this was originally a sims blog after tumblr nerfed my previous 7yo blog (fuck you, tumblr), but it has descended back into an everything blog ! 🩷
call me jammy - im trans, nonbinary and go by they/them. i love talking to people and making friends, please dont hesitate to message me!!
i have made so many side-blogs that i need a pinned post for a directory - keep reading under the cut for all those!! <3
my fandom blogs !!
@jamssims-reblogs - im not playing TS4 at the moment for many reasons, esp. after my 4yo, fully customised save from a blank slate corrupted. i still reblog CC and creations or leave comments! but losing anadius sucked (respect to the og) and I hate EA.
@therickestsummer - we're BACK baby!! im posting my own thoughts and analysis of season 9 as i watch the episodes!! otherwise, we're out here reblogging art, fics, and other thoughts from the community
@superbestenemies - one of my og fandoms... i love the new and old content, im always rewatching the show! i have 100% completed TFBW and TSOT on Steam, buuuut I don't know about touching Snow Day
@churchofelysium - yup, it was only a matter of time before it happened. why wouldnt i end up loving a game with a deeply distressed, substance-dependent man and his deprived, repressed, second-hand man through a critical analysis of systemic functions?
@captainjamster - im less active around here, writing is on hiatus. the racism and misogyny is a little rough to navigate. i still rb art + fics, and you never know when ill post some drafts!
@moremousebite - it gets more active around here when i get the itch and start crying over uhhhhhhh just about every character and how obvious hilson is??? but i cant take that pain on the regular
@sunandstraw - ive been following this shit for over 12 years and i STILL havent caught up. but im soft for this anime and my baby brother loves it
@tothetavern - my merlin blog because that show will never die and neither will my love for it
@starcrossedwar - the clone wars tv you watched when you were younger got you here, too? no? well, we're in this heartbreak together anyway :)
non-fandom blogs
@bunnybloggin - bunnies are my favourite animals and i need somewhere to freak out about them 🐇
@agenericanimeblog - for random anime i like, including love nikki !!
i cant stop you interacting, but minors, terfs, radfems and other gender- or bio-essentialists, any kind of bigots, antis (see my main blog for why anti logic is flawed), pro gen-ai arent welcome here and will most likely be blocked on sight
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i have a random issue with a handful of pre-srar fall out boy songs where I LOVE the the start of the song or just generally everything but the chorus, but the chorus itself i find kind of underwhelming (eg: ilalwtwiattgyo, ttotbo, igatrimeanomf, cfmrfrpfmsr, gblogbd(dyptstsasgts)
The older i get the more i understand why some people become obsessed with privacy, not because they’re hiding something, but because being constantly perceived starts to feel spiritually exhausting.
Did you know that soda machines at restaurants and movie theaters spy on you? That most common new cars now record your sexual preferences and send it to the manufacturer (and also data about anyone who also gets in your car, walks by your car, and maybe happens to be within visual range of your car)? That grocery stores are trying to force customers to download an app to scan barcodes on shelves instead of putting up prices, so the app can scan the phone, decide how much that customer should be squeezed for, and adjust the price? That more and more innocent people are being sent to jail for crimes committed hundreds of miles away because an AI facial recognition algorithm spit their faces out and the cops didn't bother to do the most basic of checks?
I am not uptight about privacy because I'm hiding something. I'm uptight about it because the people who dismiss my right to privacy are dangerous to you and me and our families, personally, all the time.
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my that one friend that's too woke opinion is that in a similar vein to how you almost never see fat people or women without makeup on tv you never really see anyone experiencing incontinence issues unless it's a humiliating comedic moment at their expense and that's kind of scary
like sorry to be the bearer of bad news but people piss themselves. when they're afraid. when they've experienced mental and/or physical trauma and their body needs a way to express that stress. when they've been sexually assaulted. when they get older and their muscles start to wear out from a lifetime of service. a not insignificant majority of people Will experience incontinence in their lifetimes and while there are steps you can take to manage it for your own comfort and others', there's simply no moral dimension to it whatsoever. & like i'm not saying every show and movie needs checkhov's bed wetting scene but we have seriously got to get more okay with acknowledging that somehow.
Across three preregistered studies, participants interacting with sycophantic AI became more convinced of their own rightness and less willing to repair relationships. Yet at the same time, participants rated sycophantic AI models as higher quality, more trustworthy, and more desirable for future use, which may explain why this behavior has persisted despite its harmful impacts.
