liftedjay

What's a poem that you think of when you're falling for someone?

What was the first kind of porn you were able to get off to?

What's a kink you don't usually talk about?

What was your last kiss like?

When you're craving affection, how do you want to receive it?

What does debriefing from sex look like for you?

Do you use any medications, toys, or tools to assist you in sex?

Do you have any theories about the roots of any of your kinks?

What's a song that you like to hear during sex, before sex, and after sex?

Do you ever smoke while having sex?

What's a fantasy you had as a teen you still have now?

Do you have a piece of clothing that always makes you feel hot?

Would you rather be submissive or dominant with someone new?

How do you like to be kissed?

What does group sex feel like for you?

Have you ever scared someone during sex?

Are there any names you don't let people call you?

Are there any names you like being called?

Have you ever caused someone to bleed during sex?

Do you have more experience with penises or vaginas?

Would you do a kink with partner that you weren't into for them?

Do you have a novel safe word? Have you encountered one?

When does touching become sex to you?

Can you have sex without touching someone?

Tell me a story about a time you felt really seen during sex

Do you have any fantasies now that a younger you wouldn't understand?

Do you enjoy having power over someone?

How do you make your partner feel desired in sex?

What's the best sexual compliment/praise you've gotten?

What's the thing someone has said or done that turned you off the most?

What circumstances make sex on the first date happen for you?

Do you prefer new experiences or routine in sex?

Do you prefer your partner taller or shorter?

Have you cried during sex?

Do you ever miss anything about sex before transition?

What do you usually watch, read, or listen to masturbate?

Have you ever gotten dysphoric because of porn?

What's a public place you'd have sex in?

Do you ever miss sex with a person you don't like anymore?

How well can you fuck while drunk?

Is there a moment during intimacy when you usually realize you're really connecting with someone?

Do you prefer talking during sex, or mostly communicating through touch?

What's something a partner has done that instantly made you feel safe during sex?

How do you usually signal that you want sex without saying it directly?

What's a boundary you learned about yourself through experience?

Do you like slow build-ups or sudden, spontaneous intimacy more?

What's a non-sexual activity that makes you feel sexually closer to someone afterward?

Now listen.

Sedation that doesn't knock you out completely, but just makes you very confused and tired instead, unable to form a clear though, yet still somewhat aware of what's happening around you. Drugging basically...

Augh

I especially adore that when combined with an otherwise very defiant whumpee who refuses medical treatment, and a kind, gentle caretaker? One who holds their hand, strokes their hair and reassures them that everything is going to be okay? Even better when it's a hero/villain dynamic???

being trapped in a vampire's clutches and getting fed on so often you feel weak all the time and have no hope of escaping

getting captured by a murderous stalker who kills anyone who tries to help you and says it's your fault for putting them in danger