I have trouble reading between the lines and picking up on implicit information? Actually, I’ve learned the importance of giving and receiving precise, specific instructions in order to avoid time consuming miscommunications.

I’m easily bored with only one task? Actually, I have a curious mind and thrive in places with a wide range of tasks as I prefer dynamic environments where I can contribute to many projects.

I have trouble with white lies that are merely social niceties? Actually, I prioritize a transparent work environment where we can tackle issues head-on.

As a gray ace lesbian trans gal, I've witnessed first hand how hypersexual some trans positives spaces can be, overwhelming so in that. I've been on discord servers where I felt wrong and inadecuate if i wasn't open to sharing my nudes with others or doing e-sex or flirting with everyone around because that's what everyone did and hat's what everyone expected.

This doesn't mean there shouldn't be spaces like that, it is good that everyone can find what they want here and there, but also we should be open to recognising that this happens and that it makes certain demographics not feel welcome.

Because a while ago I read someone saying that "acephobia happens on cis/straight spaces but not in trans/lesbian ones. Trans/lesbian gals who are asexual don't experience any kind of discrimination" and i was like... are you sure?

Do you really think, with how hypersexual a lot of trans spaces are, that no asexual gals around you feel uncomfortable or alienated or unwelcome in there? Discrimination is not just "calling someone a slur" you know, it can take many forms.

The same thing happens with work out videos, another thing I'm in to. I want to watch a pretty lady move her body, and all the videos I can are pretty lady working out before all her clothes are stripped off and a nondescript man fucks her on the workout equipment. Make sure to get a closeup of her face grimacing in pain so we know he's going hard and rough!

I'm looking for a thing and porn studios think I want that thing as set dressing for two people fucking hard, but what I actually want IS THAT THING! One of the hottest videos I've ever seen was a sweaty, kind of chubby, middleaged woman working out nude with halfway decent lighting and static camera angles. The bar is not very high for production value or talent selection.