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I want to to preface this by saying that you are the operant power in your reality.

🧁Through this process, I learned a lot about myself and my overall self concept about romance and it was absolutely horrendous. I am very much a lover girl but along the way i picked up the assumption that people only fall in love with me for my looks and once they actually get to know me, they leave. This in return, lead me to experience that very assumption in my relationships and as time went on, i got more clingy whilst it felt like they got more distant and aloof sad face. Even in my healthiest relationships, I was constantly asking if they actually loved me and being unable to accept the fact that I am able to be loved just as I am.

。・°°・°°・。HOW I BEGAN 。・°°・°°・。

🧁I primarily focused on self concept affirmations NOT sp. I needed to rebuild the confidence that i was lacking in my relationships.

🧁My affs included: i only experience devoted partners, i am the dream woman, it is a privilege to experience me, i am the woman that people never get over and i receive attention wherever i go

-these were mines but your affirmations should be tailored to your situation. it will make the entire process more believable for you and the resistance that other people experience will not be of concern to you. I know people say you don’t have to focus on self concept but trust it will make the whole process smoother.

-I also repeated affirmations relating to my manifestation self concept. Mines were: I always manifest quickly and easily, i never experience any outcome i don’t want and i am a master at manifesting the things i want

-secondly, i created a manifestation routine. I started my mornings with self concept affirmation tapes and would recite them as i was getting ready and driving to work, my favorite video is attached below 👇🏾

- while i was at work i listened to my own subliminals i made, i think this is partially why i was able to bypass any doubts because i was saturating my mind all day, with information specific to my situation.

- i also stopped engaging in manifestation content, seeing the comments of people so disgustingly desperate was beginning to effect me and i also recognized i was using other people’s success stories for reassurance instead of putting the things i learned into practice.

-in this time frame, i was in minimal contact with my sp and it was EXTREMELY difficult for me but i assigned positive meaning to whatever was happening. if we didn’t text, id tell myself he was losing his mind and crawling up the walls figuring what i was doing. if i missed him, i told myself it was because he missed me 10x more. a negative thought didn’t stand a chance against my reframing

🧁even though i was consistent with my routine, i had days where i was extremely anxious. i told myself that was okay and that was not MY anxiety i was experiencing and it will pass. When i had the time i would do breathwork or listen to a guided meditation. my favorite video is attached below👇🏾

HOW EVERYTHING UNFOLDED

🧁 I felt like one day manifesting clicked for me, i stopped doing techniques as a way to get something and recognized i have everything i needed RIGHT NOW. I am already perfect, i am already source, i already have my desired reality and i lived my day to day life as such. To be honest, i really wasn’t worried if my sp reached out because i was getting sooo much attention from literally everyone, even people who i know for a fact, i wouldn’t usually be their type.

🧁I can’t lie the attention and validation from others was fun but i obviously didn’t take them seriously and it made them more desperate for my attention #win.

🧁One day after work, my sp blew my phone UP, i had my phone on sleep mode because i didn’t want to be so focused on if he texted or called. So i missed everything until i got home.

- He came back crying, telling me everyone in his life was calling him and idiot and telling him he fumbled. He said no matter where he went or what he was doing, i was always in his mind and it was driving him insane. He regretted his decision and couldn’t sleep properly for days.

🧁Was i shocked about that? Of fucking course not lmfao. I told yall i am the operant power and everyone/everything bends to my will, including him

HOW ITS BEEN

- our relationship is honestly in the best state it’s ever been. He’s extremely attentive and sweet, he can’t get enough of me, it’s like i’m the human version of catnip. He is literally enamored by my beauty and anything i ask him to do, he’s eager to.

-i no longer constantly ask for reassurance, im comfortable not being around him 24/7, or checking his following because im the prize and any woman who knows that couldn’t even FATHOM doing shit like that.

Manifesting has greatly improved my life in all sectors and i even have my bf telling his family and friends about reframing their thoughts and it’s so cute lol. I say all this to say, there are no limits to what you can have in this world and that man/woman is not that special. We just make them out to be that way, but you can have them eating out your palm. Take them off of that pedestal and have some respect for yourself. Take care of yourself, get a pedicure, do a face mask, go out and have fun.

DO NOT spend all day holed up in your room, wondering what they’re doing, they’re losing their mind because you fucking said so!

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