verbal lollygagging

I like not having fandom sideblogs. read my posts boy

"yeah i wrote the same on girls' nametags" "you can't write this on chon's nametag he's not an object". looks at the camera.

'tonchon treats sexual assault with the weight it deserves' well i'm not sure that's right. 'tonchon deals with sexual assault more seriously than the wuxia dubcon danmei chon imprinted on and frankly many modern shows' now this we cannot possibly deny.

god help me but i genuinely do find the tonchon gym scene charming. ton going i caught a glimpse of you when i thought i could get away with it saw you were scrawny so i'm inventing an excuse to be close to you in a place that's familiar to me taking you to the gym; don't worry i've already thought ahead to the showers packed you clothes. the silly innuendos that still somehow avoid hitting me over the head with the concept (i am not suggesting they're subtle; it's just that i feel like i'm being invited in on the joke rather than being dragged in and held hostage). chon aware of his feelings and trying to hide his reactions because of them vs ton being aware of his and pushing further because [he thinks] it's the most he'll get and there's a kind of safety in that. i just think they're neat.....

deriding things as performative is anti third space

im sitting on a patio at my favorite cafe rn and im hand stitching them hem of a dress im working on. and i can see why someone would say im being performative by working on something like this in a public space. but frankly theres no element of that. i just want to work somewhere that isnt my apartment. i want to be in public, i wanna chat with strangers, i wanna see the world. it’s nice to hang out somewhere that isnt my home!

what i mean is when you say people are being performative you discourage them from doing shit they love in public. and thats no way to foster the world we want to see.