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You guys seemed to like my last thread about baby bat music recommendations.
So here's another one.
This time instead of focusing on older established bands to branch out from, I'm going to focus more on the goth and goth adjacent bands that have become viral on things like Tiktok and Instagram reels over the last few years, older or more recent, since that's kinda what gets funneled to baby bats alongside the classic stuff.
So here goes:
If you like Scary Bitches, try Bloody Dead and Sexy
If you like Twin Tribes, try Deus Ex Lumina
If you like Molchat Doma, try Hoffen
If you like New Order, try Panic Priest
If you like Switchblade Symphony, try La Scaltra
If you like Mareux, try Hallows
If you like Dead On A Sunday, try Occults
If you like Boy Harsher, try Madeline Goldstein
If you like Lebanon Hanover, try Selofan
If you like She Past Away, try Hapax
If you like Radio Werewolf, try Les Fleurs du Mal
If you like Alien Sex Fiend, try Damien Hearse
If you like The Cult try, Grooving In Green
If you like Glass Spells, try Echoberyl
If you like Sinnerella, try Corbeau Hangs
If you like ULTRA SUNN, try Vandal Moon
If you like French Police, try Dead Born Babies
If you like Diva Destruction, try Suzi Sabotage
If you like Dionnysuss, try Saigon Blue Rain
If you like Vestron Vulture, try Bat Nouveau
If you like Specimen, try Virgin In Veil
does anyone have any tips on making alters more distinct? Im a median system and I would like for the others to be able to actually fully take front and do their own things instead of just being able to push their emotions and part of their personalities onto me
First thing I would recommend is to check out this post around consciousness labels, as I found this was the most helpful and the most motivating for us personally, and has been really helpful in pushing away doubts.
Once you're done with the above, check out the alter separation guide!
The purpose of this document is to compile a huge number of resources to help us separate, switch, immerse in mindscape, build dissociative
We are aiming for the same thing. It takes a LOT of work and could be a really long time before you start noticing results, but so far it's helped us a fair amount (though we haven't been very consistent with it at all). Just make sure to do regular check-ins to make sure that separation is something you still desire! Some headmates may not want to be separated. And some it may not be healthy to separate.
Heres a separate thing for improved communication if that's something you struggle with!
If you struggle with imposter syndrome or just getting in the right headspace to communicate with your headmates, I would also recommend looking into guided meditation, or mindlessness hypnosis!
Source: Joe Plerre M.D., Enacted Identities: Multiplicity, Plurality, and Tulpamancy, The neurodiversity of how we experience our socioculturally-constructed selves.
This whole article is worth a read if you're interested in more academic discussions about plurality. It's quite short, but it encompasses a lot of good points that I agree with.
The social construct aspect is especially important to me. It's something that is more or less implied in online plural spaces, but is rarely discussed outright, in my experience.
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System mapping is the process of making a model of your system in some way.
Many systems make system maps. A system list is a system map in one of its simplest forms, but there are a lot of other kinds of system maps that people might make to get more information. Some system maps might show internal structure and lines of communication. Some show relationships or opinions. Some show common themes and differences between system members. Etc.
There's really no wrong way to make a map. What matters is that the map is useful to you- it should give you information that helps you work with your system better. It might give you a better understanding of why your system works the way it does, or it might tell you who might need support or who might need to work on establishing communication.
Communication
Sometimes, it can be useful to map out who in your system can talk to whom. This is a very simple kind of map to make, and it gives you useful information about your system that ranges from "huh, these two can't reach each other" to "there's a gap here- are we missing someone?"
Lay out every known system member on a piece of paper. If two people can talk to each other, draw a line between them. If the communication is one-way only, draw an arrow. If two people can't reach each other, don't connect them. If two people can reach each other indirectly but you don't know who's linking them together like that, draw a line with a gap in it.
You might also add dotted lines for weak or unreliable communication, or other kinds of lines for other special cases.
