My Obsession

Hi my name is Komal and I am remaking this post. I've been trying to leave my toxic South Asian household for years but I was being financially abused by my family. I am a survivor of CSA. I have C-PTSD, Major Chronic Depression, PCOS, degenerative disk disease, constant stomach issues and some kind of Disassociative disorder that I'm trying to work on. I haven't been able to work a proper job since 2022 and I've been placed as an admin at work but I barely have hours. I'm constantly disassociative because of chronic pain and my family was denying me medical aid and I can't drive due to my PTSD and disassociative issues. I live on my own now but until I can get my health issues addressed I can't work or go back to school to finish my degree. I suspect my health issues are due to the SA I endured as a child. On top of it all my grandpa passed away before I even finished my first month on my lease. I wanted to repair our relationship the most but now that his gone I'm going full no contact, or at least try too. I was removed from my family home because my mother claimed that I hit her and had me charged with DV, she had lied to the cops and told them I hit her. I have never hit anyone other than when I was undiagnosed and I had severe psychosis. I don't remember the times that I was violent because of the psychosis. I was homeless for the next 5 months. I am so lucky to have the friends that I do because I at least had a couch to sleep on for those 5 months, I stayed with multiple friends during this time. I have a cat, Ares. He is my emotional support cat and he was an unofficial medical alert cat for my grandpa when I lived with them. He knows when I have really bad stomach cramps from my PCOS acting up and he'll massage my stomach and he demands that I sleep on the side of his shoulder so he can purr my migraines away. He has occasional bladder issues and I need to have some funds for in case he gets sick and also to continue buying anti-inflammatory meds to keep he from getting sick in the first place. He has a brother, his littermate, Apollo. I want to reunite them but I need to fight my family for him. I have SNAP but it doesn't cover cat food or litter for Ares.

This is my GoFundMe. There are more details on there but:

TLDR: I need help paying for bills, food, basic necessities until my health issues get better enough for me to get back to work and school. My family abandoned me when I needed them the most. SNAP doesn't cover things for my cat.

Here are some photos of my boys

The video is from the day I moved in my stuff from the old house and I was finally able to reunite with Ares but my family almost took Ares when I tried to fight for Apollo.

This is my Handsome Apollo.

Guys my snap got reduced by $60 and I'm having chest pains from stomach issues and the only thing helping is ginger ale and it's really cutting into my SNAP fund to have to buy a constant supply of ginger ale because I wake 5 out of 7 days a week with chest pain either gas trapping in my chest my stomach cramping so hard my chest hurts. I really need donations. I've had a few people try to scam me like I have money for them to steal. I was supposed to have Epidural shots in my back but the doctors decided not to because I reacted badly to the anesthesia. I couldn't stay still enough to get both sides done during my first round in May. My left side has been the side I've been having a lot of pain in, especially right around the hip socket. My tail bone has also been on fire the last 3 weeks because I only go epidural shots in one area the rest of my back because the pain in my back became uneven. I haven't been able to work and due to the identity thief that I sadly experienced days after my grandpa's death and was unable to reserve the damage they did to my account. I changed the deposit info at work but they send the out your next paycheck as a paper check to make sure that the info lines up and idk how long that will take. I have to reapply for SNAP anyway because I think I get some funds in July and it will expire. I also need to call social security and have my Payee switched and my SSI readjusted but that has to wait until monday.

Any will help, please I'm getting desperate and my support system is overwhelmed and I'm being too feel like I ask too much of those who care for me.

the "milkman" is a common figure in stories depicting a woman's infidelity and adulterous affair.

this implies that the ability to provide milk would both decrease the likelihood of a man abandoning his wife and children, as it would eliminate the need for leaving to get milk AND would secure that man's marriage, as his wife would have no need to seek milk from an extraneous source.

therefore, all men should produce milk, through various means such as:

- being a cow

- being an almond

- being a woman

- being a coconut

- being in the omegaverse

- being an oat

(list is exemplary and not finite)

yes, India made legal gender change impossible but my friends have always gendered me correctly and stick to it even when it confuses other people and my friend's little sibling calls me older brother in Kannada yes, India made legal gender change impossible but my dog learned my new name quicker than the humans and she runs to give me a kiss when she's told to without being confused about who's being referred to

yes, India made legal gender change impossible but I can feel the Adam's apple growing in my throat and my muscles getting stronger, and my smile more real and I'm growing a beard, and I talk more freely

12 year old Jason as Robin: Hey Riddler! How do you confuse an idiot?

Riddler: How?

