Know your worth.

Don’t be blinded by their potential, and instead focus on what is! Take their actions at face value, not their words or what your idealistic imagination fashions him into being. If they tell you you’re too good for them, or they play around, they’re inconsistent, they’re indecisive, or any of the above mentioned red flags – for the sake of your mind, body, heart and soul, walk away at the first red flag. I promise you it doesn’t get better, it only gets worse. A partner that is beneficial for your overall wellbeing will be so from the beginning; you don’t need to go through fire and brimstome to prove anything, or transform his life, or upgrade him. That’s his job. All you have to do is set your high standards, and say no to anything less.

And you know why? Because you deserve it! You’re worthy of the best man, the best relationship, the best love, because just as well you offer the best. Protect your mind, your heart, your body and spirit from any low vibrational experiences. Protect yourself by treating yourself like the treasure you are: worthy of a king, not a jester.

Remember my dear ladies, if you say yes to anything below your standards … the only person who will go through heartache, wasted time, wasted effort and more, the only person who will go through fire and brimstone, is you.

So stay committed to your happiness above all.

I was about 20 years old when I was first saw a movie in the theater by myself. It was “Forces of Nature” with Sandra Bullock. And there I was, tucked away in the quiet (and now defunct) Fairfax Theater in my hometown of LA, watching a movie about natural disasters and feeling something being unearthed within myself. It was scary and unfamiliar, yet grounding and absolutely invigorating. And from an optics perspective it seems so silly – because you’re simply watching a movie by yourself (as we often do at home) – but to experience this in public unnerved me, which is why I had to do it. To laugh loudly and unapologetically alone while in public. To simply be. With that said, there are so many important things you should do for yourself – to flex your independence and allow yourself the opportunity for greater growth. After all, they say happiness begins with self-love. And enjoying your own company is the very best start for that adventure. Here are the things we suggest you check off of your self-care bucket list:

This can feel oddly intimidating at first, but once you realize that you have the freedom to see absolutely anything (and not have to share the popcorn, at that), a solo movie trip can be totally liberating. That embarrassing rom com you’ve been eyeing? An indy documentary that intrigues you? Go for it. Sit back, relax, and enjoy the quality time with your favorite person (you!).

Sure, you can use the buffer of a book or a phone and happily sit at the bar if it makes you more comfortable – but take yourself out. And be not afraid of what people think of you. Eat your meal mindfully (i.e. please don’t shovel it into your mouth so you can race home to your comfort zone). Enjoy the date with yourself. We find sitting at that bar for a meal helps with the first attempt – and you’ll meet some fun people there as well.

I do this every week. There’s just nothing like the smell of fresh flowers and the life they can bring into your space. And the act of buying them always feels like a fun “treat yourself” moment. That said, it doesn’t even have to be flowers, per se. Whatever little thing that makes you feel adored; do it for yourself. Weekly.

A tough one. At least for us it is. Sitting over lunch with Dan from The Tig Team, we are reminiscing on his solo trip to Cape Town many moons ago and my recent jaunt to Oxfordshire solo. It’s not easy. But it’s important. To be present and to power through the feelings that waffle through your head and heart of loneliness and boredom. Let that stuff go. Enjoy it alone. You deserve it.

I always say this, I was born privileged and it probably is tone-deaf but the fact of the matter is that if you don't already have connections and opportunities, you need to actively be making them. Connections are everything in extremely wealthy circles, everyone knows someone who knows someone who knows someone, it's like six degrees until you get to the top. Who you know defines you, the people you know become your circles and that's how you move up and move through circles. Meeting people and making friends and acquaintances is how you get shit done and get what you want out of life.

I went to private school and started making connections there, I'm going to university and joining a sorority this autumn, I've been meeting and making friends with people all my life so that I can have what I want. I would've never met Caspar if I hadn't befriended girls who already had Eton and Harrow Boys in their circles, I would've never been invited to go boating during the summers in the Mediterranean if I hadn't befriended girls who had huge family yachts, I would've never been invited to Dubai had I not met a Prince of the Emirates when I was working at the Saudi Embassy. Making connections was absolutely key to me and my development because there was only so much I could do on my own, when I had likeminded women surrounding me and on the same journey as me, life became easier and I had an easier time with getting what I wanted out of life.

The girls I know didn't go on to major private universities or Oxbridge, they knew our circles well enough to go wherever they wanted to and then come back with more connections. One of my best friends went abroad to America for her university, joined a sorority, made connections, is having a wonderful time at a party state school, and comes back on breaks to visit us and the men are all over her, she knows men at her school, and she's this high maintenance enigma that people go wild for. When I met her, she and I were just little babies, and now she's a total star and I'm well on my way to where she is. She's living her best life and it's because she's made the correct connections to help her with her journey of leveling up, she's even admitted that if she hadn't made the correct friends and joined the right groups, she wouldn't be where she is right now.

There are so many ways to level up socially it's ridiculous. I believe in joining clubs and doing activities where you'll meet people who are leveling up or who are the type of girl you want to be. I took a candle making class here in Cancun and met a girl who tried to set me up with her brother who works in international law and makes $300,000 every month. It's the little things you don't think of. My Grandma used to always tell me that wealthy men do things, they didn't earn their money by sitting on their asses and so you'll find them out and about doing things that interest them and enjoying life. Men want women who have hobbies and interests and are out of the house living their lives in the best way possible. You have to make good connections to get places.

Women are often the way to meet good men, if you're meeting women and filling your circle with good girlfriends, you have a good chance of meeting good men. You need to have a large circle because men will ask you about people, girls will invite you out and ask you to go places with them, and you'll mingle with more people. When I was at school, I was under the wing of an older girl who took me to clubs, to London, out partying, to Eton, to Harrow, and all of the places she went and when she graduated and started at Stanford, I was able to continue living like I had lived with her and we went out together in California when I visited her there, constantly making connections enabled me to open doors on my own and not wait for them to be opened for me.

My desire to join a sorority is based on connections, Meghan Markle was in a sorority for 4 years and her best friend from her sorority was at her royal wedding, there have been so many women who have joined sororities and have made connections and married well because of them. My best friend is currently in a chapter on the West Coast and she's constantly being flown out and shown around, she has the perks of wearing letters, she's part of an exclusive group of girls, and she has nationals and opportunities from the other chapters of her sorority. She doesn't plan on continuing her education (Mrs. Degree) but she has a full time provider and she has men throwing money at her that's she met through her sorority and through the experiences she's had with the girls in her circles and. That's my main reasoning for wanting to join this fall.

