Mindes Endian's blog about yuri and sometimes other things

joke i'll never get tired of: "they died doing what they loved, [something no one would ever do on purpose]"

and it’s like. don’t get me wrong. i understand why it’s controversial to say that your boundaries WILL get crossed. like i get it. but listen. are you mythologizing sex? are you putting it on a pedestal where it is completely separate from other human actions? are there other social situations where you believe there is ZERO margin for error? if you genuinely believe that no mistakes or accidents ever happen during sex between consenting adults, i can only imagine you’ve never had sex, you don’t make your partners feel safe coming to you when they feel uncomfortable, or you have a fundamental misunderstanding of how boundaries work. it’s not that it’s GOOD or that we should NORMALIZE crossing boundaries, it’s that we recognize that human interaction is complicated and sometimes there’s stuff to work through rather than just burning it all down.

Certified Sex Ed Post!

blocked someone for having "strong opinions" on how much they hate tofu . she isnt a joke to me thats my fucking wife youre talking about

some of you probably think you’re really clingy and annoying but you’re actually really sweet and desirable so. get that out of your head

The Character will literally have you saying shit like "shes literally my special princess. she can do 9/11 as many times as she wants"

if you tag this as a man im killing you btw

new annoying quiz pitch: Kirby Song Title or Yuri Fiction Title

i like this one because whenever i say it, people get really confident, like "this can't be that hard" and then get immediately stalled at Sherbet Above the Sea of Fog

idk thinking about how sometimes you have to show up for people you aren't that close to, because sometimes you're just the person who's there. sometimes you invite a new friend to a party and end up having to sit with them through a panic attack. sometimes you run into an acquaintance on their worst day and they need to talk about what happened. sometimes someone is crying in a stairwell and you're the only one around to ask if they're okay. and none of this is "trauma dumping" or whatever the fuck it's just being there for people because you're the one in the room with them.