Relationship
It can be helpful to know how different system members get along (or don't). Relationships in a system can be mapped with something similar to a shipping diagram, and looking at the resulting map can make it very obvious if someone is overall liked, disliked, rejected, etc. It can also point out interesting patterns in who gets along and who doesn't.
Draw your system members arranged in a circle. Then, draw color-coded (or otherwise coded- make a key) lines between members that like each other, dislike each other, or have other important opinions about each other.
Structure
Sometimes, drawing the arrangement of your system can teach you how to work with it better.
If two people feel close to each other (e.g. they may have unusually easy communication, common interests or themes, common issues, etc.), then draw them close together. If two people feel far apart (e.g. poor communication, lots of differences and disagreements, don't really understand each other), then draw them far apart.
By the end of this, you have a map that shows you which people are clustered together and which people are disconnected, rejected, or otherwise pushed away. This can be very useful when trying to bring any cast-out people closer to the rest of your group, as it can make isolation very obvious.
You can also map other aspects of system structure. For example, you might consider mapping the relationship between the different places that people can occupy in your system (front, back, etc.):
This kind of map can be very abstract sometimes. We have a few structure maps that we've made over the years, and they probably don't make a ton of sense to people that aren't in our group, but they've helped us a lot.
You might also consider mapping associations. What colors are associated with your system members? Do they have common themes or imagery? Does everyone associated with the color green have a hard time talking to people associated with blue? Are powerful people usually associated with certain species?
Timeline
Sometimes, it can be helpful to make a timeline of important life events that happened to your group. If you have guesses about when some people showed up or changed, then putting those dates on the timeline can give you insight into what those people might be dealing with.
Content warning for trauma, suicide and egocide, and general unpleasantry if you read this one. We censored the most sensitive parts (and those we'd simply prefer to keep private), but it's still heavier than the other maps in this post.
Headspace
If your headspace is possible to map, then sometimes mapping it can teach you something about your system. It doesn't have to be very detailed to help, nor does it have to be entirely logical.
We don't have the one headspace map we've made in easy reach, unfortunately, and it's out of date. That said, conventional land mapping tricks will often work for places in headspace. Recreating headspace in a game like The Sims or Minecraft is also an option.
If multiple places overlap, then consider making a pop-up map or otherwise representing that overlap- it can be useful information. Likewise, if parts of headspace correspond to parts of your body or parts of your system, then it can be helpful to make a note about that.
Adapting for Large and Complex Systems
Larger systems may not all fit on one piece of paper. Complex systems may not fit on a 2D surface at all- there might be layers involved that need a 3D surface. System mapping still works for these cases, but you may need to approach it a little differently.
Try mapping your system's subgroups instead of individual people.
Try making multiple maps for different "regions" of the system. Consider including information on how those maps connect together.
Make good use of color coding and keys to pack more information into a smaller space.
Try mapping by using digital drawing programs and tools. A digital canvas can be much larger than a physical one.
Try mapping in 3D. Make a sculpture, stack sheets of paper, fold the paper, use the back side, draw a 3D shape, and experiment with other ways of arranging the map to better reflect your situation.
Use multiple kinds of map. Each map is likely to have part of the overall picture, and looking at them together is likely to give you useful information about how it all fits together.
Finally: system mapping is not required. It can be helpful for some systems, but it won't work for everyone, and some systems find that it harms them or makes their lives harder to live. If mapping doesn't work for you, then that's okay- there are plenty of other ways to get to know your system better. Do what works.
We're working on fleshing this out a little more to turn it into a zine! We'll drop a link (and pages, as usual) when it's done, but keep an eye out for that.
Hi everyone! After a much longer wait than I initially intended, I have finally finished my book on herb associations, and have uploaded a PDF version to both ko-fi and Google Drive. Furthermore, if you're interested in a fully formatted version that is suitable for book-binding, I have added a $2 listing for that as well. If you're not into that, no worries! I am absolutely fine just providing it for free.