Connections will make or break you, when you're walking into a club and they ask you if you know anyone there, if you're able to drop a name, you're in a better place than you were before. If you're at an exclusive venue and you're talking to a man and you're able to relate to him and his experiences and know who he's talking about. You have to work less when you have connections and know the right people, you can get into the right places when the barriers that would normally prevent you from being allowed entrance are less important than the people you know, and once you make the right connections it's much easier to make life work for you.

Lots of Love,

Linsi.

Women overestimate who they actually are and think that they'll always be wanted because they're feminine and beautiful, beauty fades and any woman can be feminine if she wants to. You need to be educated and interesting. Be realistic, if you want a college educated, seven figure earning, private jet flying, luxury buying man and you only have a GED and some prayers, you probably won't get that man. Women from a lot of underdeveloped and nearly third world countries pursue education while working and sometimes living in abject poverty, they're on a different level and playing a different game than you, they're getting what they want because they invest in themselves and all of their investments pay off.

You need to level yourself up, if you want the man of your dreams, you need to be realistic with where you are in your life and where you need to be. You can't just have a vague list of "I need to lose weight, grow my hair out, learn how to do makeup, floss my teeth more, and do my skincare", you can't just sit around and think you're "manifesting" when in all reality, you're actually just on your ass and wasting not only your time but the time of everyone around you, and you can't just think that opportunities will fall into your lap and magically make your life fun and much easier. You need to actively be working towards a realistic goal and making tangible efforts to reach it.

There's legitimately reason as to why you can't print out a one year calendar, get a job, mark the dates down, make a budget, and start working towards a plan. It's not that hard to formulate a plan either, all you have to do is think about what you want from life and where you want to be in 5 years, if you want to be married towards a high class executive or a doctor, you have to be at a level where wishing for that sort of thing would be reasonable. It's not reasonable at all to think that not even having a high school diploma will land you a man that's Harvard educated and making 6 figures, in fact, the women that you see who don't have much of an educational background but who are married to high class men are constantly bettering themselves and working on themselves, they're constantly and efficiently leveling up so that they're not far behind their men.

It's easy to educate yourself these days, you can go to the library and check out SAT and GED studying books, a huge amount of community colleges are completely cost effective and downright affordable, and there are programs to help you help an education. There's no reason why you cannot take an hour or even 30 minutes per night to study and work on getting a high school diploma that will legitimately help you better your life and improve your situations. It's beyond difficult to get a legitimate job without having a high school diploma or an equivalency and it's even harder to move through life and put yourself in situations with good men unless you have wildly good luck, amazing looks, a great personality, and better people skills than Arnold Schwarzenegger.

It's not just official education, it's regular real world education as well. Tumblr isn't really a legitimate source of information for every day conversations with high quality men. No man will ever turn to you and ask you about the last post I wrote and if you enjoyed it, it's not a thing, it won't happen. Men will ask you about your interests and your hobbies and what you enjoy doing and you can't just say "I sit on tumblr all day long and read manifestation and hypergamous blogs but have made no actual steps towards any of my goals and now that I'm here, I don't know what to do and how to handle myself or this situation". You need to be able to talk about a variety of real world things and you should keep up to date with books, the news, stocks, and other things that interest other people. You need an actual personality and legitimate hobbies and interests.

I'm not a woman who has ever gone into a situation without knowing who will be there and what's happening. There's no point in going to an event filled with polo players and only knowing how to talk rugby, you can't walk into Cambridge and only know about Oxford, and you wouldn't go to an Eton ball having only gone to Harrow events. It's an indisputable fact. If you walk into an event with men and you're unprepared to be there and don't know how to play the part, you'll look stupid and you probably won't be invited to mingle with those people. First impressions are everything and if you don't know how to make one, you'll just be flat out of luck. How you act will be the first thing people talk about when you leave, I've done it quite a bit when I'm with my people and I can almost guarantee that if you're rude or uneducated, you'll be talked about.

Your physical appearance is important but it's only 20% of the equation, the other 80% is comprised of things like your educational background, how you carry yourself and interact in situations, who you know and your connections, and what you're doing with your life. Your looks alone won't get you in the door, it just doesn't work like that. You could be as beautiful as Miss Universe but if you didn't have anything going on with your life or any realistic plans, people would easily get bored of you and move on to the next pretty thing to make their new shiny toy before they get bored. High quality men don't want women who have nothing going on for them and aren't interested in becoming anything or doing anything with their lives. It's a completely unrealistic and borderline delusional to think that you can completely avoid making an effort to better yourself or your life and still be desirable to established men.

Lots of Love,

Linsi.

In the Gulf, especially in my home country of Saudi Arabia, the women remain covered for their modesty in public unless they're with other women. That means nothing, Middle Eastern women go out of their way to be beautiful. Hair appointments, manicures and pedicures, makeup and perfume shopping, personal styling, and permanent makeup and plastic surgery are completely normalised. Abayas are perfectly tailored, hijabs are never wrinkled or crinkled, shoes are always shined and cleaned, clothes are ironed, and jewellery is always shined and beautiful, the women are beautiful, poised, powerful, and desired by men.

It's not at all uncommon for a woman to marry without a man ever seeing her full face or her body because of her feminine allure and the way she presents herself and the pride she takes in her appearance, that's how he knows she's stunning. In Saudi, it's extremely uncommon for a woman to go to marriage having slept with a man, virginity is prized and everyone knows it, I grew up with the knowledge that men would see the outline of a woman's body swathed in gauzy black chiffon, see her hands as she fixed the strap of her shoe around her ankle, and decide that marriage was the right move. I thought it was the most romantic thing in the entire world. Beauty is power in most places.

When I'd visit my great uncle in India and spend time in Hyderabad with him, I'd sit in the house to get a reprieve from the heat and watch Bollywood romance movies with my great aunt, I'd see beautiful Indian actresses like Kajol and Aishwarya Rai fall in love and have beautiful adventures without ever having sex, getting undressed, or having to compromise their beliefs or cheapen themselves to get a man. When I'd meet with my friends in the city, they could wear saris and clothes that didn't bare much of their bodies and still have good high quality foreign men at their feet if they wanted them there.

