RJ Lockehart

Any person: *Talks about how Christianity ruined their life, and how Christian institutions gave their abusers access to them, and how the bible is used to justify abuse, slavery, misogyny, rape, and bigotry against homosexuals, with explicit verses condoning all of those things*

Stop doing the same to little boys too.

Its not “men and women just cant be friends” its “you fourced romantic implications on children and made them uncomfortable/embarassed, socially conditioning them to not platonically interact with the opposite sex”

Aroace culture is loving whump and sickfics because they allow you to explore love and intimacy without the expectation of sex

ND culture is no object permanence. If someone hurts me, regardless of how close they thought we were before, they are nothing to me now. I no longer love or care for them, because now they’re just ‘that bitch who hurt me’.

Aroace culture is I only like romance books if they’re queer. Gay? Gimme. Lesbian? Love it. Bi for bi? Beautiful stuff. But the instant that you try to sell me a romance where both of the leads are cisgender heteroromantic heterosexuals, I’m out. If there’s no queer element for my aroace ass to relate to, I’m not interested.

Some affirmations for people with trauma caused by christianity:

Aroace culture is ‘This show/book/game has great aroace rep!’ And it’s NEVER THE MAIN CHARACTER.

Aroace culture is punk. Seeing how society views relationships (as exploitable and a hierarchy) can make it easier to be aware of other weird/harmful aspects of mainstream culture.