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the basic option: ENFP, ENFJ, ISFJ, INFP, ISTJ

the cool option: INFJ, ENTP, INTP, ISTP, ESTP

put all the types you don’t know what to do with here: ESTJ, ISFP, ESFP, ENTJ, ESFJ

bad things that will happen if net neutrality is repealed

companies will be able to censor information and effectively shut down websites of social movements they disagree with, such as BLM or planned parenthood

small website owners (such as independent artists who have their own websites for hosting webcomics) will have to pay more to keep those websites hosted

many controversial and small websites such as i just listed will lose their platforms

internet monopolies will increase in number and become harder to challenge, such as how youtube has a monopoly on video sharing.

things that will NOT happen

consumers who don’t own websites having to pay more to access the internet / parts of the internet

the internet ending

most of the things in the posts going around tumblr 

it’s the age of the internet and our empathy is evolving. yes, isn’t long-distance now so easy. there’s a lot we have to be thankful for.

but there’s a lot that’s changing. there’s no words for the emotion you feel when someone is taking a picture with you that you know is only happening because they want to look fun and popular and you’re a prop; there’s no word for when you know it’s because you’re uglier than them and it makes them look good - there’s no word for watching people socialize for social media credit. we know it happens. not just “hang on let me take a picture of my food.” not just “i’ve got to text my mom back, one sec.” i mean that strange distance between two people who comment on each other’s posts but cannot connect in person. i mean you pour out your soul on twitter but then clam up in person. i mean internet loneliness; the sensation of 212 thousand followers and still so empty, knowing if the plane goes down, the ocean of the internet will wash out your memory. 

“i want a friend date,” she says, and he snorts - you mean friends?

it’s hard, sometimes. finding a best friend. when i was little i had an assignment about it. i remember crying in the hallway because i didn’t have one. everyone else in class did. i wrote about my shadow. i didn’t fit in. over the years i’ve had a couple. one turned out pure evil. a few were my best friend but i wasn’t theirs, in the end. a lot just drifted from me until we were only friends by nostalgia, not connection. but i ached for the feeling of a best friend the whole time: the person you can be silent with, the person you can be wild with, the person you can be 100% yourself with.

we live in a society where romance is said to be the only space you’re allowed to really be close with someone. how many of us have said to make sure you marry your best friend. we know from dating that there exists a kind of connection we don’t always get in our friends - even a platonic one, a connection of spirit, a freedom of behavior. 

i get it. a platonic date sounds wonderful. it’s not hurting anybody. let’s both have three seconds where we’re honest with each other in a raw kind of way. it’s terrifying. or we could just talk about what’s bothering you. i’m also still fucked up about the avatar: the last airbender ending; i also don’t get katara and aang. 

it’s about trust. about vulnerability. so yeah. maybe i’ve done all kinds of platonic-date things. but i’ve also had the opposite happen: the non-friend. someone you don’t want to cut out, not necessarily - but not someone you can tell your secrets to in the end. i think what we’re all asking for is to be less lonely. we want to get close to people, but we don’t want to seem like we’re hitting on somebody. 

“there’s no words for the emotion you feel when someone is taking a picture with you that you know is only happening because they want to look fun and popular and you’re a prop; there’s no word for when you know it’s because you’re uglier than them and it makes them look good - there’s no word for watching people socialize for social media credit. “ this is the stupidest most incomprehensible thing I’ve ever heard. It’s so sock it physically pains me. But also clearly sx blind, since it implies a DISTRUST of intimacy, an ASSUMPTION that people are doing things “for points”, when they might not be? It’s so strange

Functions: Ti-Se-Ni-Fe

Strengths

Optimistic & energetic

Creative & practical

Spontaneous & rational

Know how to prioritize

Great in a crisis

Relaxed

Weaknesses

Stubborn

Insensitive

Private & reserved

Easily bored

Dislike commitment

Risky behavior

Turn-on = Openness

Turn-off = Clingy-behavior

What stresses ISTP out

Tight restrictions and a rigid structure.

Being in controlling relationships.

Dealing with irrational people.

Having to use theoretical or intuitive concepts for a prolonged period.

Being in an emotionally charged environment.

Lack of alone time. Too much extraverting.

Being in a non-challenging work environment.

Doing repetitive, mundane tasks.

Not having their personal values respected or validated.

How to help an ISTP experiencing stress

Give them alone time and space.

Excuse them from some of their responsibilities.

Let them “get away” from everything.

Don’t ask how they feel.

Encourage them to exercise.

Let them read a mystery novel or do something that engages light problem solving.

Forgive their out-of-character behavior.

How ISTP handle Grief

Get away from people

Keep themselves busy

Note: Hate being asked “Are you ok?”

How ISTP handle Guilt

Accept their failures

Find ways to logically make-up for it

What ISTP are like when Sad

Distract themselves from the feelings

Look to be active & have fun to cope

What ISTP need after a Bad Day

Fun options to do (if they want) then be left alone

What ISTP do when Angry

Ignores the actual person they’re mad at and engages in a sensory experience that takes their mind off the issue (I.e. Drinking, fighting, exercising).

What ISTP Should do Instead

Find a healthy physical outlet for their anger (I.e. exercise) and then find a solution to the problem that initially angered them.