The girls in India that I met took care of themselves, they'd grow their hair out so it was thick and healthy, they'd manicure their fingers and toes, they'd thread their eyebrows to perfection, they'd do facials with yoghurt and turmeric to make their skin glow, they'd light incense in their closets so that their clothing had a beautiful and delicate smell, they'd apply just enough makeup to look natural, they'd apply kohl and mascara to their eyes to make them look bright and beautiful, and they'd oil their skin and dance on the weekends to stay in shape. They didn't spend much but they were always devastatingly beautiful to the point where my breath would hitch when I'd see them out in the sunlight.

When I started boarding in England, I was surrounded by girls who didn't care. I was always touching up my uniform and perfecting it, changing my heels when they scuffed, applying more makeup and perfume in the bathrooms during my breaks and drying my hair upside down under the hot air hand dryers, going to hair, nail, and facial appointments, planning my outfits far in advance so that when I went up to Eton, Caspar and the boys I knew wouldn't see me as anything but stunning, and going out of my way to be beautiful because that's how I felt good, that's what made me feel the best and that's what I knew was expected of me. I didn't want to let anyone down by turning up ugly.

I'll never forget a conversation I had in the bathroom with a hometown girl I'd never really spoken to because she didn't really stick out in my mind, she basically told me that she expected men to want her solely because she was white and an English Rose, she didn't think she had to do anything, she had a wrinkled uniform, she didn't have her hair or makeup done, and she didn't care about her appearance but would always be upset when my friends and I would get invited up to Eton and London by the boys we knew. Honestly, good men are less likely to want a woman if she doesn't put any effort into her appearance and she just assumes that they'll be lining up around the block solely because she's white and British born, there are millions more like her.

My best friend and platonic love of my life is from Montenegro. She's Balkan, downright frigid with men, she never smiles at them or shows affection to them, she often jokes with me that she has a PhD in gold digging. I've never seen her without her hair and nails done, she wakes up an hour earlier than her usual rising time so she can do her skin and makeup routine, she exfoliates, she has work done, she always wears perfume and heels, and men would die for her. I've never seen her text a man, I've never seen her waste her time, and I've never seen her appear at anything less than the best. Her favourite saying has always been "if you're going to go out like that, why even go out at all?" and she sticks to it and takes care of herself and her appearance impeccably.

My Grandmother was the same way, she didn't believe in allowing herself to look bad and she didn't believe in going out in public if she wasn't at her best. She always wore heels and makeup, she kept herself clean and looking good, she cared for her hair and her teeth, and I never saw her go out into public wearing jeans or t-shirts because she didn't own those sorts of things and she didn't believe in being disheveled. When she got her BIG job with my father and his office along with my Grandfather back in 1971, men would stop her on the streets of Jeddah and Riyadh to give her gifts and ask after her incessantly. When Abdullah had his open heart surgery in Minnesota, she was insistent on having him in our home for a day. Men remembered her because she was beautiful, she wasn't a classic beauty, but she was an absolute stunner.

Women who put care into how they look tend to be favoured, when you look at photos of faraway places and see the women there, they're stunners. It doesn't matter how they live or how much money they have, you look at them and see beauty. I think that in countries like America and the wealthiest parts of England, the women don't have any culture and they don't know what to do with themselves. I've always heard from the men in my circles that they prefer immigrant women and ethnic women because they know how to take care of themselves and they do so diligently, it's one of the saddest as well as one of the most unattractive things in the entire world when a woman won't do the simple things to beautify herself because she's of the opinion that it's unnecessary.

Lots of Love,

Linsi.

So I just told them to add the $20 something onto my bill, and I thought she was going to break down crying right there.

Another time, my dad gave 50 bucks to a guy who said he needed to buy medicine for his kids. I told my dad he was probably going to spend the money on alcohol or something, but my dad said that “whether he was lying or not says something about HIS character, but hearing someone in need and choosing not to help when I have the means to says something about mine”.

1. Set The Level High

You have to create a framework, an atmosphere, a world where endowing and financial support of your girlfriend is a normal thing.

How you teach him in the beginning of your relationship, that’s how he will behave further on. 

After a couple of weeks, start telling him how your girlfriend is traveling to Miami often with her boyfriend, cause he has an apartment there. 

Or something like “last week he surprised her totally and bought her an identical Versace swim wear she had lost last time they were in Miami”. 

Or “this friend of mine, you know, she is crazy about shoes, luckily she found a man who loves her enough, and understands her shoe passion, so he often buys her that stuff…” 

So, always start with the stories about your girlfriends, never about yourself, because it will seem obvious. 

Wear or bring the most expensive or breath-taking items of clothes you possess and wait for him to ask where you got it, or where you bought it blah, blah.. 

You answer that it is from your boyfriend, or you don’t know where it is from cause your boyfriend gave it. 

Or, next time, it is I bought it in Paris, so international shopping is a normal thing for you.

Talk about nice trips to other continents like it is something absolutely normal to you, like going to a local supermarket. 

He has to treat you like that too, cause you are used to being pampered.

For you it is just natural to have men around craving to spend their money and attention on you. THAT is the picture you have to put inside his brain.

Present yourself as a gentle, caring, good girl that likes to have nice things surrounding her, and a nice life in general. 

„Life is too short for not having beautiful things.“

Share stories where he has to learn that love is about sharing

2. The “I Love Fashion“ Narrative:

No matter whether you love cars, dishes or violins, you have to emphasize it to your boyfriend. Not aggressively, but lightly and persistently. 

He has to be aware how much you love something, in order to buy it. 

„I know I will sound like a Barbie, but when I see all my shoes, I really feel happy and feminine.“

„You know, CHANEL has existed for more than 1 century, imagine all that style and tradition!“ That is why I appreciate it so highly! 

Say how bored you are with the men and women who are obsessed by Louis Vuitton, like there aren’t other classy designers, like our Marc Jacobs.

3. Sob Stories

When you meet your MM, be all sad and passive. When he asks you what’s happening, don’t say anything, just sigh sadly and say it’s nothing, and that you will solve it. 

When he asks you again, repeat that it is something you have to solve on your own. Then continue with the sadness. 

When he continues to insists what is happening with you, start crying (if you can’t, practise at home, or at least make the most tragic face you can) 

DON’T ASK FOR HELP! He has to offer it. When he does it, act surprised, like you haven’t ever expected him to do something so nice for you… If he doesn’t offer his help, he is not a real MM, and dump him

Mention to him that you saw a wonderful dress in the mall, but you don’t have money to buy it, and now you are feeling sad. 

