The Concept of Sacrifice in the Black Community
When watching the film "Get Out," I could not help but notice some subtle themes. For example, Chris while experiencing microaggressions was expected to suppress (i.e., sacrifice) his feelings and to keep the peace and ultimately for whites to inhabit his body. After watching the film, I begin to reflect on what exactly accounts for such a sacrificial character that is apparent in the black community. The Bible in Jeremiah chapter 10:23 states, "man has no power of guiding his steps" (BBE). In the same book chapter 17:9 Jeremiah says, "The heart is more treacherous than anything else and is desperate..."(NWT). Now, this is not a theological debate over the intended meaning of these verses. However, what is clear from these scriptures, and a common theme in the Bible overall, is that God's blesses those who listen to his word and reprimands, punishes, and even kills those who are disobedient or seek their direction in life. In fact, God makes it clear, for example to the Israelites, "…I have put life and death before you, the blessing and the curse; and you must choose life so that you may live…by loving Jehovah your God, by listening to his voice, and by sticking to him. Thus, choosing life is tantamount to listening (being obedient), sticking by God (being loyal), and loving him which also means hating the things he hates.
Although these messages are found in the Bible, can we not all agree that such subtle messages are found in our larger society. On some level, we are all taught to respect and not question/challenge authority, that listening is equated with being a good citizen. That loyalty is equated with patriotism. Further, we are expected to be uncompromising in our submissiveness to work, religion, and government. All these messages in my opinion, on some level, keep us from living up to our full potential. It stifles us from pursuing our passions, dreams, and aspirations. We are often told to sacrifice ourselves, our endeavors for the benefit of work, religion, and nation. What's strange; however, is that these institutions which socialize us to be selfless and self-sacrificing are the very ones who stand to benefit from such devotion and sacrifice. The question then becomes, are these institutions teaching a philosophy for the betterment of humanity or is such teaching for the benefit and maintenance of their interests? As I see it, usually the very ones preaching the philosophy to be obedient and self-sacrificing fail themselves to be such. In fact, these very ones who make the rules are often the ones who transgressed in the most insidious way.
Thus, following societal expectations will never secure freedom and joy for you because in doing so we go against our inner voice, our intuition. This is a fatal mistake because listening to the expectations of others is like trying to fulfill their fantasies-their ego. Who can live up to the demands of one's ego? Once one becomes a servant of another's ego they are now under obligation, hence the word expectation. You are under no obligation to anyone but yourself. In fact, if you are neglecting yourself, how can you be of any value to anyone else? Being obligated to someone means you are no longer living according to your desires but that of another. And that is not living.