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every time a young gay person quits smoking or makes the decision that they want to quit, the sun shines on us all with the promise of happiness and beauty.

Actually I do not feel snug as a bug in a rug I feel uptight as a mite in a fight

i really value when people bring out the person in me who i truly love and enjoy being the most. the one who can put her professionalism aside. the one who is free, who feels safe letting go of the control, who gives because of love, whose soul rests, whose intuition feels settled, who feels full, who creates space, who melts in your hands.

hey. if you want to actually change minds, don't be unkind to the people you're trying to convince. or you CAN but in most scenarios you'll alienate a potential ally. what matters more to you? taking your anger out on someone? or helping them actually understand the situation at hand?

"wow you're fucking stupid OBVIOUSLY x isn't y. can you learn to read or something" <- changes no minds, the person you're talking to will struggle to agree with you because by extension they would have to agree that they're stupid for being wrong, total happiness for everyone involved is through the FLOOR. in the NEGATIVES. no one wins, even if you feel good in the moment.

all that being said, conserve your energy and efforts. if someone repeatedly shows that they have no intention of considering any of your words, disengage! walk away! you CAN change minds but you CAN'T change everyone. "is this a constructive use of my time?" is a question worth asking yourself when you catch yourself talking to someone who is attempting to animorph into a brick wall. patience and kindness are awesome weapons but you do have to pick your battles. [:

Dont be very woried about me since i deserve all of this

happy pride to fat dykes specifically

I know why you drew him. Because he is beautiful.