A moderately sexy man

Strong women are gloriously beautiful at any age.

This is really cool.

Of course Mulan looks the youngest….

because she IS the youngest … ?

do they

YES

It’s funnier everytime I see it.

still one of my all time favourite posts

this should be a new drawing challenge, draw the squad at splash mountain

I wish I could draw

PRINCESA

Like, seriously. The only feminists I have ever EVER met who weren’t dropping slurs, worshipping racist historical figures, staunchly against sex work, or whatever else I met on the Internet. And even then it’s been a handful. But I’m wrong if I say the movement is so harmful to myself and others that it makes me uncomfortable to be a part of it?

And it’s not like I’m talking about feminists who just so happen to be racist or whatever. Their feminism will be racist - forever us leaving out, stealing from us, refusing to even acknowledge race for fear of “distracting” and “dividing.” Same goes for the cissexism - from the “yay uterus=woman” baby feminists to the radfems who literally dedicate time out of their day to sending trans women death threats. How am I the worst person ever for wanting to distance myself from that?

And the few appalled feminists I saw in my inbox? How often do they argue against “not all men” and “real men don’t” but they came to my inbox with “not all feminists” and “real feminists don’t.” How ironic. And it doesn’t matter what “branch” of feminism you offer to me - radical, liberal, white, baby, vs Real True™ feminism. They all have these huge ostracizing issues. The only one that seemed okay was black womanism - until the transmisogyny came out among the group I was interacting with.

I’m not saying identifying as a feminist is bad or I hate you for being a feminist. If you’re concerned about oppression around the board, great! Awesome! Keep being great! Be part of the reason feminism gets better. But I personally feel too hurt and ostracized by the current movement to count myself among you. And if you harass me for that, you’re not a very good feminist. That’s all.

through sadness and difficult times i still don’t allow myself to become hardened by my hurt. i remain soft, hopeful, and compassionate. this is my nature and i do not give myself enough credit for it. softness is resilience too.

Lets play the game called "how did you find my blog and what made you want to follow"

*straight man voice* you want me to EAT my ice cream with a PINK spoon???? you might as well shove TEN COCKS right up my ASS