When he offers to give you the money, and ask how much is it, double the price. If it’s $400, say it is $800. Buy the dress, wear it the same night and keep the change. 

If you date more then one tell both men your dating you saw a wonderful fur coat, but it is so expensive ($7000) that you cannot afford it, and now you feel unhappy. Make them both give you money, buy yourself a fur coat, and keep $7000.

4. Show your Appreciation

You have to present the situation where he buys stuff to you as natural, never be too ecstatic about it, or ungrateful. 

Always smile, say thank you and praise him for being a great guy and a great boyfriend for “doing all these nice things for you”, for “understanding your passion towards fashion” 

Avoid the verb to buy, to shop etc… He is not buying you stuff, he is doing stuff for you, he is making you happy, he is understanding your love towards style 

it will become like a drug to him. He will feel more manly when he buys stuff for you, and every time he does it, you will be a grateful woman who will boost his ego. 

5. Boost His Ego

All she did was boosting his ego. she loves his being such an alpha male, how she feels safe by him. As soon as she would start going on on his virtues, he would get wood – no matter if they are in bed or restaurant.

Always be gentle, caring, nice to every MM you date. Always hug them, talk about their characteristics – because the favourite topic of every person is they themselves. 

Say that you have noticed he is ambitious, or shy, or that you see he knows how to handle people, or that he is smart etc.

after sex, when he is naked and vulnerable, hug him and tell him, in a very serious and honest tone of voice, that he set up a new standard what a man should be. Trust me, works every time

Men just have the need to be the one, the best, the man who showed you what a real man is. Tackle their ego. 

6. Pass His Tests To Keep Him (and his money)

Usually, MMs do this when they fall in love, when we become meaningful to them. Then, they start to self-reflect and wonder whether we love them or not

Once he gets the impression that you are really devoted to him he will buy even more. One MM of mine, once tested me for 3 months! I was cool about it, and after that I got a Rolex watch 

While he is testing you, you can always go and search for another MM, just in case.

The longer you stay with MM, the more he will share with you. Because he will have more trust, more love, and more confidence in your relationship.

    Hello, ladies! I have a mentor who started off as a poor girl in Sweden, at 20 she moved to Italy and started dating rich young men, then she started dating sugar daddies/ having sponsors fund her lifestyle and now she is in her 30′s and married to a multi-millionaire. Literally rags to riches! All because she was in the right places at the right time and knew how to market herself. One thing my mentor, A, and I have discussed a lot is that the EASIEST way to meet rich men is by TRAVELING! People are much more loose and open to talking with people when they are away from their native cities. There are places were you are GUARANTEED to meet wealthy men and those places are down below! If you’re a sugar baby who is interested in travel message me! I’m looking for a traveling buddy, more about that at the very end. 

THE MOST LUCRATIVE CITIES :

(These are the cities where you are guaranteed to meet rich men. You should frequent these cities as much as possible in their high season.)

WINTER : 

Aspen, Colorado / Gstaad, Switzerland - Wealthy men of all ages love to ski. You can find great wealthy men in Aspen, a lot are single and there is a lot of young rich men that come with their parents and family. Mostly American men and a few Europeans. The age range is typically 20-40. This place is ideal for people seeking to become a Spoiled Girlfriend/ Trophy Wife.

Tulum, Mexico - Tulum is very hip and trendy right now. A slightly younger crowd of rich people flock here around New Years Eve for nice beach parties with the worlds top DJ’s. Mostly single groups of girls and guys and mostly Europeans can be found here. The age range is typically 20-30. This place is ideal for girls seeking to become a Spoiled Girlfriend. 

Dubai, United Arab Emirates - Dubai has so much potential. Winter is the best time lots of people travel here during this season because it’s not as hot. Tons of bars, restaurants and clubs to meet men at. There are more men in Dubai than women, and that means less options for them and more for you! A lot of them are new money rich people so if you’re looking to be spoiled with shopping trips, Dubai is the place to be. New money rich guys are usually very generous and love to spoil girls with top brands, they feel the need to prove they are rich so a good strategy here it to act like your last partner bought you very extravagant things. This may not be true of course but it will probably make him want to buy you even better. Also, a plus is that lots of men in Dubai take care of several women and it’s not a strange thing there, you won’t get a bunch of stares. It’s very multi-cultural there, there are Arabs, Europeans, Americans, Asians and Russians. The age range is anywhere from 20-60′s+. This place is ideal for people seeking to become a Sugar Baby/ Spoiled Girlfriend or Trophy Wife. 

The Caribbean - It’s always a good idea to travel to one Caribbean island every winter. Winter is the best time to visit the Caribbean Islands because there is little to no rain, and you will find a LOT of European’s take vacations for several weeks here. Perfect time to meet rich boys or even rich girl friends who can later introduce you to rich bachelors they know back home. Also, a lot of older American men love to travel to the Caribbean by themselves. People of all ages travel here and this place is most ideal for people seeking to become a Sugar Baby/ Spoiled Girlfriend.

SPRING :

Miami, Florida - Miami is famous for their Spring Break festivities. There are thousands of people all over the city that come from everywhere to party. It’s mostly children from rich families that go to school in New York, Boston or California and Europeans whose parents have given them unlimited credit cards. Prices shoot WAY up during the end of March and beginning of April. Just know that regular hotel rooms double and triple in price so you should go with a group. Mostly everyone partying in Miami for spring break is single. The age range is typically 20-30 years old. This is great for people taking the Spoiled Girlfriend route. 

Los Angeles, California - Lots of potential in this city. There’s people that work in finances, show business, athletes, doctors, surgeons, there are so many rich people in Los Angeles, and a lot are single! I’m from California so I know a little about how this place works and I think it could be a good first “big” city place, for people. The atmosphere is generally welcoming and the social circles aren’t hard to get into. Basically everyone is new money rich and if you present yourself as someone who is already taken care they will treat you well. The best time to visit is in spring because the weather is perfect. Also, it’s not really in Los Angeles but, attending Coachella in April isn’t a bad idea. If you get a V.I.P ticket you will be surrounded by social media minor celebrities, models (good to befriend them because they can get you into exclusive parties with celebrities), and tons of rich kids from America and Europe mostly. Typical age at Coachella is 20-25, but in Los Angeles there are men of all ages of course. Los Angeles is great for anyone seeking any kind of beneficial relationship. 