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newly passing dragon therian who doesnโt really have any other dragons in her area so sheโs learning the ropes of dragonhood from a bunch of books on dragon behavior she found at the library. the problem is theyโre all sort of old and out of date
she couldnโt find a princess because itโs 2026, so she โkidnappedโ a friend of hers and made her wear a big puffy dress. the friend insists she doesnโt mind at all but the dragon feels sort of bad about it regardless
hey, thanks for indulging me in all this. i know itโs probably sort of silly
oh, no, not at all! itโs actually kind of nice. youโre really warm and your scales are so soft. iโm so comfy right now. does it feel nice to be curled around your hoard?
yeah, itโs heavenly. youโre the best for letting me do thisโฆ
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oh my gosh im so sorry i have no idea why i did that it was totally instinctive are you ok
girl im fine! your tongue is just really big and you kinda caught me off guard with it!
iโm sorry regardless, i shouldnโt have just-
wait.
are you blushing
no, itโs not like- it isnโt- i-
ok, iโm sorry, i should have told you. this whole thing is kind of a weird fantasy for me but i didnโt want to say anything and ruin your moment! this is about you! besides, i didnโt want to come off as a chaser or anything, and i never expected i would actually see a dragonโฆ much less that it would be youโฆ
this might sound weird but i think i knew? my nose is so sensitive now that i can sort of smell it on you. is that weird im sorry if thats weird
girl thats so cool that is not weird at all! itโs also. ahem. sort of really really hot >/////<
this might sound weird. and youโre totally welcome to say no-
weโve been friends for years you can just ask i wonโt be mad
could you lick me again? maybe my neck? iโm really sensit- oh god oh my god ohhhh thatโs really nice girl this is doing it for me so mhhhhhh fuckkkk-
like that?
yes obviously like that can you not see me melting over h- what is going on with your eyes are you ok??
yeah, iโm- i-
hold on. is the big scary dragoness getting turned on by the princess she captured? awwww
i- how could i not- youโre over here asking me to lick your neck and moaning up a storm and iโve had a crush on you for years and what was i supposed to feel about all that???
i donโt know! i was just curious and- you fucking WHAT
youโre literally so pretty! i love the way you dress and your taste in perfume and your stupid idiot laugh when i make a dumbass joke, and-
ok. look. girl. no more bullshit. how did your genitalia get affected by your hrt?
i got a set of hemipenes? most dragons do, i think? why?
are you comfortable with topping now?
i- i think so?
ash, i want you to fuck me. do you also want to fuck me?
oh my god yes please i just donโt know if iโm any good at it and-
shush. iโll guide you, ok?
y-yeahโฆ
ok. take one paw and push me down, then pin my arms over my head and- woah easy there big girl- okay, god youโre strong now-
did i hurt you iโm so sorry oh my gosh iโm-
you did not hurt me. iโm just so turned on i can barely think. ok, can you pop your slit open? i wanna see what youโre working wi- oh that was fast. you must really want me, huh~
i do. so much
god, theyโre gorgeous. can you stick a pillow under my hips so i can- yeah, there you go. thanks! ok, go ahead and move up a bit- aww, theyโre writhing in midair at me! itโs adorable how you want me so bad that your body is acting on instinct~ do i smell like a fertile mate to you?~
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yes
well then whatโs stopping you? go ahead and breed your- oh my god youโre huge goddamn- no you arenโt hurting me keep going oh god oh god yeah thatโs yeah girl lick me again like that iโm-
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that was pretty niceโฆ how are you doing?
i had a good time! iโmโฆ iโm really happy. what do we do now? do we go on dates? are we a couple?
do we have to figure that out right now? iโm- ugh- iโm still very full of dragon juice and i can feel it every time i move, sorry, and-
oh! i can help with that! hold still~
does that feel okay?
girl, that tongue is going to make me find religion because clearly miracles are real sometimes. yeah, thatโs a lot better but keep licking anyway iโm really enjoying it. anyway, does it really matter what we are?
not really. i like you and i think thats the important bits anyway
agreed. ok, jump up here on the bed and cuddle me- wow your body is so warm. youโre the sexiest blanket ever, you know.
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