Myra Cheng et al. "Sycophantic AI decreases prosocial intentions and promotes dependence." Science 391, eaec8352 (2026).
proship = idgaf what you do. it's fiction. ship who you want, i can scroll away from the ones i don't like.
antiship = anyone who ships or writes things that i don't like is disgusting and evil and should be harassed off the internet and then raped until dead.
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I loathe being vulnerable on main. My throat just tightens up when I think about coming from a family where you're actually wanted.
It hurts so bad to want approval and acceptance from people who would only ever love a narrow kernel of my soul. I would rather turn myself inside out tenfold before I compromise myself for people that treat me like an invasive pest, but I can't stop reaching for their hands in my dreams.
You know that Margaret Atwood quote talking about how a major effect of existing as a women in a patriarchal society that objectifies women is that when you are a woman, even when you're alone, you can't escape that self-peception from the view of the male gaze?
The one that ends, "You are a woman with a man inside watching a woman. You are your own voyeur."?
I really do think that pushing this concept precisely one degree further in the other direction would explain a LOT about how we ended up with this whole "Incel, looksmaxxing, manosphere" clusterfuck, I just need 20 minutes and an antidepressant to articulate how
LEVEL 1: "Man" and "Woman" roles are constructed; posed as a strict binary with discrete and disparate traits and roles.
LEVEL 2: Man wields power; Woman relies on Man's approval. One role is perceived and valued as better, stronger, smarter. Requiring Man's approval, Woman cultivates inner "man" in order to see herself from Man's perspective as a tool to better anticipate Man's desires.
LEVEL 3: Man perceives Woman's "inner man"; Man perceives anticipatory and appealing behavior as deceptive and manipulative. The potential ability of Woman to manipulate and deceive Man places Women in a position of power above Man, which Man perceives as a threat. In response, Man cultivates "inner woman": a tool which he uses to perceive the "inner man" who Woman uses to predict and appeal to Man.
LEVEL 4: Man "sees" the caricature of "Man" further distorted by the caricature of his conceptualized "Woman" and feels threatened and inferior, but at the same time trapped by the binary which generates this power struggle. Inside of him is a deceptive and threatening "Woman" who he rejects; inside of HER is the Ultimate Man, who this image of Woman supposedly desires the approval of.
If Woman can predict Man, then Woman is an opponent who leverages power through engagement with Man. The only way for "Man" to escape the Threat that Woman poses is to cease engagement. He retains "victory" (escape from woman) by maintaining distance from Woman, and because explicitly admitting the possibility that Woman could ever hold power over Man is Losing, has no option but to tell himself that this is not Fear of Losing Control, but a natural consequence of Posessing Control.
Man rejects any but the most surface-level engagement with Woman, but because "Hiding From Woman" means "Woman Is Threat", and BELIEVING "Woman Is Threat" is unacceptable, Man attempts to cut Woman from the narrative.
LEVEL 5: Man, possessing the "inner woman"'s "inner man" but determined to escape the influence of "woman", mentally erases "Woman" but retains the caricature's caricature of "inner man", who is desirable to BE.
Man possesses exaggerated image of Man, who now exists solely as the Ultimate Desireable Form. In order to achieve this form, Man must constantly see through his eyes, but in order to remain safe in his position of power over Woman, he must erase any trace of evidence that he is DOING this for Woman.
Man must Be the Ultimate Man, because [redacted], who requires Man's Approval.
Having bought in to this dichotomy and fearing the terror and uncertainty of the unknown, unable to shake the foundations of the reality he must now experience, Man forces himself into choosing between floating without purpose or structure in a void where he has no control at all over his environment, or a world where he Cannot be afraid of Woman, he is Superior to Woman, and there is nothing more important that Being The Ultimate Man Receiving Approval from the Ultimate Man
terfs and radfems fuck clean off by the way, I'm a trans dude and you're both weird, but ANYHOW
My theory is this:
If we construct an environment where the rules are
"There are two parties that cannot survive without assistance from the other"
"One party dominates the other"
"Control is domination", and
"To be dominated threatens your survival",
it's pretty much inevitable that at some point we will end up with a significant population of the Dominant party whose psychological state is very much like a traumatized sailor who, after cannibalizing his crewmates for survival, cannot recognize bread as food and instead attempts to eat his rescuers