Masters Guide: Body LanguageĀ Linguistics
āThey see as stunningly beautiful woman and they cannot peel their eyes away from her but then ā¦.ā
Iām going to start by stating the obvious!
Men LOVE a CONFIDENT Woman!Ā
In one of my most popular posts ( The Three Layers of ConfidenceĀ ) I talked about how the surface layer of confidence is how you portray yourself ā¦ and this all boils down to your body language.
The way you walk, the way you gesture, your facial expression, your smile and your voice are just a few of the things that encompass what the rest of the world initially sees.
Iāve been a dating for quite some time now and what Iāve found is that men (SDās) value this a lot more than women and women tend to underestimate the importance of this. A lot of the time women are too busy thinking about the way they look, the way they dress and what type of men are around, that they forget all about their body language. If only these women knew the amount of men ( POTs and SDās) thats Iāve spoken to who have experienced the following situation: They see as stunningly beautiful woman and they cannot peel their eyes away from her ā¦. but then the see her moveĀ ā¦ she walks around with a slouch and all her energy points towards the ground! Suddenly that woman becomes unattractive. Her physical features have not changed but the manās perception has done a complete U-turn, simply because the girl looks unconfident and doesnāt own her presence.
The advice Iām about to give doesnāt just apply to women, it applies to EVERYONE!
1)Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Hold yourself the right way.
When you walk around, one of the most attractive things you can do is carry yourself right. Keep your shoulders pointed back and push your chest up, (as if a string was pulling your chest from above). Maintaining a strong frame communicates to other sub-concious that you are a woman to be taken seriously.
2)Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Donāt be afraid to gesture when you talk.Ā
Standing there all rigid isnāt going to get you the attention of any interesting or affluent man! Be fluid with your hand movements. It shows power and confidence. Open palm gestures are better over āclosed palm gesturesā, simply because theyāre more welcoming, and that is what you want. You want to be approachable.
3)Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Stop crossing your arms.Ā
This is something I learned from the age of 16 when my mentor pointed out to me how defensive I look when I cross your arms. People often cross their arms when they are angry or hurt or defensive: they come off cold and closed. I understand that sometimes, when we are in a stressful or uncomfortable environments, we cross our arms,( and often we do it subconsciously) :ut I want you to become more aware of your body. Try to notice those moments when you cross your arms and stop!Ā Practice makes perfect. Now Iām 20 and I canāt fathom the idea of crossing my arms unless Iām cold.
4)Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Donāt clutch your bag around your shoulder when you are walking.Ā
Itās a nervous sign and you look like you are hiding something. Just Relax! ā¦ If you find yourself in a tense situation, a really great thing to do is to breathe slower. Shifting your breathing to a more controlled and slower level will immediately relax you. I often do this when Iām in a lecture theater with over 100 people and Iām about to be the first one to ask a question. I put my hand straight up in the air and in the few seconds before I am called on, I zone out, slow my breathing down and then ask my question. That way when everyone turns to stare at the ebony, Irish/American acented girl who just asked a daring question.. I can hadle my classmates eyes burning into my soul!. And because my body language is on point, everyone who turns to look at me now sees a confident girl. In one brief moment, I have shaped their perception of me to my advantage. You wonāt believe how many times this has helped me stand out to a potential mentor/boss/interviewer, before Iāve even spoken directly to them.
Now that youāve got the basics down, we are going to work on how body language changes through every interaction.
At the beginning of the interaction you want to have a fun, energetic and an exciting persona. If you are an SB and you are freestyling, what you want is for men to be approaching you. If you are a business person and you are networking at an event, again, you want people to be approaching you. So approachable body language plays a key part at the beginning of this type of social interaction.
Donāt make the mistake of thinking that this is just down to youā¦. No, no, no! This is down to you and your friends or team mates or whoever you keep in your company.Ā
For example, youāre out in the city and youāve struck gold. You and your friend have stumbled upon the perfect 5 star bar that is just flooded with potential men/clients/mentors.Ā
Now if you and your acquaintances are all standing close together facing each other in a near circle-like formation, you have immediately made it very difficult for anyone to come over to you! What you want is to have your associates standing side by side, similar to a V- Formation (this is perfect for smaller groups). This way you can still have a conversation with your company, while making it open and easy for someone to join the interaction. Even better, at the Ā same time you can be scanning the room to find your next interest.
Ā Do this and you will find a lot more people will approach you. Ladies, never forget that one of the hardest things a gentleman can do is approach a beautiful woman when she is out with her friends. Not only does he have to walk all the way over , interrupt your conversation, risk being rejected or even laughed at, and then have to do the potential walk of shame back to his friends/affiliates. So itās your job to make it as easy as possible for him to approach you.
As you move through the conversation, donāt be afraid to slow things down. Especially if you are trying to seduce a potential sugar daddy or date. You want to slow things down a bit and make the interaction a bit more sensual. Slow down your gestures, if you are drinking something, increase the time it takes for the glass to meet your soft lips. Make more eye contact. Play with your expressions and donāt be afraid to squint your eyes a in a flirty yet seductive manner (you know exactly what Iām talking about).
Do keep in mind that this isnāt about being overly sexual: there is nothing more unappealing than a woman that is trying too hard to be sexy.
Try these steps in your everyday life and you will soon notice they will become an integral part of your physical essence. The more you practice, the better you get and it wonāt be long before people look at you and Ā immediately percieve tha you are a high value, confident person.
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