feminine person. 

I’ve honestly been tucking with that kind of thing ever since I started and it’s so useful

for trans women in the UK, go to primark! when someone i knew was experimenting with gender and gender presentation, i took him to primark and we got a haul of shape wear and bras for cheap as hell. they sell bra inserts there too. i highly recommend primark for all your needs.

Reblogging for trans women who might need this!!

Go forth with elegance, sisters!

to all of you with complex identities, with labels that may not make sense to many others, to those that are maybe even confused about what their own gender and/or orientation even is exactly- i see you and i love you for being you. i hope you have or can find labels and spaces that make you comfortable and happy, people that support you and dont judge or hate your weird relationship with gender and orientations. i hope you all have a wonderful day, week, month, year, and rest of your life ♡

this is amazing and beautiful but can I just say: “ain’t going away til I die so get over it” is raw and powerful as FUCK.

So yeah….seeing older Non-binary people is so fucking reassuring. Thank y'all for fighting and paving the way. We will continue the fight to be ourselves!

Dude there’s tons of us out here. We just didn’t have language for it when we were younger.

Reblogging this for my Non-Binary followers and because I like that hat