London, United Kingdom - Tons of millionaires here. London has the most millionaires in all of the UK! Lots of old money and new money. Lots of young single men that were born into generational wealth and have trust funds. Lots of everything. This place is a gold mine. I am moving here in 2024. This is where I plan to get my masters degree. It has all ages and is ideal for people seeking to be a Sugar Baby/ Spoiled Girlfriend or Trophy Wife. 

SUMMER :

St. Tropez, France - An amazing place to meet sugar daddies. Mostly old money and new money rich men LOVE to be in St. Tropez during summer. (Bastille Day is a popular day in St. Tropez) The richest men, whale daddies and sponsors can be found here. The age range is typically 40-70. Ideal for girls seeking to become someones Sugar Baby/ Spoiled Girlfriend or Trophy Wife .

Nice, France - Same as St. Tropez. You will probably find more high caliber men here, but the night life is better in St. Tropez. 

Monte-Carlo, Monaco - Monte-Carlo is every sugar babies DREAM! There are not very many men in Monaco that aren’t at least a millionaire. You will meet the richest, most generous and BEST whale daddies in Monte-Carlo. It’s not a good place for beginners, as every women in Monaco is most likely doing the same thing you are. It’s also flooded with very low rate hookers, you should dress extremely classy in Monaco. Classy doesn’t mean boring, if you dress too raunchy the men will think you are an escort and not want to approach you. The way to present yourself in Monte-Carlo is that of a young beautiful women who is just used to being taken care of by her “boyfriends”. You can find men here to fund your entire lifestyle. Hotels are quite expensive so it’s best to stay in Nice, France and take a taxi into the city each day. The age range is typically 40-70+. Ideal for girls seeking a Whale Daddy/ Sponsor. 

Ibiza, Spain - Arguably one of the easiest places to meet a rich boyfriend. It’s a party island with mostly rich trust fund babies. Lots of big groups of single men. Very hip, very trendy, very fun! Most all of the people here are Europeans but there is some Arabs and Russians as well. The age range is typically 20-30. Ideal for girls seeking to become a Spoiled Girlfriend. 

Mykonos, Greece - Same as Ibiza. However, you will probably find a richer young man to spoil you in Mykonos since it’s more expensive and less mainstream. Also, Mykonos has a bigger age range. You can find ages 20-40 here, I’d say. 

Marbella, Spain - Same as Ibiza. Except this is not an island so it’s cheaper to access. In order of most rich men to least of these three party locations I’d say 1. Mykonos 2. Ibiza 3. Marbella. But don’t sleep on Marbella because there are still wealthy older European men that travel here specifically to meet young women. 

FALL : Boston, Massachusetts - There are wealthy business men here. It’s less crowded than NYC, but quite similar and you can find a ton of rich college students choose to study in Boston for the location. The age range here is 20-40 maybe. Ideal for people like me who want  a rich boyfriend in each city. The bars are really lively here. 

Manhattan, New York - One of my personal favorites. The city is filled with business men, bankers, hedge fund managers all single or very ready to cheat on their spouses. Lots of high caliber sugar daddies here, and most actually are single because they find their lives too busy to fulfill a typical relationship. You can actually find legit guys on Seeking Arrangements/ Tinder or in bars after work hours. The age range is typically 35-65 and this place is ideal for people seeking to be someones Sugar Baby/ Spoiled Girlfriend or Trophy Wife.

OTHER LESS “JETSET” CITIES I PLAN ON VISITING : 

(With these locations I just plan to stay a long weekend in the best hotels and go to high end bars/ restaurants/ clubs and just network. Meet potential rich boyfriends, sugar daddies, business partners or rich girl friends who can invite me into their rich social circles. Meeting rich men for material and monetary gain is important, but meeting rich girl friends is really important to me as well. I want to have friends everywhere. More girl friends= Access to their rich girl friends, Access to their family members, invitations to weddings filled with rich people, invitations to birthday parties with rich people, invitations to yacht parties, invitations to go somewhere on their dad’s jet. You get the picture) 

Washington D.C, Maryland

Seattle ,  Washington

Tokyo , Japan

Beijing , China

Kuala Lumpur , Malaysia

Bangkok , Thailand 

Mumbai , India 

Moscow , Russia

Seoul , South Korea 

Las Vegas , Nevada 

Beirut , Lebanon 

Lake Maggiore , Switzerland 

Lugano , Switzerland 

Tel Aviv , Israel 

Honolulu , Hawaii 

Venice , Italy / Milan , Italy / Lake Como , Italy 

Glasgow , Scotland 

Singapore , Singapore 

Paris , France 

Tanzania , Africa

Fiji , Fiji 

New Orleans , Louisiana 

San Juan , Puerto Rico 

Sydney , Australia 

Nassau , Bahamas 

Marrakesh , Morocco 

Vienna , Austria 

Doha , Qatar 

Phuket , Thailand 

EVENTS I’M INTERESTED IN ATTENDING : 

(The plan for events is to go looking like a million dollars and wait for the affluent men to approach me. Simple and also fun! I’m not just traveling to meet affluent people and network I’m also traveling to experience life. Lol.) 

Coachella - California, USA / April 

Mardi Gras - New Orleans, Louisiana / February 

Burning Man Festival - Black Rock City, Nevada / August 

St. Patricks Day - Dublin, Ireland / March

Fashion Week - NYC, USA / September 

Balloon Festival - Albuquerque , New Mexico / October

Gay Pride Festival - San Fransisco , California / June

March Madness Basketball Game - Los Angeles, California / March 

Oktoberfest - Munich, Germany / October 

Montreux Jazz Festival - Switzerland / July

Holi Festival - Goa, India / May

EVENTS I’M INTERESTED IN ATTENDING PART 2 :

(These events are really expensive and I don’t ever want to go somewhere and not be in V.I.P, so I’ll need to hold off on these events until I have a sugar/daddy/ sponsor to get me the tickets I want to these events.) 

Super Bowl - Pre-game parties filled with wealthy people, groups of rich single men, after parties with actual NFL players. This event happens in February in a big city they decide on the year before. 

FIFA World Cup - Same as NFL, except soccer players and it takes place in an international city. 

Wimbledon Tennis - Old money rich people love to watch tennis. Tennis players are also some of the highest paid athletes, and the V.I.P tickets give you access to them. This event is in London, it’s at the end of June and beginning of July. 