What ISTP Struggle with

Being sensitive

What ISTP are Hard on themselves for…

Logically understand that no one is perfect, including themselves, and that’s ok

ISTP’s Purpose in Life is

Fix what is broken

What ISTP need to know

Sometimes you need to break out of your own head and pay attention to the people around you. Don’t let others feel alienated because your thoughts are so damn interesting.

What ISTP should never forget

Functions: Ti-Se-Ni-Fe

Strengths

Optimistic & energetic

Creative & practical

Spontaneous & rational

Know how to prioritize

Great in a crisis

Relaxed

Weaknesses

Stubborn

Insensitive

Private & reserved

Easily bored

Dislike commitment

Risky behavior

Turn-on = Openness

Turn-off = Clingy-behavior

What stresses ISTP out

Tight restrictions and a rigid structure.

Being in controlling relationships.

Dealing with irrational people.

Having to use theoretical or intuitive concepts for a prolonged period.

Being in an emotionally charged environment.

Lack of alone time. Too much extraverting.

Being in a non-challenging work environment.

Doing repetitive, mundane tasks.

Not having their personal values respected or validated.

How to help an ISTP experiencing stress

Give them alone time and space.

Excuse them from some of their responsibilities.

Let them “get away” from everything.

Don’t ask how they feel.

Encourage them to exercise.

Let them read a mystery novel or do something that engages light problem solving.

Forgive their out-of-character behavior.

How ISTP handle Grief

Get away from people

Keep themselves busy

Note: Hate being asked “Are you ok?”

How ISTP handle Guilt

Accept their failures

Find ways to logically make-up for it

What ISTP are like when Sad

Distract themselves from the feelings

Look to be active & have fun to cope

What ISTP need after a Bad Day

Fun options to do (if they want) then be left alone

What ISTP do when Angry

Ignores the actual person they’re mad at and engages in a sensory experience that takes their mind off the issue (I.e. Drinking, fighting, exercising).

What ISTP Should do Instead

Find a healthy physical outlet for their anger (I.e. exercise) and then find a solution to the problem that initially angered them.

What ISTP Struggle with

Being sensitive

What ISTP are Hard on themselves for…

Logically understand that no one is perfect, including themselves, and that’s ok

ISTP’s Purpose in Life is

Fix what is broken

What ISTP need to know

Sometimes you need to break out of your own head and pay attention to the people around you. Don’t let others feel alienated because your thoughts are so damn interesting.

What ISTP should never forget

Functions: Fi-Se-Ni-Te

Strengths

Charming

Sensitive to others

Imaginative

Passionate

Curious

Artistic

Weaknesses

Fiercely independent

Unpredictable

Easily stressed

Overly competitive

Fluctuating self-esteem

Turn-on = Tenderness

Turn-off = Cruelty

What stresses ISFP out

Rigid structure and rules

Having to violate their deeply held values

Not enough alone time. Too much extraverting.

Too many demands or obligations.

Having to deal with excessive data

Long-term planning

Criticism

Lack of appreciation from others

Feeling that they are about to lose something (relationship/task, etc,..)

How to help an ISFJ experiencing stress

Give them some time alone to process their feelings and thoughts

Validate their feelings, and listen to them. Female ISFPs are often ready to talk sooner about their feelings than male ISFPs

Remind them of their strengths.

Don’t give them advice. It won’t help when they’re stressed.

Don’t try to reason with them or be logical. Just be patient, calm, and affirming.

Only after they’ve calmed down from the stress ask if they’d like any help with solutions.

How ISFP handle Grief

Talk about it with someone close

How ISFP handle Guilt

Over-apologetic

Try to make up for it

What ISFP are like when Sad

Retreat inwardly

Distance themselves from negative things & people

What ISFP need after a Bad Day

Patience and a fun physical distraction

What ISFP do when Angry

Holds in their anger and avoids the person they’re mad at, possibly for the rest of their lives.

What ISFP Should do Instead

Explain to the opposing party why their feelings were hurt and then ask to hear their side of the situation.

What ISFP Struggle with

Being predictable

What ISFP are Hard on themselves for…

Constantly worry how they are perceived by others

ISFP’s Purpose in Life is

Splash color into a grey world

What ISFP need to know

Just because someone disagrees with you, doesn’t mean they are challenging who you are as a person. Try not to be wounded by their lack of sensitivity.

What ISFP should never forget

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The above site tries to identify your type based on your blog! Just enter in the URL of your blog and this site will analyse it to see what your type is.

Of course, this could always be affected by reblogs etc.

AmazonianSiege: ISFP

EnneagramThreeAmbitions: ISTP

SavagePlains: INTJ

Okay so this is unneaccary but i don’t want others to mistype like i did

Fi isn’t about KNOWING OR BEING IN TOUCH WITH YOUR FEELINGS, yeah sure would be nice but it’s not like that is the function.

Fi is about a moral system that decides how you act. Doesn’t have anything to do with feelings.

Fi isn’t selfish either it’s self-righteous, its moral system is perfect in its users eyes

Some fi users have a system were they want to help others, were they think that being selfish is unacceptable or maybe even the opposite. Maybe they think they have to be true to themselves and always say what they think

IT DEPENDS ON THE SYSTEM SINCE EVERY FI USER HAS THEIR OWN SUBJECTIVE VIEW AND THEIR OWN MORALS

It has nothing to do with emotions