parents who hate each other love to be like "we have to stay together for the kids" and then every day is a toxic argument and abusive fight that the kids wouldn't have to witness if you came to better terms and stopped acting like it was about the kids
the amount of people who don't get divorced because one party is scared of child support too, it's -
like.
so.
you're not even supporting your child when you're home or..? like bro why are you mad. why are you stingy? that's your kid. you owe them. you owe them a lot more than a state mandated payment every month, so the fact that that's what's stopping you from divorcing tells me that you don't want to end the good thing you think you've got going on right now. you can get away with neglecting your kid in a broken marriage but once you become the deadbeat parent? uh-oh!