Jason: Bicycle

Riddler: That doesn’t make any sense

Jason: I guess we found the idiot then

Riddler: …

Riddler: When you die, I won’t send flowers to the funeral

Jason: You better check my grave yourself to make sure I’m really gone

~years later~

Red Hood: Hey Riddler

What if the Riddler actually did find out which grave was Robin's, and checked it?

2am, on a random Thursday night:

Riddler, frantically flicking the Batsignal off and on: C'mon, where the fuck is he?!

Gordon, very confused: How did you get up here?

Riddler gets absolutely obsessed with this, cause how could you not, right?!?

Bats freaks out as you do because Riddler apparently knows all of their secret identities now even if according to him “that’s not important right now.”

Batman calls Superman to check the grave too, and once he verified it’s empty, they dig it up and Bruce goes over the evidence to determine what happened (Jason dug himself out and that’s a whole other traumatic reveal he’ll deal with later)

It takes a minute to get an idea of what happened, but Bruce discovers that the League might be involved, so to Nanda Parbat they go, they being batman, nightwing, Superman, Wonder Woman (who found out somehow and Bruce is too busy to even look into that [it was Clark]) and riddler who WILL be seeing this through, thank you very much. Honestly Batman can’t find it in himself to care so why not. Riddler is coming with.

They reach Nanda Parbat.

Bruce: I’m here for my son.

Someone else, Ra’s or Talia or whoever: How’d you find out about Damian?

Bruce: who?

So apparently he’s here for two sons. Dick gives him a look of absolute judgment but he can deal with that later. Or never. That works too.

Riddler makes himself surprisingly useful by proceeding to annoy the ever-living shit out of Ra’s.

Maybe Batman can convince riddler to stop being a villain because everyone honestly he would love to see more of this. But no time right now, they have to find his son. Sons. That’s going to take a minute to get used to.

So they’re working their way though and Ra’s doesn’t seem to be trying too hard to stop them (because honestly if they take that absolute menace of a zombie kid away from here HE’S not going to be the one to complain, and it’s not like Talia could even blame him in that case)

So anyway batman and co are going through the (very large) place and eventually they barge into some room and Jason’s in there just chilling. Maybe eating cereal or something. Sweatpants or something like that. Just, not what any of them would have expected.

Jason takes one look at Batman and yells out “TALIA,” who appears right on cue.

Jason: why is he here?

Talia: He’s your father.

Riddler, popping in from the background: I figured it out!

Jason: *confused look*

Riddler: you said to check your grave

Talia: great. Now that that’s all settled, go pack. You’re going back to Gotham.

Jason: wait no, what about-

Talia, putting him on the cheek: I’ll take care of it sweetie.

Talia then leads all of them to Damian and introduces Damian to his father.

Damian: I thought you’d be taller.

Dick: Yep. Definitely your kid.

Talia makes them sit down for dinner all together and tells them they can go back in the morning.

Honestly Bruce isn’t going to fuss about that right now because he has SO many questions for Talia but Jason’s alive and he has another kid too that apparently Talia didn’t feel like telling him about, and Jason has possibly spent the last hour glaring at him but he’s alive, so they can work whatever this is out

Meanwhile Talia takes a quick jaunt over to Gotham and decapitates a clown.

Batman and co head back to Gotham the next day, Jason (reluctantly) and Damian (skeptically) in tow, only to find out immediately on arrival that the joker is dead.

Jason immediately stops glaring and Talia is suspiciously waiting for them at the manor.

She and Alfred both raise an eyebrow in Bruce’s direction as if daring him to say anything.

He does not.

Tim shows up because he’s here to find out what happened/if everyone is okay, and sees Jason. Jason starts glaring again as Dick introduces the two of them. Tim’s eyes go wide and he’s so excited and all of a sudden Jason is faced with a very excited, very talkative kid that’s like four feet tall and dang it, now he can’t hate the kid.

Damian does not approve of the attention Jason is giving Tim. Jason does stop Damian from stabbing Tim though.

They’ll work on it.

At some point though Tim asks why the riddler is there too.

Riddler is here to stay now. There is no getting rid of him. When Steph shows up riddler announces that he will be coparenting her with Batman and Steph is just like lol nope

Bruce can tolerate Riddler’s continued presence in their lives because (a) it means he’s too busy to do crime and villainy stuff and (b) he sends daily riddles to Ra’s and manages to annoy him from a distance and honestly that’s a wonderful thing for Batman to sponsor

@folderalconspiracy yes yes yes

And then he uses that argument for everything.

Bruce: Don’t touch that.

Ed: Yeah, well, I won, so… *touches the thing*

*thing explodes*

Ed:

Bruce:

no its one of my fancy pencils :)

Meet you on the moon ☾

inspired by artemis II

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Wikipedia.