Royal Ascot Ladies Day - Same as Wimbledon except horses. Also, there is tons of rich men there who bet on the horses. Also, it’s iconic. Lol. 

Opera - Old money rich people love listening to opera music, and I would love to get all dressed up in a black gown and pearls. This event is all-year-round in Sydney, Australia. 

Concerts - These happen all the time. I want front-row seats and backstage access. 

York Races - Same as Royal Ascot Ladies Day, except this event takes place in York. 

Formula 1 Grand Prix Races - Packed with rich people. Many of my mentors friends have met their rich husbands at these events. They take place during summer in Dubai, Monaco, Abu Dhabi and Barcelona. 

Fashion Week - Great opportunity to meet people in the fashion industry and make some high society girl friends. These events take place in September for NYC and Spring for Moscow. Front row seats are a must. 

AMFAR Gala - Extremely important. Packed with celebrities, yet open to anyone who can afford a ticket each year. A-Class celebrities. Most notably, Leonardo DiCaprio.Ticket prices are sky high and you have to dress to kill.  Takes place in NYC every February. 

Cannes Film Festival - Same as AMFAR Gala, just less celebrities and more regular wealthy people. 

I learned how to write in Cursive and Calligraphy.

Did you know that before Meghan Markle became the Duchess of Sussex, she was employed by Paper Source in Beverly Hills as a calligraphy teacher and a freelance calligrapher? I thought that learning both cursive and calligraphy would put me on a different level because all of the women I've ever admired write in beautiful ways and they send gorgeous cards to the people they care for. When you write to any of the monarchies, you always receive a beautiful card back from them to thank you for your beautiful letter, even though I'm nowhere close to that, I want the people I care for to know that I care for them and appreciate having them in my life.

I also invested in really very nice stationary so I can sit down at my desk and write heartfelt cards that I can send to the people I adore. A 'thank you' text just doesn't cut it for me, I think that it's low budget and tacky, there's nothing like taking a beautiful and handcrafted card out of your mailbox and I want people to know that I think they're special. Calligraphy is an old art that's still taught at the best of schools and I've always wanted to expose my classiest side to the people I interact with and so I took advantage of my time and learned how to write.

How to copy HRH Meghan Markle's handwriting.

I learned how to cook splendid European food.

I bought the Julia Child cookbooks and went to town. I can cook Thai and Brazilian food easily and I know how to make some Kenyan dishes, but I learned how to make European dishes. Julia Child's book 'Mastering the Art of French Cooking' is absolutely amazing. I love making beautifully prepared meals and I love that I can be counted on to make nice meals when I'm asked to, there's nothing like pouring myself some chilled Möet, putting on my apron, standing in the kitchen, and making a delicious and beautiful dish for a candlelit meal.

Julia Child is a genius and the pride of the cooking world, her recipes are easy to follow but the meals end up being intricate and delicious and gorgeous. All of the men I've known appreciate a beautiful meal and they love when I take care of them and make a beautiful dinner, they don't tend to like my ethnic food and so I've found European food that they do enjoy and that I enjoy making. I usually only cook when I want something but learning how to cook beautiful food, knowing which wine and desserts to pair with it, and knowing how to set a table and serve a meal made me seem so much classier and more cultured and like I was a lady raised in society.

An episode of Julia Child's show where she makes lovely desserts and exhibits the beauty of her skills.

I worked on my conversation skills.

I took a course at Oxford and then I began watching speeches given by world leaders to work on the fluency of my English, my conversation skills, and my small talk. I prefer speeches from female leaders so I can work on my accent and the way that I speak and I find that speeches from women like Meghan Markle, Princess Anne, Princess Diana, Queen Letizia, and various UN General Assembly speeches from women serve the purpose very well. I worked on making sure that my speech flowed smoothly and that I was able to easily transition between topics and points of conversation without too much difficulty for me or for the person who I was conversing with and make myself heard.

A key part of this was also learning locations, Punta del Este (Uruguay), precise places in Monaco, hidden gems in France, lodges in Germany, Glastonbury, NPR and the BBC, the stock market, skiing vacations in the Switzerland, Yachting in Monaco, and vineyards in Italy. Knowing about horses, poker, polo, art, history, the best boarding schools, sailing, I learned about all of the places where I knew the extremely wealthy to go and the activities that I knew the younger wealthy men (and their fathers) to partake in. I've always hated a conversation where I'm off to the side and unable to participate because I'm not cultured and educated enough to, I've completely changed that by learning about all of the things I felt I needed to know to speak successfully.

An example of Queen Rania speaking beautifully and fluently with her lovely accent during an interview.

I added languages to my repertoire.

I've spent a lot of time around boys with fathers who are worth major money. I live on the same floor as a boy with a father worth $1.8B and I know one of the Princesses of Saudi Arabia. The one thing that both of them have in common is that they speak different languages fluently and that they're good at them. I decided to go on Duolingo and pick up Hebrew and when I found that I enjoyed it immensely and I was good at it, I began taking classes through my university and at a synagogue local to my university in Boston. I'm also converting and it's made my life much easier because I've found that I pick up conversational Hebrew easier and I enjoy it more.

The best boarding schools in the world teach their students languages and knowing how to communicate in different languages makes you seem high class and fancy. World leaders and the beautiful and cultured women and wives I've met know many languages, wealthy men want beautiful and cosmopolitan wives who are educated and knowledgeable about many things, they want women who they can show off and brag about. Knowing languages makes you seem very educated and like you have a privileged, cultured, and cosmopolitan background. The people I know from real wealth make it a point to know and speak languages that they've worked to learn well.

Foreign language films, shows, movies, songs, and other forms of media are a wonderful way to begin learning and comprehending another language.

I invested in magazines.

I'm currently subscribed to the Tatler, Condé Nast, National Geographic, Vogue, Harper's Bazaar, The Wealth Collection, Bespoke, Sur•La•Terre, Portfolio, Prestige, Elite Traveler, Vanity Fair, Town & Country, and the Robb Report. I read and enjoy them all but I've found that The Tatler Magazine is one of the most important magazines I have ever read and I truly believe that it keeps me completely up to date with who's who and what's what in society and it has helped me in my journey towards leveling up immensely. The man I met and who I love dearly is also, incidentally, subscribed to the Tatler magazine. Magazines are cheaper than books, accessible online, and easy to read and enjoy in one sitting.

