Pick a picture • How to recognize your soulmate ✨🪻
-how *you* want to give and receive love
-what your soul craves in other people
-red flags to look out for
Your first impression of your soulmate Will be that they are working very hard, almost obsessively on a specific project that is dear to them. You might initially think that they are too materialistic.
You will be proven wrong when you experience their true personality because they are actually not that competitive at all, but they are very intelligent and have many new ideas that they can use in their favor. There could be something melancolic about them, or they might have a tendency to brood in negative emotions. They could have a difficult past. I feel like they can be overwhelmed by life and the world, maybe they're disappointed by the state of the world, but they are very sharp and talented when it comes to using their brain which is what helps them forge their path into the world. I think they see through a lot of people's nonsense and refuse to partake in a lot of society's games. They are truthful and honest.
Possibile astrology placements (they don't have to have these, use this as extra conformation!!): Mars in Leo, pluto in scorpio (this is a generatioal planet so everyone born between 1983 and 1995 has this), venus in libra
Appearance: highly symmetrical. Curated aesthetic. Conventionally attractive look or exactly your type. They appear charming and sociable, balancing a sweet and kind vibe with an underlying sensuality. They look "like a dream come true". They could have a tendency to blush, or small fearures (eyes/lips/nose)
The way you like to receive love: through collaboration and compromise. You want someone reasonable who is going to want to work on this relationship and improve It as much as you do. Good constructive communication and patience. Someone hard-working, reliable but also able to see others' points of view. You need to see them putting in the effort.
How you like to give love: in a relationship you need to be able to show all your entusiasm without being told to tone It down. You need to be able to be authentic and show your love, your joy, your excitement fully without hiding any piece of yourself. You probably want to show love through grand gestures.
What your soul craves: your soul dosen't want you to compromise when looking for your person, but it wants for you to keep your standards the way they are. It wants you to have the confidence to know that you deserve to have exactly what you wish for.
Other green flags: emotional vulnerability. If Someone seems genuine, emotionally open and gives off a sweet gentle vibe they could be a good match for you. Also creativity.
Red flags: Someone who seems unstable, who has more on their plate than they can handle. Someone without clear direction, or that changes their mind often.
First impressions: you'll get the impression that they're very happy and established in life. You might admire their family, and think they must already be in a relationship / have everything they need. They just seem serene and like life is going their way.
Personality: they probably are indeed very successful and admired. They are definitely very confident and charming. They are probably good at holding a conversation, I see them as being charismatic and well liked. They are respectful and can match other people's vibes while still emanating self-assuredness. But there is also a side to them that is more difficult because they do have a very serious side beneath this charming more lighthearted appearance. I think they secretly feel like they can't take it easy, they can't make mistakes. There's a lack of spontaneity. In some way they feel burdened and feel like they can't loosen up.
Possible zodiac placements (they don't have to have this, just use this as extra confirmation!!): gemini placements, Jupiter in leo, aquarius placements
Appearance: they are very beautiful. I feel like I've said this for both piles so far ahaha but this is what I'm getting! They could have soft fearures, and look very "lush". They look older and mature yet agreeable and appealing. They definitely look confident and in control. I feel like they could have some more feminine features. They put effort into their clothing choices but also into their hygene.
How you like to receive love: You like banter. You feel loved if they can tell you the truth. You like directness and you need to let It all out, you can't rimuginate on your own, you need to be in a relationship where you can be honest and be in disagreement without it meaning anything bad. You both need to have the confidence and be secure in yourselves for this to be possible. It has to be a relationship where the difficult parts are accepted and embraced too.
How you want to give love: by sitting with them in silence and accepting all of them. Not shying away from their fears, and the hidden parts of them. Creating a safe space to open up. Seeing them for who they are. By "getting" them, and trusting them.
What your soul craves: complete trust, honesty, zero games. Open direct communication. I really feel like you want a safe space where there's no need to hide anything, a connection that's pure, away from the harshness and complications of the world, and in which you can truly rely on each other.
Other green flags: emotional maturity. Someone who has done the work and can take care of themselves, someone who is able to nurture themselves and others. Kindness.
Red flags to look out for: controlling people. People who need to feel powerful. Too rigid and stubborn. Excessively strict, without a soft side.
First impressions: They're holding back, or they seem busy or distracted by something, you might not be able to have a full on conversation the first time you meet. The distraction could potentially also be alcohol, which would cause you not to be able to have a real conversation with them as well. They could be leaving early from a place. Or maybe you're meeting in and uncomfortable / not so fun situation (ex. waiting in line for something)
Personality: powerful personality. They are successful, and focused on themselves and their goals. There's a warmth to their personality. They come off strong and seem mature, they are passionate, they have lots of self control. Their willpower and self restraint is very attractive. They know themselves, and they know what they need to do in order to achieve their goals. They are definitely well-liked and respected, if not admired. Creative as well even though their job dosen't have to be creative, and very funny. I feel like they like to make other people laugh and be a source of light for others. There's a side of them that Is caring and self-sacrificing.
Possible zodiac placements (they don't have to have this, just use this as extra confirmation!!): Leo placements in general, mercury in virgo, mars in leo
Appearance: they look balanced, symmetrical. They probably look pleasant, but it's probably also difficult to read them at first glance because they are pretty neutral looking. They probably do lean towards looking stern and they seem like a person of integrity.
How you like to receive love: words of affirmation. You want someone who will tell you directly how they feel, and will charm you with words. Someone honest, brave, direct. You need good communication, you definitely hate the silent treatment (well don't we all; however you probably particularly hate it). You need someone who dosen't play games or wait around and goes straight to the point.
❗->I noticed later I did how you like to receive love twice instead of doing both receive and express... I'm going to choose to believe that this is is how the message was meant to come through lol but sorry for the mistake!
How you like to receive (pt2) / +give love: You want a real relationship that lasts even when things aren't always fun. After the honeymoom phase real relationships can get boring sometimes, and the best part is the love and dedication that both people repetedly choose to give. You like to be shown (and give*) love through concrete actions and gestures that demonstrate consistency, loyalty, stability. A display of love has to be substantial.
What Is your soul craving: Independence in a relationship. I get the feeling that you're older / experienced, but either way it feels like you don't trust people easily and you don't feel like you should. You don't believe in *needing* another person or in blind trust, and you want a potential partner to respect your boundary that you're not going to jump into the relationship as an open book. You need your space and you need to be able to figure out things slowly on your own.
Other green flags: So someone who is *not* controlling. Someone who dosen't feel the need to take the lead. Someone who's able to loosen up.
Red flags to look out for: Someone who gives a fake impression of a perfect life. If someone Is eerily put together and always has to be positive this could be a red flag. Someone too perfectionistic, that can't handle difficulty. Someone superficial.