The Lives and Times of Kitsune Took

I am not back. I am actually never going to come back lol! I’m livin’ my life. And believe me, turning my back on tumblr was The. Best. Decision. of my life.

Honestly, tumblr was awful for my mental health. Especially when it came to the topic of mental health.

But, it’s  been seven months, I’ve not been active on tumblr throughout the whole time and my mental health has drastically improved. I’m not worrying about random shit that only happens here anymore. I’m not in this fucking awful quagmire of negative bullshit anymore.

It was also a huge time waster! and with my uni studies getting ever more important and my real life getting ever bigger, so to speak... yeah. Good thing I can focus more on my real life.

That’s the thing, isn’t it? It’s real life. Real life is where the real stuff happens, the stuff that matters, the stuff that you should work at. Be it negative or positve. Or in-between. But in-between is another thing tumblr doesn’t know how to do.

I stand by the original post. I ain’t ever gonna delete this blog, just like I won’t ever throw away my journals from years ago. There’s stuff on here that I don’t want to lose. And, in a way, I like looking back every now and then. Looking back shows you how far you’ve come.

All this is to say: Bye. I won’t be back. Life wants to be lived.

fortunately, diana is mighty (x)

update:

update! the saga continues: Chris Hemsworth’s children (twin boys and a little girl) want to be Wonder Woman for Halloween.

YEAH, BECAUSE I’M YOUR CHILD. YOU MADE ME. I AM YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. I WOULD NOT EXIST IF NOT FOR YOUR RECKLESS GAME OF GRAB-ASS. I AM YOUR FAULT. YOU HAVE TO– TO AN EXTENT –TAKE CARE OF ME. I DIDN’T ASK TO EXIST. I HAPPENED BECAUSE OF YOU. THIS IS ALL ON YOU.

THEY DIDN’T ASK TO BE BORN!!!

you a bitch

Pedophiles are not LGBT, no adult engaging in a sexual relationship with a minor gets to call themselves LGBT and if you think they do fucking block me and throw yourself into the sun

TERF rhetoric is toxic and stupid and no one needs your transphobic ass any time of the year, much less the time of year when trans people should be taking pride in their identities (which is also year round) 

It is not, under any circumstances, okay to “out” someone. I don’t care if you think your intentions are good. this can destroy someone’s life. A young person could end up homeless. Or dead.

POC belong at PRIDE just as much as everyone else (we would not have this without black trans women, show some respect)

You don’t know if the “apparently straight” couple who you see at PRIDE is composed of two straight people - one could be bisexual, one could be asexual, both could be, I mean, like, don’t be that person

Or they could be there to support someone who might’ve otherwise been alone, like, just, don’t be that person who polices sexualities and shit okay

Bisexuality, pansexuality, and polysexuality all exist and deserve to be respected

seriously it’s completely possible to be attracted to two or more genders or be attracted regardless of gender and our identities don’t hurt anyone 

Just because you are LGBTQIA+ doesn’t mean you aren’t capable of being an asshole, and if you use “I’m gay!” as an excuse you need to grow up (this applies year round)

Asexuals and aromantics belong at PRIDE just as much as any other LGBTQIA+ individual, I really don’t care how many letters are in the “alphabet soup”, you have a valid identity 

polyamory is when three or more people engage in a consensual relationship, not when one person is with someone else behind their partner’s back 

polyamory is not superior to monogamy or vice versa 

buying PRIDE gear for your sexuality/gender doesn’t mean you’re selling out or giving into capitalism, if it makes you happy do it and don’t let people shame you for it

and honestly like isn’t it good for it to be normalized? I am all for Target having a PRIDE section, that’s amazing

Not everyone is okay with using the word or calling themselves “queer”, if they’re not okay with it don’t call them that 

bisexuality is not transphobic and pansexuality is not biphobic 

stay safe at PRIDE - don’t accept open drinks from strangers, ever, no matter what, people can be awful anywhere you go, just stay safe 

you don’t have to come out just because it’s PRIDE month, if it isn’t safe for you (i.e. you’ll be on the streets, homeless, etc) don’t pressure yourself 

7/6/18