I've been to the homes of many very wealthy men and they all have subscriptions to magazines, I personally use magazines to read, keep me up to date with what's happening in society, and to make myself seem more cultured and involved in society. I don't read the common gossip magazines and I focus on articles and bits of knowledge that I feel will aid me and help me in my journey, not hinder me and make me feel like I'm not evolving and becoming more high class and cultured. One of my best friends keeps a copy of the Tatler on her nightstand and she's married extremely well and she believes in using magazines, that's why I've started.

One of my favorite online magazines, The Cut. 

XOXO,

Renata.

You guys asked for it, here it is! I’ll be editing this to organize it later.

Fifi Chachnil: A beautiful french brand making ultra glam girly lingerie. Unlike most lingerie stores, they also sell breathtaking clothing! I’m not very familiar with their sizing, so you would have to use a converter if you use western sizing.

Karolina Laskowska: Now this definitely isn’t a favourite brand of mine, as it isn’t quite my style. Though it’s very pricey for things like soft bras and harnesses, they have wonderful sales! (Or had…. they seem to have disappeared since the last time I checked? not sure). If you’re into strappy pieces, oriental print fabrics, and lace, I would check out this brand. Available size small-large.

Dotties Delights: A favourite brand of mine, I mean any brand that works with the wonderful Miss Mosh herself definitely has some credibility. They’re by no means cheap, running in at about 200$ a bra and 100$ for a pair of knickers (about 300$ for a bra and panty set). Their lingerie though, is surprisingly more affordable coming between about 80-150$. If you can afford this, I by all means encourage you to purchase so I can live through you (you should also buy me a set). They have a fairly large size range, but isn’t very plus sized friendly. 

What Katie Did: Definitely another favourite of mine. If you’re looking for beautiful vintage inspired pieces at an irresistible price look no further than this sob worthy brand. Their bras run between 50-70$ which is not bad at all for such beautiful products! You can get a full bra, panty, and garter set for about 150$ or less. Unreal! If you have a little money burning in your pocket check out their Gold Label collection. It runs a bit pricier but still absolutely nothing to scoff at. You can buy a whole set from that collection for about 175$. They offer sizes up to a DD!

Agent Provocateur: Now I have a bit to say about this brand. It’s become one of the leading competitors in the luxury lingerie universe, and rightfully so. They were built up on beautiful high quality products. Now unfortunately, I would be more eager to suggest another brand. They’re switched their production to asia, and though their prices have gone up, their quality (and designs in my opinion, which appear to appeal to the mass market more like victoria’s secret) have gone down. They do still carry some beautiful pieces, but it feels like their designs are less than luxurious for the most part now. They have fairly limited sizes, with some styles (usually the prettiest ones, sigh) only going up to a C or a D. Others go up to an E. 

Arabel: Very sweet, feminine, and lacey. Lots of pastel colours and soft designs. Not very plus size friendly, but you may be able to contact the owner to have something made. Their bra sizing is tricky (and on the smaller size), so you may need to use a converter. 

Almeida: They don’t have a ton of stock, but I had to add them to my list. Season after season they produce wonderful designs. Right now, it’s all pink, black, and leather (with some lace). Again they’re quite pricey but so beautiful!

Gossard: As you guys know Gossard is a brand i have nothing but good things to say about. I own 4 bras from them (unfortunately the panties and garterbelt i wanted sold out). They offer a huge range of sizes, styles, and colourways. My favourite is the Retrolution line (you will die, honestly it’s beautiful). On top of it all, their prices are beyond reasonable. Not to mention they have unbelievable sales on old seasons. They’re definitely big-boob friendly, and have ultra flattering styles. 

Bordelle: Bordelle is definitely another favourite luxury brand of mine. Super strappy, lots of elastic and hardware (wonderful if you’re in the kink community). Their sizes go from small-large, so unfortunately it’s kind of limited. If you have the means, I would absolutely recommend purchasing from them. Be wary they can be quite pricey! But totally worth it.

Journelle: Journelle is basically a distributer of various luxury lingerie brands. If you want to browse a bunch of beautiful lingerie in one convenient website La Journelle is a great place to start. With the large variety of brands that also means you have a wider variety of sizing, designs, and colours. They have something to fit everyone’s budget. 

Lascivious: Drool worthy! Lascivious consistently pumps out beautiful designer products. They also have amazing sales from previous seasons, so any budget can get excellent designs. I have nothing bad to say about this brand, honestly haha. Please check them out! Their designs are so, so beautiful.

La Perla: Not a personal favourite of mine, but a classic. They’re very expensive, but if you’re looking for more basic designs in luxury quality La Perla is a wonderful option. Be wary that only some countries can access their website, so you may have to shop their products through other shops like Nancy Meyer. 

Astuko Kudo: More latex, couture latex. Out of all the latex shops i know this one is my favourite. Atsuko Kudo leaves me speechless; literally. I’m trying to find the right way to describe them but no words i can string together does this justice. They offer sizes XS-XL, or a made to fit option. In addition to lingerie they have dresses, skirts, jackets, tops and more. All of which are to die for. Do yourself a favour and browse around.

Buttress and Snatch: I really believe this brand has something for anyone. Their designs are just too adorable for words, taking obvious influence from disney, burlesque, and kitsch. Unfortunately their sizing isn’t very generous (for most products), but if you can fit I envy the heck out of you! The bra pricing runs from about 140$-500$. 

Bluebella: Ok bluebella is so absolutely adorable, and totally affordable. You can even get bras for as low as 20$. They have a huge variety of styles, and generous sizing up to an E cup. To say the least, I really want probably about 80% of their products, and am happy to say they will actually fit me.

True & Co.: True & Co. is honestly wonderful. They even offer a quiz at the beginning of your shopping experience to help you find out what bras are best suited for you based on how your current bras fit. Most of their bras  run between 50-65$. They have lots of basics, as well as some more elegant and pretty bras. Their lingerie sets are also super pretty and really really cheap. Like 50$ for a set kind of cheap. Jump on that.

Mise En Cage: Like Journelle, they’re a market place for fine luxury lingerie like Bordelle, Tatu, Mise En Cage originals, and Kriss Soonik.

Bella Bella Boutique: Probably my favourite market for lingerie, they have unreal prices that give a total range. They stock some of my favourite brands and the most beautiful pieces so you can do all your shopping in one place. Mind you, the website isn’t much to look at, but their products are amazing.

