This is a Ross Geller hate blog

everything thats traditionally supposed to be for men is always 100000x better on women like… buzzcuts.. jawlines.. dating other women.. girls just do it better

Fun forgotten lesbian terminology: butches used to be called sergeants and really exceptionally lazy gay girls were called slothgirls.

tag yourself i’m a fucking girlsloth

girlsloth defines me so much I feel called out

whenever i talk about my girlfriend around straight people, a few things usually happen; they go quiet, the atmosphere changes, someone changes the topic very quick, etc. (which are similar “methods” for people to ignore and distance someone they feel doesn’t belong in the group, you know?) i usually say things like “oh, my girlfriend loves that movie!” or “my girlfriend is great at computers so she always helps me when mine is acting up”, ya know, regular everyday things that relate to the topic we are discussing. lately i’ve really started to realize why the entire mood usually changes with me mentioning of my girlfriend - straight people always feel like gay people are oversharing just by mentioning their partner. to straight people, i’m overstepping some kind of boundary just by mentioning that i have a girlfriend. to them, me saying “my girlfriend” is entirely synonymous with me out of the blue saying “i am a lesbian”, a statement that is somehow inherently oversharing and too much information, as well as a real quick and easy way of involuntarily distancing myself from the group that i in that moment am not fully a part of anymore.

I’m like…incessantly uncomfortable with the idea that men look at me in public and decide for themselves whether I’m attractive or not. like men looking at me makes me feel so uncomfortable I can’t breathe even if they’re just being friendly or don’t care at all. like I want to be invisible to men I don’t want to exist to them I only want to exist to women.

women writing horror that focuses on the fears of women in a society that is a constant danger to their mental health and well-being? genius. men writing horror where women suffer for shock value? garbage.

so glad they did this – transmisogyny within the lesbian community is unacceptable

professor x: “no magneto, police deserve to be at mutant pride. they’re there to keep us safe.”

my left and right brain hemispheres communicating

Why not both