hiii i saw your masterpost and noticed you had objectums in your dni? iβm not objectum myself but i was wondering abt it and thought i should ask (you donβt have to answer this if u donβt want to as with any ask :P)
Well, it's because I'm not comfortable with people who find inanimate objects attractive. It's one thing to find a certain item cool or aesthetically pleasing (as in for decoration), but it's full on weird when you 'fall in love' with something that can't even reciprocate your feelings.
Now don't get me wrong, it's not as bad as pedophilia and zoophilia. That doesn't mean objectum people can explore my page whenever they want, though. I don't hate them, I just find their fantasies concerning.
Do they look at a lamp and go, "That's the sexiest thing I've ever seen in my life"? /Rh /Genq
Do they make out with a bouncy ball or something? /Rh /Genq
But yeah, like I said, I'm uncomfortable with the objectum community. Need I explain further?
i am not sure what /rh means but since some of these are /genq i'm gonna answer.
and the answer is yes. to both. i can't force anyone to be comfortable with something, but it's an attraction same as any other--and DOES NOT deserve to be lumped in with pedophilia/zoophilia?? of course we aren't as bad as that...our attraction DOES NOT HURT ANYONE OR ANYTHING.
falling in love with something that can't reciprocate your feelings is also true of falling in love with a fictional character, which is incredibly normalized and happens all the time
every objectum person i know is autistic, and many also personify objects, which is a documented aspect of autism.
this post is strange to me because it's basically saying you don't want people of a certain attraction to interact because you don't personally share those feelings. it also seems incredibly judgemental especially since we were lumped in with pedos/zoos.
not "as bad"...and the stuff that's bad is...being attracted to something. i just don't get this at all
if you have any other questions i would be happy to answer them as long as you are respectful of me, but this post does read as very disrespectful especially to people who are objectum due to neurodivergence. our behavior is not concerning, it's just part of who we are.