Angela Friedman: Luxurious, beautiful, lavish pieces for beautiful ladies. Unfortunately it’s way out of my price range, but if you have some extra money kicking around and would like to give it to a small designer, Angela Friedman offers great lingerie and wonderful designs.

LaBellaFairy: For the corset loving crowd, they offer impeccable corsets. I would do just about anything for one of these. They’re ultra luxurious, beautiful, and have options from edwardian, to off the rack, to wedding pieces. 

La Lilouche: Ultra beautiful, girly, feminine pieces. If you love ruffles, satin, pastels and jewels this brand is definitely for you. They’re on the pricier side, but are still completely worth it to buy from such a talented small designer. 

Coco’s Retro Closet: Speechless! They are by far my favourite vintage inspired independent designer. They’re a smaller company, operating off etsy, but their designs are impeccable and absolutely gorgeous. This list would not be complete without them.

Ohhh Lulu: Softbras and panties galore! Tons of cute panties and bras in delightful prints, and pretty sleep masks. Mind you, if you’re a larger cup size I probably wouldn’t suggest their bras as soft bras give little to no support. They do offer custom sizing though which is nice if you’re looking for something more to just wear around the house or over another bra! They also have quite reasonable pricing. 

Sugar Lace Lingerie: Marie Antoinette would blush at these beautiful pieces. They are pastel, pretty, luxurious and ultra feminine. They currently don’t have a huge selection of products but I would encourage everyone to check out this new designer with tons of potential. 

Lonely Lingerie: Lonely lingerie is a great brand for people who, like myself, aren’t a fan of bright overbearing colours and patterns. Instead, their detail is added into beautiful lace, straps, and interesting designs. Their bras are soft or unpadded bras. Unfortunately, this bra is quite obviously for girl’s with smaller cup sizes. Their bras appear to offer little support, and only go up to a D (sorry largest chested girl). If you are a smaller cup size, this brand is a cool one to look into.

Playful Promises: Pretty designs, and gorgeous models are found here. Though I’m not usually a fan of some of the colours they use (and I really don’t like their patterned fabrics), their lingerie designs themselves are beautiful, AND they offer a larger variety of cup sizes! They have lots of open cup, soft, balconette and longline bras. I’m personally a fan of this brand and follow their releases. There’s always at least one piece I tend to fall in love with.

Marlies Dekkers: You’ve definitely seen knock off’s of their designs on cheap sites, but i encourage you to take a proper look into their line. Dekkers work can be described as simple, strappy, and sensual. I really like the shapes of bras they offer, and the slight fetish-y vibe they give off!

Panache Lingerie: D+ girls! This one’s for you. Whether you want your lingerie simple and supportive, stylish and colourful, or more of an elegant sexy, panache has a huge array of options for stylish lingerie. As a larger breasted girl myself, I find it really difficult to find super sexy bras that can actually still support me. I’ve fallen in love with this brand and plan on making an order as soon as I can.

intimissimi: So much pretty lingerie in one place. Even the name feels luxurious to say, but the prices are fabulous! No more than you’d pay on a cheap VS bra, you can get something more unique. The only issue is that their collections (in my opinion) are hit or miss. Sometimes I’ll want everything, sometimes I’ll find it painfully dull or cheap looking. Check back frequently so you don’t miss out on the good stuff.

For Love and Lemons: I have mixed feelings about this brand, mostly because it definitely feels like it caters to small girls. Offering sizes XS-L, it’s definitely leaving out larger chested ladies. There’s lots and lots of lace which I love. Everything looks super delicate and feminine. If you’re on the small size, I’d give it a little peak.

Myla: Definitely on the more expensive side, but it just screams luxury. Beautiful silks and fine laces adorn bras, panties and more. Luckily, if you aren’t willing to break the bank they do have a sale section where you can find pieces for up to 75% off. If you’re into the more elegant sexy, this brand is worth looking at.

SIL: A new favourite of mine, this brand is so worth checking out! There are tons of gorgeous retro-looking finds that make my inner pinup girl scream with excitement. They have a great stock of sizes, styles and colours, and their prices are pretty great. Not too high, but not cheap. I made my first order of two bras and a garterbelt and I am over the moon with how great I look in them. 

Chantal Thomas: I’m a big fan of this designer, every season she puts out beautiful pieces of lingerie. I have yet to purchase something for myself, but I definitely have my eye on a few pieces. Her brand is relatively easy to find and stocked at a variety of places. 

Jolidon: *heart eyes* I am never disappointed by Jolidon. I could probably pick something out of a hat and be happy with anything I got from it. They have something for everyone. Really. Whether you’re into simple elegance, luxurious laces and silks, more young and flirty styles, or simple and sensual there is literally something for any style. Just beautiful!

Aubade:  Love love love! They offer some of my favourite kinds of bras (black and white lace, in extraordinarily sexy designs) as well as bright patterns, colours and styles following the seasons. They definitely aren’t cheap but they’re a brand I personally cannot wait to add to my collection.

Von Follies (by Dita Von Teese): well…. What to say of this brand…. it’s quickly become one of my favourites. The quality is great and the designs are impeccable. It screams luxury. I can’t wait to buy even more from the lovely Dita! Be careful though, it definitely runs small in terms of sizing. If you’re between sizes, I would suggest sizing up. Be generous, because buying lingerie only to have it be too small is never fun!

Fraulein Annie: I recently stumbled across this brand and have slowly become obsessed. The colour schemes and styles are absolutely fabulous, right up my alley. Very classic, beautiful, super flattering… The next bit of money that comes by way will most definitely be going to this brand. I’m hoping to have quite a few pieces from their current collection.

Else: Lace lovers, rejoice! This brand will have you drooling. Handmade in Istanbul, they offer superb styles in fashionable fabrics and lovely colours. Whether you like soft bras, light support, or wires, they have a great variety of options. Unfortunately for my fellow bigger busted ladies, this brand is definitely geared towards smaller chested girls.

Chantelle: A brand a can personally stand behind, I would highly suggest taking a look. I sell Chantelle in high qualities at the bra shop I work at and my customers love the quality! You’re guaranteed to love your purchase. They offer lots of sizes, colours, and styles for everyone. Whether you’re looking for a great supportive bra, something conservative, something colourful, or something sexy, you’re bound to find something you will love from Chantelle.