Laugh Love Live

I’m sorry

I didn’t

realise

that 

was 

a

bad

thing

so sorry

i can’t hear you

over the sound

of me crushing my enemies

was looking

a little

white

so here you go

bodies hit

tha floor

I’m going to have a little rant here for a second about teen pregnancies. Stop bashing young mothers. Seriously. Stop saying they have ruined their lives, that they cannot be good mothers, or that they are whores for getting pregnant at a younger age.

I am a teen mother. I had my son at eighteen years old and I was honestly terrified when I found out I was pregnant with him. Terrified of what my parents were going to think, what my friends would say, etc. But I did what I had to do to make sure that my pregnancy was healthy and my baby was healthy. Age has nothing to do with how well you can be a mother. Absolutely nothing. There are teen mothers who are better than mothers that are middle aged and vice versa. It has to do with the person, their personality and mindset, not their age that contributes to how well they can properly parent. I happen to be the daughter of a teen mother. My mother got pregnant with me at eighteen and gave birth to me at age nineteen. All the while she worked her ass off to make sure I was well taken care of. She was finishing college while watching me and my younger sister once she was born. But she did it.

Do not tell a teen mother that she has ruined her life. Seriously, never. Having a child just means you have extra incentive to push yourself for greater things in life, for you and your child. Young mothers bust their asses to provide for their children while also trying to go to school and work. Not saying this is any different for older mothers but you get my point. Having my son was the greatest thing that ever happened to me and once he was born I never once thought my life was ruined. I have an amazing child who I would give the world to if I could.

And to finish, a teen mother is not a whore. Sometimes life just throws you a damn curve ball like pregnancy at a young age. Something happened during the act that made you get pregnant. Maybe you didn’t use protection one time. Maybe the protection broke or did not do it’s job properly. Whatever reason, this does not make that girl a whore for it.

2 Year Anniversary & 31 Weeks Pregnant