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Its just a blog…..? Is it that deep…..? 

This may sound ‘weird’ coming from an old fart like me, but whenever I dated folks I laid out what I was comfortable with in regard to sexy images. We would talk about the things we liked/didn’t like/were not interested in seeing.

I have a very clear idea of things I hate and things I like seeing. Whenever a potential partner would try to put me down for my clear boundaries, I wouldn’t pursue that relationship further.

Is he defensive if this topic is brought up or will he engage in a conversation. ‘This bothers me. This is why.’ It’s OK to feel insecure sometimes. It happens.

Will he listen to you and be thoughtful about his reply and in regard to how this made you feel?

I’ve had partners tell me they were uncomfortable with saying how cute another person was. Although it, to me, is on the context of 'Omg their outfit is amazing!’, some of my partners read it as me being sexually interested in the other person.

I’ve had people not want me to talk about past girlfriends (who were and are current friends) which is understandable because it can make the current person uncomfortable.

Long story short, try to get on the same page. Let them know this bothers you. They may not know this is an issue. They might assume you already know.

Figure out how you want to proceed after you hear what they have to say.

LED arm straps. 

These things will save your clothes! If you push yourself you have to make sure your sleeves aren’t dragging across your hoops. These cute arm straps will prevent your sleeves from getting dirty and they come in a lot of cute designs. They even have LED’s in them, making you more visible at night!

They cost $1.59 a piece and you can buy them here. 

Spoke reflectors

It’s very important to have some sort of reflectors in your wheels because you need to be visible even when it’s dark. (sorry for the weird phrasing but brain fog is messing with my language skills)

They cost $2.66 for 12 and you can buy them here. 

Bernie from Brooklyn: A Conversation with Mark Ruffalo

I feel like this video is almost perfect for people undecided about Bernie. It shows how humble, practical, forward thinking he is.

Voting is tomorrow, April 19.

- DO NOT wear anything showing who you’re voting for (t-shirts, buttons, etc) - DO NOT accept a provisional ballot - DO NOT photograph your ballot

DO: - wait in line as long as it takes - photograph/record any shenanigans - report them (contact info below)

These are the phone numbers to report suspicious activity: Public Info (518) 474-1953 Enforcement Counsel (518) 486-7858