queer disaster // 21

“i’m just so subby i can’t say no even when i really don’t want it” you are an unsafe play partner.

reblogging this a second time bc i think it’s really valuable to look at what abuse in kink CAN look like instead of just discussing what it DOESNT look like. I wanna talk about this more but frankly, this isn’t where my experience lies. if anyone has posts on the topic i’d love to read them.

i cannot stress enough that "femboy" is a transmisogynistic slur and a transmisogynistic caricature, and it is one that is employed overwhelmingly by tme people disrespecting and degendering transfems in the name of coopting our aesthetics and wearing our marginalization like a costume. yes some girls reclaim the slur, largely out of necessity to make a living doing sex work that covets their bodies but refuses to gender them correctly while doing it, but that does not save the term. in fact it is all the more damning.

so here's a date idea. I put a XL squishmallow behind you on the bed so you're at a lovely comfy angle. I tie your wrists to the headboard and get you *almost* undressed. shirt open but only just to the nipples, for example. in between kissing you i just feed you drinks. i push my thigh between your legs. if you resist the urge to grind on me you get another drink. i hand you a full bottle. i command you to drink. i go down on you. you're so fucking wasted and blissed out you keep forgetting to drink and i have to look up and remind you to drink. you suckle from the bottle, it tastes like water by now, and you can't remember what cumming is or if it's happening, all you know is how good you feel. somebody's moaning...oh, it's you. you can't feel yourself moaning, but you can hear it, and when you open your eyes all you can see is lights swirling around and multiplying. you pass out; I wake you up and encourage you to finish the bottle. it's a new, full bottle, but I convince you it's the old one and you just haven't finished. yoi dribk mᵒrₑeᵛnₑ⋆⭒˚｡⋆ ᶠhₒuᵍh gᵒu xᵃnₜ.,sₑe ˖°.aₘs iₛhᶦpₗmʸ coᵛj iᵇtₒyᵒu sᵐ ‎‧₊˚guʸs,xᵃ anᵈ ᵤr. Sgᵃsₙ ⁿd ‎‧₊✧˚₊‧

Who is going on this date with me?

how nice it would be to be taken care of by two soft doms... snuggled in between them, being kissed everywhere, praised for being a good sweet girl... then ending the night with their straps fucking both of your holes at the same time, pussy dripping everywhere... it would be so nice 🙈

they should invent a disproportionate emotional response that goes away when you understand it's disproportionate. they should invent a way to logic yourself out of emotions

anyone want pics of my holes?

wish $20 was $20 again.... it's literally $5. if ur fucking lucky

my hips are literally made for grabbing. yet here I am. ungrabbed

does anyone want to be best friends that kiss and also sometimes maybe fuck even