*but maybe you should go first"
DAYMM.. that caught me off guard-
Hello! I'm really glad you enjoyed it 😆
Dream is actually much more straightforward than people might expect. He puts so much effort into being polite and considerate of other people's feelings that it's not always obvious, though.
But when he was younger... well, to put it nicely, he was very honest. Less nicely, he had absolutely no filter. Since he wasn't human to begin with, that sense of disconnect in the way he spoke and thought was even stronger.
Before the apple incident, that never really changed, simply because no one was there to correct him. Nightmare was in a very similar situation himself, and on top of that, he had a huge soft spot for Dream. So Dream remained exactly the same—blunt, a little unsettling, and casually speaking from a perspective fundamentally different from everyone else's. He was, quite literally, a spirit wearing the appearance of a child.
Because that was the kind of person Dream was, adapting to the world after awakening from the stone couldn't have been easy. The incident made him much calmer, and a bit more melancholic, but he was still unbelievably stubborn.
Fortunately, he was never an aggressive person by nature, so learning to be considerate of others and compromise wasn't the difficult part. The real challenge was learning when to hold back the things he saw as perfectly natural, but which came from a perspective fundamentally different from everyone else's.
Luckily, Dream had good friends by his side. Ink had once gone through much the same confusion Dream experienced after awakening, so he was able to share the social norms and little tricks he'd learned along the way. Whenever they found themselves unsure about something, Blue's common sense and moral compass helped fill in the gaps.
Thanks to his friends, Dream adapted surprisingly quickly. He even adjusted faster than Nightmare, who understands society well enough but has never really felt the need to become part of it.
That said, there are still parts of Dream that never changed. His stubbornness was simply part of who he was, and ironically, because he was so stubborn, he never wanted to change that part of himself either. It may have softened over time, but it never disappeared.
In fact, while Dream is opposed to Nightmare, he's generally much more careful with his words. It's almost as if he's constantly trying not to give anyone the slightest reason to criticize or nitpick him. Which also means that, if he and Nightmare were ever on good terms again, that old blunt side of him would probably come out much more easily.
So... that's basically how it is. Dream is constantly keeping that straightforward side of himself in check with the social skills he learned later in life. Those blunt thoughts are still the first things that come to mind—they just get revised before they ever leave his mouth.
If we could actually hear Dream's inner thoughts, I'm convinced we'd find far more rude comments than the polite ones he works so hard to present on the outside. Thankfully, most people can't read minds.
I'm just glad Dream had such good teachers... Unlike someone who doesn't even pretend to try 👀
Thanks for the ask! Have a wonderful day! 💕