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Sugar Blacklist!!

Ladies especially in the DMV don’t waste your time on the perv. 60 year old loser in Reston, VA very much into Brown sugar consistently messaged me, kept trying to send pictures of his supposed 11 inch Johnson (huge exaggeration) refused to meet me for drinks at the arranged venue because he wanted to me to come upstairs for drinks in his room. Claims he’s new to SA but was a complete sociopath and kept referring to the transaction of $5k to meet me upstairs in his room. I waited 30 min at the rooftop bar as he made excuses to not come down for drinks and get to know me as planned and kept texting me to come upstairs. Not even gonna waste too much time relaying all the bullshit he said, just a disgusting man looking to prey on someone. Possible weirdo or cop. Honey, you sought me out for a date let’s not be foolish enough to think I will put myself in danger for a supposed 5k. Bye with all that 👋👋👋

Don’t show up to dinner/the club/the movies/etc. without money because your friend is a sex worker and you just assume that because they make a lot of fast cash that they can just spot you without a problem.

Don’t fuck up on your rent or bills and hit us up asking for ridiculous amounts of money out of the blue.

Don’t ask us how much we make. It’s none of your fucking business. The money we make and save up is for US to put towards OUR future and personal enjoyment.

And don’t ever fucking try to guilt trip us when we refuse to give you our hard earned money.

Tremayne Clarkson - I was intoxicated and he knew it. I also said I didn’t want to multiple times and we had a mutual agreement that sex would not happen. Has two different sexual violent complaints against him.

Jamaal Rhodes - intoxicated again and he knew it (texts proving it). He admitted in our school hearing to hearing me say he was hurting me but also said he didn’t see it as grounds to stop. Changed his story 3 times. Even in texts stated that he was just “in the zone” or moment.

No. When I first joined the bowl I was irresponsible and accidentally planned a few dates while I was on my cycle. To avoid this download a period tracker or mark a calendar to help you estimate your period and plan meetings accordingly.

*to still pass go and collect bank. I drank a mix of vinegar, lemon juice, and water. At regular intervals throughout the day and the entire way to my meet (using gum to mask the scent).

Change your pad/tampon/cup etc every 1-2 hours. Some people and companies recommend every 2-3 or 3-4. If you have a heavy flow or prefer to not walk around smelling like Posideon, stick to 1-2. *note depending on your flow 1-2 hours may not even be fast enough (espically if coughing and sneezing a lot).

Wash morning and night.

Carry wipes, preferably non-scented and flushable and alcohol free. Utilize wipes instead of tissue. Also you can use both (for more heavy flows) initially tissue and then wipes.

Drink warm water and avoid greasy foods.

Try to remain active (this helps lighten your flow). Also since your metabolism speeds up during your period, being active may help you shed a few pounds.

If anyone had tips of their own to recommend feel free to reblog or comment.