Madmi

i mean what did i expect really

a package?

omg she recognized me immediately and got nervous with me while checking the system using my name

*sighs* precious baby version of night and his mentally drained brother/dad got me dropping everything for a quick doodle<333

OSDream, stubbing his toe: Ow f*ck that hurt

Nightmare: Someone's dying where did you hear that word

Killer: *Slowly trying to sneak away*

the tentacle club has accepted a new member!! ✨

dadmare au belongs to @dadmareau and resetmare belongs to @dreemurr-skelememer and osd au belong to me :p

i asked “is anyone going to make this a little spooky” and then i didn’t wait for an answer

Da Baby pulling a bunch of dandelions. Thanks for the ko-fi, @coldcreature!

my ko-fi; requests are $5!

i asked “is anyone going to make this a little spooky” and then i didn’t wait for an answer

flowereW

for years, i suffered through people making suggestions of things that were things i had done, and either weren’t worth the effort or they actually made things worse. i told them this, and if i was still having any issues with the same problem they’d say something about “well if you’re not gonna listen to any suggestions…” when I did. they’re the one who didn’t listen when i told them that doesn’t work for me. They assume that because I didn’t try it in front of them (which is often impossible), I never tried it. I tried doing my homework as soon as I got home. I tried doing my homework at the table, I tried working where I was comfortable. I tried listening to music, I tried working in silence. I tried using a planner, I tried setting reminders on my phone, I tried. I tell people that I have executive functioning issues and they say that I have to work on it like I haven’t been doing that as long as I’ve had to do things and it’s so much better than it was before. I’m as able as I am now because I’ve spent 18 years working on it.

One of my friends has ADHD, and at one point when her grades dropped her parents took her phone, despite her telling them that the only way she can focus on her homework is to listen to music, for which she needs her phone.

I was in a study hall with another friend, who also has ADHD. Sometimes, they would be able to focus and do their work. Others, they would end up being entirely unable to and would do other stuff. The “instructional support” person would start bothering them about it, insist that they try. As if they hadn’t already done so.