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- change my room decor to baby pink and cream

- only wear black bras and panties

- purchase and only wear colorful and girly workout matching sets to the gym

- wear mainly matching sets on lazy days

- sleep with silk pillow cases

- have gold everyday jewelry pieces

- have my shower be only filled with pink shower gels

- find my nail length and maintain that nail length for the most part

- always match and look cute while going to the airport

- have my nail and toe color always match

- workout 3-4 times a week like it’s nothing

- complete my wardrobe color palette (baby pink, cream, white, black, and other colors and patterns when I’m feeling fun)

- only wear silk pajama sets to bed

- listen to podcasts or an audio book while grocery shopping or doing other activities

- become a good listener

- listen more and speak less

- smile often

- always be polite

“You’ve gain weight” “Thank you” “…”

Then they have to either settle with being misunderstood or double down and explicitly explain that they were intentionally being unkind.

I work at a church and religious people use coded language to say crummy things in camouflaged/passive aggressive ways. Today someone told me, “that was an…interesting sermon…”

“Thank you.” <smile>

Then I got to watch them squirm as they tried to decide how to respond.

Stop.

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