* 𝐖𝐈𝐋𝐃 𝐁𝐎𝐘

✧ . *  private & independent SAM from STARDEW VALLEY est. march 2023. penned by ro (25, they/them, est). sporadic activity. headcanon-based. canon-divergent. may contain triggering content. check my carrd for more info !

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all types of love are valid with both benefits and pitfalls. people exhibit them in different ways with different people, but tend to follow patterns. everyone experiences more than one.

𝐄𝐑𝐎𝐒   (   𝐑𝐎𝐌𝐀𝐍𝐓𝐈𝐂 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄   )   𝐒𝐄𝐍𝐒𝐔𝐀𝐋𝐈𝐓𝐘   /   𝐈𝐍𝐓𝐄𝐍𝐒𝐈𝐓𝐘   /   𝐏𝐀𝐒𝐒𝐈𝐎𝐍   :   feels strong physical and emotional connection through the relationship  /  begins with a partner who is a stranger and evokes immediate excitement   /   may be exclusive but not possessive  /  seeks early sexual adventure, variety, and technique   / is ready for love and the risks.

𝐋𝐔𝐃𝐔𝐒   (   𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐏𝐄𝐓𝐈𝐓𝐈𝐕𝐄 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄   )   𝐓𝐄𝐀𝐒𝐈𝐍𝐆   /   𝐀𝐓𝐓𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍   /   𝐅𝐔𝐍 𝐁𝐄𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐄 𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐌𝐈𝐓𝐌𝐄𝐍𝐓   :   is not ready to commit to anyone  /   has no intention of falling in love   /   is anxious about a partner who is too intimate  /   allows early sexual activity only for fun without emotional connections.

𝐒𝐓𝐎𝐑𝐆𝐄   (   𝐅𝐀𝐌𝐈𝐋𝐈𝐀𝐋 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄   )   𝐋𝐎𝐘𝐀𝐋𝐓𝐘   /   𝐒𝐈𝐁𝐋𝐈𝐍𝐆𝐒 & 𝐅𝐑𝐈𝐄𝐍𝐃𝐒   /   𝐂𝐎𝐌𝐌𝐈𝐓𝐌𝐄𝐍𝐓   :   is not looking for love but is ready if encountered   /  is quietly possessive but not overly jealous  /  believes love comes from friendship but not a goal of life  /   only has sexual desires after commitment is declared.

𝐌𝐀𝐍𝐈𝐀   (   𝐎𝐁𝐒𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐈𝐕𝐄 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄   )   𝐎𝐁𝐒𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐈𝐎𝐍   /   𝐏𝐎𝐒𝐒𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐈𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒   /   𝐉𝐄𝐀𝐋𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐘   (   𝐥𝐮𝐝𝐮𝐬 + 𝐞𝐫𝐨𝐬   )   :   is anxious about falling in love and has expectations of pain   /   quickly becomes overwhelmed by thoughts of their partner   /   forces partner into showing affection and emotion   /   is easily frustrated and does not enjoy sexual intimacy   /   is very possessive and jealous.

𝐀𝐆𝐀𝐏𝐄   (   𝐀𝐋𝐓𝐑𝐔𝐈𝐒𝐓𝐈𝐂 𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄   )   𝐔𝐍𝐁𝐑𝐄𝐀𝐊𝐀𝐁𝐋𝐄   /   𝐅𝐎𝐑𝐆𝐈𝐕𝐄𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒   /   𝐖𝐇𝐎𝐋𝐈𝐒𝐓𝐈𝐂   (   𝐞𝐫𝐨𝐬 + 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐠𝐞   )   :   is attracted to several types of people /   meets people easily so most likely will begin with a stranger  / feels concern and care for each partner they have  /   is neither not jealous nor obsessive   / enjoys sex and is willing to improve it.

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